Have you met anyone on the internet for rape play? - Rape Board

courtneyj · 12-02-2006, 06:37 PM

I'm curious about this... on these boards has anyone experienced an actual physical hook-up? And if so, how did it turn out?

I've been talking to 2 different men for a few months and I am considering meeting up with one of them. I've almost had encounters before but chickened out at the last minute. I would like to go through with a "no strings" consentual rape, but I always back out because I get shy I suppose.

What are your experiences with this? How did you meet up? How did you know it was safe? When did you set the limits? How did you feel afterwards?

Thanks for your responses. It will help me decide what to do.

Master Theron · 12-03-2006, 07:38 PM

i wil give you two no three incidents,the are ll real for better or worse,
one my first time with a rape slave wann be,we talked and then we met,the chemistry was bad between us and she chickened put i got angry and stormed off saying a few nasty words,the second was with girl im michigan,i was to take her and use her my thought for a night maybe a weekend,it turned out her other Master wanted me to keep her for a month,that wasnt going ot happen so i backed out,the third time was a with a woman met on a camping trip she walked up to me and said this is that she wanted .we talked online also and actually ended up playing,it was with limits however.i have met a couple of woman here that wanted no limits play but she seized to have email so that was right out,the other had an injury during the summer so that stopped her,where is this going,meet them in a public place or hear the voice on the phone especially if you want a no limits thing,one you are helples anything can happen,its risky business so give a group of signals,first imprssesions say alot,you have to be the ONE that says its a go!i have a rule that once were in play its on we understand that fully before we go in to the room or wherever,i like the idea of talk down after word if possible it fives you both the needed come back to reality.Master Theron

courtneyj · 12-03-2006, 09:44 PM

Thanks for the advice, Master Theron. I think I am actually going to meet one of them this week. We have worked out the limits in advance, and I am fairly sure that he will respect them. I just need to make myself go to the hotel he has arranged. After that I realize that things will be out of my control.

gaggirl · 12-04-2006, 01:31 AM

a long long time ago I used to see lots of guys from the net, I thought I had it down to a fine art lol most of the time I went on gut instinct, but sometimes when your really hungry you ignore your instincts, and that can get u into trouble. eventually I learnt you meet them in public FIRST because they might not be saying who they are, or they might look totally different, or they might even behave strangely or not look u in the eye.

too late you get there and you have this thing stitched up, but because he was a liar you say no, but he decides "fuck you you made a promise".

I understand the excitment of not knowing what they look like, and had one man turn up to my house wearing a mask for this reason.. and yet I also had a so called "Master" for a little while, who had my key, and was pretty good with respecting limits until he had me tied up and took it too far.

So its a bit of a mixed bag, and I'd hate to imagine what its like nowadays.

atm Im lucky I have my man check them out for us first. we had a very narrow profile of what we are looking for (no bouncers or boxer types for instance lol) we only meet them in public, and then sort out the logistics later. anyway I do wish you the very best of luck! Its a very exciting adventure.. just be careful.

ego · 12-04-2006, 08:52 AM

Why dont you have a dinner first?
Just to know who rapes u

Rogue · 12-04-2006, 03:29 PM

Pity you haven't gotten more replies Courtney, but I hope you'll let us know how it goes

Rheostatic · 12-05-2006, 03:28 PM

I have to agree with the dinner idea.

I would suggest a public place. And let friends know that you are meeting "someone" for dinner, and be sure that the guy knows this as well.

Anytime you make one of these arrangements, you have to be careful with what you are getting into. You will be putting yourself into a position where, if he so chose, he could do horrible things you did not sign up for.

Talk to the guy and get a bit of a feel for what he's like. If something seems a bit off with the guy, walk away, and make sure you are not followed.

Even still, you will need to play cautiously.

I would suggest meeting at his place. That way he won't have to know where you live. If he has a problem with it, be frank, tell him you need to get to know him first. If he gets pissed off, then fuck him (not literally!).

The other nice thing is that if he decides to get "funny", you can tell him that you left information about where you've gone and where he lives, so that if you went missing, he would be the first to be questioned about your whereabouts.

These are just some suggestions. There are a bunch of things that you could do to enjoy yourself, but ensure that you get out of the experience in one piece.

