Someone was asking - Rape Board

Frances · 09-07-2009, 06:46 AM

Someone was asking what was the best moment in a rape for them. Some said it was the moment of penetration, some said it was when th victim sort of caved in and submitted.
Although I have never been raped as such, may I, as a female lifestyle submissive for a number of years, tell it from my side.
I am regularly, (at least twice a month), expected to provide satisfaction to men selected by my husband, in any way they demand.
To make things less embarassing for them, I am initially blindfolded. My husband then brings in the man and binds my wrists behind my back and then leaves us alone.
Now, although technically, I am not allowed to refuse to comply with a demand from one of my husbands contacts to make myself available, I could of course just say "no" and not oblige. I could walk away at any time up to the moment i am bound.
Therefore, for me, the moment of truth isn't when I am penetrated or stripped or whatever. Sometimes I am not actually fucked by my visitor, some just like to control me for a while.
No, the moment of satisfaction for me, and I expect many of the men, is when my wrists are bound and I cannot go back. Whatever is expected of me, from that moment I know I will obey.

pervipete · 09-07-2009, 07:25 AM

Hmmm, I need to get to know your hubby Frances...

Though its funny Jill, another new member, was saying the same thing about her husband making her fuck black men...you don't know each other do you?

justmetoo · 09-07-2009, 09:00 AM

So, if I read this right you're doing this without a safe word or anything? I certainly have a fantasy of having my wife do this for some guys as well, but there would have to be at least some control put in place.

Obviously this has never gotten out of hand. What would happen if it did?

Bad Man · 09-08-2009, 03:31 AM

Saying this gently and respectfully - not very smart to not have a safety system in place.

I'm sure hubby thinks he is 'safety'-ing you by how and who he picks. That's a good start, but YOU need that final extra precaution of haveing an absolutely no-question safety that you can use if need be.

--BAD MAN--

gaggirl · 09-08-2009, 06:01 AM

as a woman I think this is really sexy... id love it if my man did that

Frances · 09-08-2009, 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bad Man

Saying this gently and respectfully - not very smart to not have a safety system in place.

I'm sure hubby thinks he is 'safety'-ing you by how and who he picks. That's a good start, but YOU need that final extra precaution of haveing an absolutely no-question safety that you can use if need be.

--BAD MAN--

Bad Man, how lovely to receive your comments.
And you are obviously right to say a safety word or sign is essential; I would not recommend anyone to enter this scene without some cast-iron guarrantees of having the last word in what happens in a scene.
And yes, there is lots of inherent danger.
But I am a life-style sub and you can't be one with lots of get-outs and escape clauses. Where's the excitement with a health and safety rep watching? (Actually, that might be nice).
I have absolute confidence in my husbands management of my "meetings", and the men are definitely certain of the limitations laid on them.
Once I am "in situ" so to speak, I am literally theirs to command. I wouldn't have it any other way.

Grinningecko · 09-08-2009, 09:57 PM

I would love to be able to do this same thing with my wife. We are working on our "other" lifestyle..it is just slow...but this is indeed a fantasy of mine.

bumbiter · 09-15-2009, 09:03 AM

A fellow i knew in bristol,always known just as alasdair used to tell me that he was what people today call a master or a dom or whatever. this surprised me because most people thought he was queer.
but he said no, he liked to control women. this was before the internet and it was difficult for people with s&m interests to get together without attracting the law, which didnt approve of this kind of thing.
it wasnt really possible for a husband/wife to vet or check out multiple "masters", but as there were a surprising number of couples into s&m they often found themselves being put in touch in contact with alasdair. this was safer and easier than looking for various strangers.
he would visit the couple at home or elswhere, sometimes at his house and put the woman through her paces, in similar fashion to frances visitors. he didnt deck his home out in dungeon stuff; he said the police would use this as evidence of a brothel or "disorderley house". he just used everday objects to torment the women.
anyway, he said that for him the best moment wasnt the blindfolding or the binding. it was when he lifted the womans dress with one hand and tugged down her pantys with the other and the woman, without being told to, stepped out of them.
that was the moment of complete surrender.
i wish i could have been an observer.

09-07-2009, 06:46 AM	#1
Frances Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 3 Reputation: 144	Someone was asking Someone was asking what was the best moment in a rape for them. Some said it was the moment of penetration, some said it was when th victim sort of caved in and submitted. Although I have never been raped as such, may I, as a female lifestyle submissive for a number of years, tell it from my side. I am regularly, (at least twice a month), expected to provide satisfaction to men selected by my husband, in any way they demand. To make things less embarassing for them, I am initially blindfolded. My husband then brings in the man and binds my wrists behind my back and then leaves us alone. Now, although technically, I am not allowed to refuse to comply with a demand from one of my husbands contacts to make myself available, I could of course just say "no" and not oblige. I could walk away at any time up to the moment i am bound. Therefore, for me, the moment of truth isn't when I am penetrated or stripped or whatever. Sometimes I am not actually fucked by my visitor, some just like to control me for a while. No, the moment of satisfaction for me, and I expect many of the men, is when my wrists are bound and I cannot go back. Whatever is expected of me, from that moment I know I will obey.

09-07-2009, 07:25 AM	#2
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09-07-2009, 09:00 AM	#3
justmetoo Privileged Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In your mind Posts: 1,086 Reputation: 23015	So, if I read this right you're doing this without a safe word or anything? I certainly have a fantasy of having my wife do this for some guys as well, but there would have to be at least some control put in place. Obviously this has never gotten out of hand. What would happen if it did?

09-08-2009, 03:31 AM	#4
Bad Man Privileged Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 254 Reputation: 4401	Saying this gently and respectfully - not very smart to not have a safety system in place. I'm sure hubby thinks he is 'safety'-ing you by how and who he picks. That's a good start, but YOU need that final extra precaution of haveing an absolutely no-question safety that you can use if need be. --BAD MAN--

09-08-2009, 06:01 AM	#5
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	as a woman I think this is really sexy... id love it if my man did that

09-08-2009, 09:57 PM	#7
Grinningecko Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 20 Reputation: 36	I would love to be able to do this same thing with my wife. We are working on our "other" lifestyle..it is just slow...but this is indeed a fantasy of mine.

09-15-2009, 09:03 AM	#8
bumbiter Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 6 Reputation: -299	A fellow i knew in bristol,always known just as alasdair used to tell me that he was what people today call a master or a dom or whatever. this surprised me because most people thought he was queer. but he said no, he liked to control women. this was before the internet and it was difficult for people with s&m interests to get together without attracting the law, which didnt approve of this kind of thing. it wasnt really possible for a husband/wife to vet or check out multiple "masters", but as there were a surprising number of couples into s&m they often found themselves being put in touch in contact with alasdair. this was safer and easier than looking for various strangers. he would visit the couple at home or elswhere, sometimes at his house and put the woman through her paces, in similar fashion to frances visitors. he didnt deck his home out in dungeon stuff; he said the police would use this as evidence of a brothel or "disorderley house". he just used everday objects to torment the women. anyway, he said that for him the best moment wasnt the blindfolding or the binding. it was when he lifted the womans dress with one hand and tugged down her pantys with the other and the woman, without being told to, stepped out of them. that was the moment of complete surrender. i wish i could have been an observer.