It happened in real life. What now? - Page 3 - Rape Board

batffink · 03-20-2009, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by socyologyst

Hello all, I just learned that an online friend of mine, a fellow aficionado of rape fantasies, was recently raped in real life.

I'm wondering how to approach this, how to help her get over this terrible incident.

I'm especially interested in the ladies' perspectives, as this friend of mine is a woman in her early twenties.

Any help would be much appreciated...

Coming to Rapeboard to ask for advice regarding a rape victim is a bit naive isn't it? It's like approaching a pride of lions for assistance with tonight's menu. I agree with one of the other posters - get advice in the real world.

pervipete · 03-20-2009, 01:20 PM

I think, if this had been me a couple of months ago, thenI would have done the same as the OP.

However now, I think would just occasionally PM a couple of the members whose advice I trust.

ChiTownHoney · 03-20-2009, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by socyologyst

3. I have advised her to get real help, in real life. Unfortunately, as I said, she's an online friend - halfway around the world from me - so I can only hope she follows through on that.

4. I have been giving her the listening ear, the shoulder to cry on, absolutely not blaming her. I seem to gather that this would be the right thing to do, while recommending that she find real life professional help.

Oh, an online friend. Thats a little different. I must be the only one that doesnt take online shit seriously. I usually forget about people the minute I log off.

Hmmm...you sure she is telling the truth and not telling you a story to get you both off? I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I am very wary on "online friendships".

Anyhows, good luck ol' chap. hope everything works out for you

sparks · 03-20-2009, 07:19 PM

a single post took 39 post of various opinions and counter opinions before a reply from the poster

perhaps he/she/it was afraid to step into the fray

honey at times your attitude sucks and at other times I think I want to marry you

peeps this is a rape fantasy forum if the poster needs advice do you really think this is the place to ask or perhaps a rape crisis hot-line would work better

got the pot stirred though did it not

cheers

Sternenlied · 03-21-2009, 10:57 AM

It is a stupid question to begin with.

Someone who can locate a rape fantasy board on the internet should be equally capable of finding actual help - online as well as in real life.

Apparently the original poster chose not to (since I am sure he wasn't unable to do so) so I have to assume there's no real "tragedy" taking place and have to dismiss the validity of his question as a whole.

Beardy · 03-24-2009, 06:54 PM

Well, IÂ´m not going to doubt if this post is real or not.
My advice is that she must go to a psycologist to help her. I suffered an atempted rape and I did not go to therapy in years. I did not was aware how much I need it till I went. It made me feel much better.

stricken · 03-25-2009, 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

Interesting.

Well, I'm a woman in my mid-twenties....and I can say that I am actually quite jealous. I'm interested because I have been trying to get raped for years, but it hasnt happened. Is she really upset about it?

Unfortunately no sympathy from me.

I dont know what you are expecting.

LMAO so awesome.

Vamptear · 06-28-2009, 07:48 PM

you could rape her. Then she wont feel as bad about the first rape

Tanya · 06-28-2009, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucy.

In all honesty, I agree with Chi (I seem to be saying this a lot lately o_O) on both aspects.

1.) rapeboard is not as animalistic as I thought it was going to be, it sometimes seems a bit "rape-lite" with very young angsty emo kids and guys who are sweet and so nice they don't appear capable of hurting anyone. (i do like the board though!)

2.) You would be far better to google this and find a rape victims support forum for some tips. There is very little a friend can do in the early stages, but obviously she should be encouraged to speak to a doctor who can ensure there is no physical repercussions and will point her in the right direction for counselling. If she isn't comfortable with this then the samaritans or similar charity organisations can help but really she would be better off going to a doctor and getting checked out.

I was just thinking yesterday this message board is alot more "tame" then it used to be and i'm hoping it doesn't go the way another certain rape board did...

fatalerrror · 10-21-2009, 01:30 AM

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Originally Posted by socyologyst

Hello all, I just learned that an online friend of mine, a fellow aficionado of rape fantasies, was recently raped in real life.

I'm wondering how to approach this, how to help her get over this terrible incident.

I'm especially interested in the ladies' perspectives, as this friend of mine is a woman in her early twenties.

Any help would be much appreciated...

My five cents worth...

Once the physical pain and scars have healed, guilt and self blame begins to kick in...

I read an article some place where the rape victim herself said that her way of dealing with it and putting it behind her was to adopt the attitude of...

this affected me one time... NOT my lifetime

RapeKarenX · 02-02-2010, 02:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Vamptear

you could rape her. Then she wont feel as bad about the first rape

I can't believe I just read that. WOW! Fucking Speechless and I try to avoid using or spelling out profanity (or do so w/o a disclaimer).

WOW!!

03-20-2009, 01:20 PM	#42
pervipete Watching from the shadows Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: The Shadowlands... Posts: 5,170 Reputation: 118528	I think, if this had been me a couple of months ago, thenI would have done the same as the OP. However now, I think would just occasionally PM a couple of the members whose advice I trust. __________________ Tonight love, we'll do a rape roleplay No!! That's the spirit... Spam Reporting Thread The Hazelton Chronicles Blackmailing the MILF's Chapter One The Rape Board Chronicles - LilLinzi in the Alley Consquences

03-21-2009, 10:57 AM	#45
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	It is a stupid question to begin with. Someone who can locate a rape fantasy board on the internet should be equally capable of finding actual help - online as well as in real life. Apparently the original poster chose not to (since I am sure he wasn't unable to do so) so I have to assume there's no real "tragedy" taking place and have to dismiss the validity of his question as a whole. __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

03-24-2009, 06:54 PM	#46
Beardy Dark alley walker Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Europe Posts: 1,210 Reputation: 22589	Well, IÂ´m not going to doubt if this post is real or not. My advice is that she must go to a psycologist to help her. I suffered an atempted rape and I did not go to therapy in years. I did not was aware how much I need it till I went. It made me feel much better. __________________ Meet me in your dark dreams.

03-20-2009, 07:19 PM	#44
sparks Banned Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Saturns rings Posts: 496 Reputation: 17352	a single post took 39 post of various opinions and counter opinions before a reply from the poster perhaps he/she/it was afraid to step into the fray honey at times your attitude sucks and at other times I think I want to marry you peeps this is a rape fantasy forum if the poster needs advice do you really think this is the place to ask or perhaps a rape crisis hot-line would work better got the pot stirred though did it not cheers

06-28-2009, 07:48 PM	#48
Vamptear Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 9 Reputation: -109	you could rape her. Then she wont feel as bad about the first rape