Hope this helps. Stay safe. We hope to have you on this board for a long time to come.

kinkyone · 12-06-2006, 01:01 PM

The operative word being - be "Careful" ! ... real life's no game, and there's just a thin line between fantasy and reality ... so ? ... BE CAREFUL ... and have fun

Bethmc2002 · 12-10-2006, 05:25 PM

I have been lucky enough tohook up with someone I met online, but I also tried to hook up with another guy and ended up leaving the restaurant alone. Both times, I met the person in a restaurant for supper, where we had chatted online several times and had flirted with each other, big time. Both times sounded great, and both times I wore what they told me to and did mypart to set the scene as discussed, yet on the first occasion, I found myself realizing that the guy was a total jerk and I really couldn't see myself trusting him, so I left. I would STRONGLY urge you, if you want to hook up with an online acquaintance, to meet him or her somewhere that you are easily able to change your mind, if you aren't completely comfortable once you meet. That way, you stay in control and safe, at least until you decide that you are comfortable enough to give him control, if you want.

Just my two cents worth

vestri vinco · 12-14-2006, 08:47 PM

Im with most on here. I would like to meet a girl that was into role play rape but a couple that I have talked to in the past could not respect my privacy and seemed a little off kilter for me to mess with. So def make it a public place to meet and maybe even do a back ground check on them. 20 dollars for a back ground check could save a lot of trouble. Remember we are not all who we say we are on the net.

courtneyj · 12-15-2006, 08:59 PM

lol I worked everything out with this guy for over a month, and he canceled on me like 2 hours before we were supposed to meet.

ego · 12-16-2006, 05:40 AM

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Originally Posted by courtneyj

lol I worked everything out with this guy for over a month, and he canceled on me like 2 hours before we were supposed to meet.

Typical reaction of a man when understands that you overengineering it or you put some tests on him.

Rheostatic · 12-19-2006, 10:49 AM

I would expect that it is for the best.

vestri vinco · 12-25-2006, 02:32 AM

shoot there just are not many women around my part that are into rape fantasies or rolepaly.. some say they are but even at rough sex they start complaining. LOL

WEIRD1976 · 12-26-2006, 05:31 AM

I think that would be interesting to do.(Not sure how many women her would be interested in that here) But I would want to get to know them alittle bit first.

Phreedom · 12-26-2006, 09:40 AM

I was lucky to find one female - she loved be my slave. We exchanged emails for some years, in which would in my most bizarre fantasies, being raped and abused in them. I would begin writing a story and she would end the story in which she would always love to be the victim.

Bethmc2002 · 01-27-2007, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by vestri vinco

shoot there just are not many women around my part that are into rape fantasies or rolepaly.. some say they are but even at rough sex they start complaining. LOL

Actually, in my humble experience, virtually all women share a fantasy or two about being raped, in one way or another. Most, however, lack either the courage or the situation to admit it or do something about it. I know I was afraid to admit it for years, thinking that there was something wrong with me, but realized that the more friends I talked about it with, the more friends actually had shared the fantasy.

Just my two cents worth

Beth

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 01-27-2007, 09:15 PM

You R All Lucky Bastards In America, I Am From The Uk And As For Meeting A Girl Like That...i Got More Chance Of Fucking Angelina Jolie!!

gal4 · 01-28-2007, 01:45 AM

There are BDSM and fetish communities out there now, seek out and join them.

They have get togethers, meetings, dinner parties. Meet some of the people, get to know them. Once you get to know some of these folks, then and only then can you allow them to hook you up.

These communities do a fairly good job of policing themselves, and any extreme or undesirable elements are quickly detected and dealt with, pretty much as in this board communitiy.

I have already expressed my experience deailing with strangers in my previous posts, and not going to repreat it.

Take care and good luck.

vestri vinco · 01-29-2007, 04:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bethmc2002

Actually, in my humble experience, virtually all women share a fantasy or two about being raped, in one way or another. Most, however, lack either the courage or the situation to admit it or do something about it. I know I was afraid to admit it for years, thinking that there was something wrong with me, but realized that the more friends I talked about it with, the more friends actually had shared the fantasy.

