Are Fetishes Hereditary? - Rape Board

kodavictimm · 08-18-2006, 07:46 PM

The question we have raised some times is about if a fetish like like rape or sleepy sex or a foot fetish can be learned or is it something we are borned with?

I had before some times believed we learn this things. I remember liking feets as early as I can remember and thought it was because of my mother and my being foot problems when I was borned.

But the truth today is that I have chenged my mind. I just did it today. I found out that my seven months old grandson who has not seen any foot problems or is too old to know what stuff is will suck his momma's toes when he gets on the couch with her. It just camed up in conversation today and she does not know I like feet. It was joking about his not sucking his thumb much and she says "oh but he likes to suck my toes when I'm lying on the couch and he's on the couch too."

So maybe I think now that it is in his blood. He already looked like me baby pictures so I know he is part me! And I wonder if he will turn into rape fantasy liker too or now if that fetish will avoid him?

Sodoman · 08-18-2006, 07:52 PM

I think you are seeing that in the wrong light. By that I mean a toe, to a baby, would certainly look similar to a thumb. Also it's in a baby's nature to put things in their mouth, tis why you have to make sure there is nothing small lying around that they could swallow and choke on. Especially if they are teething, then not only do they put things in there mouth to chew on to try and relieve the pain but they are quite cranky.

Oh as far as the whole fetish being inherited, well, I don't think so personally but anything is possible. I think fetishes are learned, now I do believe they can be learned from a very young age. That's just my opinion. Very good question.

kodavictimm · 08-18-2006, 09:17 PM

I at first thought maybe it was the anything in the mouth thing but at this age so far he does not do his thumb much and many babys will put their own toes in their mouth but he has not been seen doing that. Maybe it is wishful thinking but I resisted the urge to shout out That's My Boy!

MKP4 · 08-18-2006, 10:43 PM

Sexual tendancy (not fetish necessarily) can be hereditary.
Fetishes are generally cultural and experiential.

That meaning, if you're parent had very high sex-drives, you may too. This can even carry into sexual orientation, age of sexual awareness, etc.

Fetishes are generally spawned by something you experience at the time of sexual awareness that your brain associates as sexually positive. You cultivate these feelings as the brain starts to give sexual urges some context.

The advent of television and the media has given the world a whole slew of sexual fetishes as the variation in visual and audio experiences are brought to developing youths in ways never previously available.

That is one possible reason why fetishes and mild kinkiness is becoming more and more acceptable. The classical idea of sexuality (good clean sex) is challenged as variations are infused by the broadly availably media depicting different forms of sensuality.

I'm fairly sure that refutes that fetishes are wholly passes on by genes alone.

Good question.

Sodoman · 08-19-2006, 01:04 AM

That's funny Koda,

Rheostatic · 08-19-2006, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by kodavictimm

I at first thought maybe it was the anything in the mouth thing but at this age so far he does not do his thumb much and many babys will put their own toes in their mouth but he has not been seen doing that. Maybe it is wishful thinking but I resisted the urge to shout out That's My Boy!

Funny. However I do have to agree with sodomon, it think it's more an exploration thing. One of the possible reasons is that his mother's toes have their own inherent scent that is pleasing, because it is associated with "mommy". It would be interesting to see if it develops into anything.

You and I know better than anyone, podophilia is probably the most common fetish that exists, and I have laid down a number of theories elsewhere to explain why. If he does show tendencies, you will probably see it before anyone else, and can really be a help in answering his questions when he reaches an appropriate age.

Fla Force Fantasy Man · 08-19-2006, 10:18 PM

I think it is half and half

I think if you have a very creative soul you get bored with regular sex and want to push the evelope.

But at the same time upbringing can also influence

One lady friend of mine enjoyed it because she was raped in real life and the pretend was therapy for her because re enacting it she was in control (even though I was forcing her)

Interesting

Sternenlied · 08-20-2006, 05:06 PM

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Also it's in a baby's nature to put things in their mouth ...

Not only in a baby's ...

I think it's not that simple to explain. There's no general answer to that, since (in my opinion) sexual preferences and their development are far too individual to relate them to one single explanation.
They're not too different from any other likes and dislikes you got. I mean why do you like a certain sport, way of clothing, music, whatever?

