vanilla? - Rape Board

willing2explore · 04-13-2008, 11:52 PM

I have heard the term vanilla thrown around in a few posts. What does that mean?

Sephy · 04-14-2008, 01:02 AM

Vanilla sex is what is considered standard, conventional, or "normal" within the mainstream society. Ordinary sex that's not kinky. People in the BDSM, kinky, or fetish worlds refer to those who aren't as "vanilla."

Ragman · 04-14-2008, 01:43 AM

So odd.. I actually like vanilla .. ice cream, Cookies.. things like that.... You know whats really good with vanilla Ice cream? A side of hot kinky sex!

Sephy · 04-14-2008, 04:04 AM

Sort of melted vanilla ice cream drizzles quite well.

Ragman · 04-14-2008, 09:21 AM

mmmm so.. would covering yoru partner in vanilla ice cream or vanilla extract just to lick it off be considered vanilla sex? and if so.. would that change the meaning?

Tessa · 04-14-2008, 11:41 AM

So, boring sex then? I always considered vanilla to be the most boring flavour

Sephy · 04-14-2008, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Tessa

So, boring sex then? I always considered vanilla to be the most boring flavour

Not boring at all to them. Everyone is different.

Tessa · 04-14-2008, 11:55 AM

That's true of course!

Most of the time I have to beg my hubby just to have some normal sex every once in a while actually, it gets boring when we do what he wants all the time

Feels nice as a couple

04-13-2008, 11:52 PM	#1
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Sephy Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Unleashed Posts: 64 Reputation: 201	Vanilla sex is what is considered standard, conventional, or "normal" within the mainstream society. Ordinary sex that's not kinky. People in the BDSM, kinky, or fetish worlds refer to those who aren't as "vanilla." __________________ Fear of getting what you want is as powerful as the fear of never getting it.

04-14-2008, 01:43 AM	#3
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	So odd.. I actually like vanilla .. ice cream, Cookies.. things like that.... You know whats really good with vanilla Ice cream? A side of hot kinky sex! __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2

04-14-2008, 04:04 AM	#4
Sephy Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Unleashed Posts: 64 Reputation: 201	Sort of melted vanilla ice cream drizzles quite well. __________________ Fear of getting what you want is as powerful as the fear of never getting it.

04-14-2008, 09:21 AM	#5
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	mmmm so.. would covering yoru partner in vanilla ice cream or vanilla extract just to lick it off be considered vanilla sex? and if so.. would that change the meaning? __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2

04-14-2008, 11:41 AM	#6
Tessa Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: England, UK Posts: 19 Reputation: 17	So, boring sex then? I always considered vanilla to be the most boring flavour

04-14-2008, 11:55 AM	#8
Tessa Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: England, UK Posts: 19 Reputation: 17	That's true of course! Most of the time I have to beg my hubby just to have some normal sex every once in a while actually, it gets boring when we do what he wants all the time Feels nice as a couple