Sodoman · 08-20-2006, 05:17 PM

Very good point, Stern!

Becka · 08-22-2006, 08:42 PM

I don't know the answer to this question and I am not going to offer solid scientific evidence either way...All I have to add is that my precious little toddler son has the nasty habit of picking up random pieces of rope or string and tying up the pink power ranger and his supergirl action figure. I'm sure there is a perfectly 'normal' explanation for it but ... DAMN!

B.

Sodoman · 08-22-2006, 08:50 PM

That's so cute and funny! Bondage Ranger!

Rheostatic · 08-23-2006, 06:55 AM

Guess we'll be seeing him on here in about 15 years or so.

MarcEdeSade · 08-23-2006, 12:31 PM

I'm sure it's like allergy theorey.

The current wisdom goes; allergies are not hereditary, but the tendancy to become allergic can be...

a child may be predisposed to become allergic to things, but which things it becomes allergic to are based on what allergens they're exposed to.

While I severely doubt a fetish can be hereditary, It is likely that the tendancy to have a fetish of some sort has a genetic component.

I know a 3 year old who jacks off to dora the explorer. I'm sure he'll have a fetish for latina women for the rest of his life.

Sodoman · 08-23-2006, 01:59 PM

A 3 year old?

MarcEdeSade · 08-23-2006, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Sodoman

A 3 year old?

It's cute, really!

If left alone watching Dora the explorer (and only that show), as soon as no-one is around, he starts playing with it...Someone walks in, he stops, but you can tell....

nothing wrong with it. Just means he's exploring that side of himself. most kids do at that stage of development. it usually subsides in first grade, to awake with a vengeance at puberty.

Sodoman · 08-23-2006, 03:20 PM

You are right and that's funny...Lol

Rheostatic · 08-24-2006, 08:10 AM

Oh yeah, baby, you know what I like!

Sodoman · 08-24-2006, 01:25 PM

OMG....

MKP4 · 08-26-2006, 12:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Rheostatic

Oh yeah, baby, you know what I like!

Today the part of Gal4 will be played by Rheostatic.

Rheostatic · 08-26-2006, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by MKP4

Today the part of Gal4 will be played by Rheostatic.

Wow, I suddenly feel dirty. And possibly a little psychotic.

08-18-2006, 07:46 PM	#1
kodavictimm Privileged Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 502 Reputation: 484	Are Fetishes Hereditary? The question we have raised some times is about if a fetish like like rape or sleepy sex or a foot fetish can be learned or is it something we are borned with? I had before some times believed we learn this things. I remember liking feets as early as I can remember and thought it was because of my mother and my being foot problems when I was borned. But the truth today is that I have chenged my mind. I just did it today. I found out that my seven months old grandson who has not seen any foot problems or is too old to know what stuff is will suck his momma's toes when he gets on the couch with her. It just camed up in conversation today and she does not know I like feet. It was joking about his not sucking his thumb much and she says "oh but he likes to suck my toes when I'm lying on the couch and he's on the couch too." So maybe I think now that it is in his blood. He already looked like me baby pictures so I know he is part me! And I wonder if he will turn into rape fantasy liker too or now if that fetish will avoid him?

08-18-2006, 07:52 PM	#2
Sodoman Backdoor Bandit Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S. Posts: 2,144 Reputation: 28425	I think you are seeing that in the wrong light. By that I mean a toe, to a baby, would certainly look similar to a thumb. Also it's in a baby's nature to put things in their mouth, tis why you have to make sure there is nothing small lying around that they could swallow and choke on. Especially if they are teething, then not only do they put things in there mouth to chew on to try and relieve the pain but they are quite cranky. Oh as far as the whole fetish being inherited, well, I don't think so personally but anything is possible. I think fetishes are learned, now I do believe they can be learned from a very young age. That's just my opinion. Very good question. __________________ "The mind is a beautiful thing to fuck." Last edited by Sodoman; 08-18-2006 at 08:06 PM.

08-19-2006, 01:04 AM	#5
Sodoman Backdoor Bandit Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S. Posts: 2,144 Reputation: 28425	That's funny Koda, __________________ "The mind is a beautiful thing to fuck."

08-20-2006, 05:17 PM	#9
Sodoman Backdoor Bandit Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S. Posts: 2,144 Reputation: 28425	Very good point, Stern! __________________ "The mind is a beautiful thing to fuck."

08-22-2006, 08:42 PM	#10
Becka Immodest Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 1,407 Reputation: 36018	I don't know the answer to this question and I am not going to offer solid scientific evidence either way...All I have to add is that my precious little toddler son has the nasty habit of picking up random pieces of rope or string and tying up the pink power ranger and his supergirl action figure. I'm sure there is a perfectly 'normal' explanation for it but ... DAMN! B. __________________ Vital Board Info Hey, where am I going? And why am I in this hand basket? Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.

08-18-2006, 09:17 PM	#3
kodavictimm Privileged Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 502 Reputation: 484	I at first thought maybe it was the anything in the mouth thing but at this age so far he does not do his thumb much and many babys will put their own toes in their mouth but he has not been seen doing that. Maybe it is wishful thinking but I resisted the urge to shout out That's My Boy!

08-18-2006, 10:43 PM	#4
MKP4 Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 207 Reputation: 51	Sexual tendancy (not fetish necessarily) can be hereditary. Fetishes are generally cultural and experiential. That meaning, if you're parent had very high sex-drives, you may too. This can even carry into sexual orientation, age of sexual awareness, etc. Fetishes are generally spawned by something you experience at the time of sexual awareness that your brain associates as sexually positive. You cultivate these feelings as the brain starts to give sexual urges some context. The advent of television and the media has given the world a whole slew of sexual fetishes as the variation in visual and audio experiences are brought to developing youths in ways never previously available. That is one possible reason why fetishes and mild kinkiness is becoming more and more acceptable. The classical idea of sexuality (good clean sex) is challenged as variations are infused by the broadly availably media depicting different forms of sensuality. I'm fairly sure that refutes that fetishes are wholly passes on by genes alone. Good question.

08-19-2006, 10:18 PM	#7
Fla Force Fantasy Man Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: North Florida Posts: 43 Reputation: 312	I think it is half and half I think if you have a very creative soul you get bored with regular sex and want to push the evelope. But at the same time upbringing can also influence One lady friend of mine enjoyed it because she was raped in real life and the pretend was therapy for her because re enacting it she was in control (even though I was forcing her) Interesting

08-22-2006, 08:50 PM	#11
Sodoman Backdoor Bandit Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S. Posts: 2,144 Reputation: 28425	That's so cute and funny! Bondage Ranger! __________________ "The mind is a beautiful thing to fuck."

08-23-2006, 06:55 AM	#12
Rheostatic Rape Board Chancellor Join Date: May 2006 Location: Southern Ontario, Canada Posts: 409 Reputation: 768	Guess we'll be seeing him on here in about 15 years or so. __________________ In Somnium, Veritas

08-23-2006, 12:31 PM	#13
MarcEdeSade Amoralist Libertine Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 391 Reputation: 1262	I'm sure it's like allergy theorey. The current wisdom goes; allergies are not hereditary, but the tendancy to become allergic can be... a child may be predisposed to become allergic to things, but which things it becomes allergic to are based on what allergens they're exposed to. While I severely doubt a fetish can be hereditary, It is likely that the tendancy to have a fetish of some sort has a genetic component. I know a 3 year old who jacks off to dora the explorer. I'm sure he'll have a fetish for latina women for the rest of his life. __________________ Pain is inevitable....suffering is optional

08-23-2006, 01:59 PM	#14
Sodoman Backdoor Bandit Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S. Posts: 2,144 Reputation: 28425	A 3 year old? __________________ "The mind is a beautiful thing to fuck."

08-23-2006, 03:20 PM	#16
Sodoman Backdoor Bandit Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S. Posts: 2,144 Reputation: 28425	You are right and that's funny...Lol __________________ "The mind is a beautiful thing to fuck."

08-24-2006, 08:10 AM	#17
Rheostatic Rape Board Chancellor Join Date: May 2006 Location: Southern Ontario, Canada Posts: 409 Reputation: 768	Oh yeah, baby, you know what I like! __________________ In Somnium, Veritas Last edited by Rheostatic; 12-06-2006 at 09:40 AM.

08-24-2006, 01:25 PM	#18
Sodoman Backdoor Bandit Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: U.S. Posts: 2,144 Reputation: 28425	OMG.... __________________ "The mind is a beautiful thing to fuck."