Just my two cents worth

Beth

Beth. I think you are right as far as women having fantasies about it but many would not go past the fantasy in there head. I was actually talking to a girl from bham who said she wanted to try it but all in all I think she liked the idea of it but was nervous about it. She is heavily into bondage but just wasnt sure if she wanted to try the rape fantasy scenerio. We still talk but just on a friendly level and if it ever happens Ill flip over backwards. LOL

12-02-2006, 06:37 PM	#1
courtneyj Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 56 Reputation: 190	Have you met anyone on the internet for rape play? I'm curious about this... on these boards has anyone experienced an actual physical hook-up? And if so, how did it turn out? I've been talking to 2 different men for a few months and I am considering meeting up with one of them. I've almost had encounters before but chickened out at the last minute. I would like to go through with a "no strings" consentual rape, but I always back out because I get shy I suppose. What are your experiences with this? How did you meet up? How did you know it was safe? When did you set the limits? How did you feel afterwards? Thanks for your responses. It will help me decide what to do.

12-03-2006, 07:38 PM	#2
Master Theron Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 16 Reputation: 132	meet ups? i wil give you two no three incidents,the are ll real for better or worse, one my first time with a rape slave wann be,we talked and then we met,the chemistry was bad between us and she chickened put i got angry and stormed off saying a few nasty words,the second was with girl im michigan,i was to take her and use her my thought for a night maybe a weekend,it turned out her other Master wanted me to keep her for a month,that wasnt going ot happen so i backed out,the third time was a with a woman met on a camping trip she walked up to me and said this is that she wanted .we talked online also and actually ended up playing,it was with limits however.i have met a couple of woman here that wanted no limits play but she seized to have email so that was right out,the other had an injury during the summer so that stopped her,where is this going,meet them in a public place or hear the voice on the phone especially if you want a no limits thing,one you are helples anything can happen,its risky business so give a group of signals,first imprssesions say alot,you have to be the ONE that says its a go!i have a rule that once were in play its on we understand that fully before we go in to the room or wherever,i like the idea of talk down after word if possible it fives you both the needed come back to reality.Master Theron

12-05-2006, 03:28 PM	#7
Rheostatic Rape Board Chancellor Join Date: May 2006 Location: Southern Ontario, Canada Posts: 409 Reputation: 768	I have to agree with the dinner idea. I would suggest a public place. And let friends know that you are meeting "someone" for dinner, and be sure that the guy knows this as well. Anytime you make one of these arrangements, you have to be careful with what you are getting into. You will be putting yourself into a position where, if he so chose, he could do horrible things you did not sign up for. Talk to the guy and get a bit of a feel for what he's like. If something seems a bit off with the guy, walk away, and make sure you are not followed. Even still, you will need to play cautiously. I would suggest meeting at his place. That way he won't have to know where you live. If he has a problem with it, be frank, tell him you need to get to know him first. If he gets pissed off, then fuck him (not literally!). The other nice thing is that if he decides to get "funny", you can tell him that you left information about where you've gone and where he lives, so that if you went missing, he would be the first to be questioned about your whereabouts. These are just some suggestions. There are a bunch of things that you could do to enjoy yourself, but ensure that you get out of the experience in one piece. Hope this helps. Stay safe. We hope to have you on this board for a long time to come. __________________ In Somnium, Veritas

12-06-2006, 01:01 PM	#8
kinkyone ODD MOD ! Join Date: May 2006 Location: India Posts: 704 Reputation: 3463	The operative word being - be "Careful" ! ... real life's no game, and there's just a thin line between fantasy and reality ... so ? ... BE CAREFUL ... and have fun __________________ In need of a good siggy !

12-10-2006, 05:25 PM	#9
Bethmc2002 Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada Posts: 29 Reputation: 90	Be Careful!!!! I have been lucky enough tohook up with someone I met online, but I also tried to hook up with another guy and ended up leaving the restaurant alone. Both times, I met the person in a restaurant for supper, where we had chatted online several times and had flirted with each other, big time. Both times sounded great, and both times I wore what they told me to and did mypart to set the scene as discussed, yet on the first occasion, I found myself realizing that the guy was a total jerk and I really couldn't see myself trusting him, so I left. I would STRONGLY urge you, if you want to hook up with an online acquaintance, to meet him or her somewhere that you are easily able to change your mind, if you aren't completely comfortable once you meet. That way, you stay in control and safe, at least until you decide that you are comfortable enough to give him control, if you want. Just my two cents worth

12-03-2006, 09:44 PM	#3
courtneyj Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 56 Reputation: 190	Thanks for the advice, Master Theron. I think I am actually going to meet one of them this week. We have worked out the limits in advance, and I am fairly sure that he will respect them. I just need to make myself go to the hotel he has arranged. After that I realize that things will be out of my control.

12-04-2006, 01:31 AM	#4
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	a long long time ago I used to see lots of guys from the net, I thought I had it down to a fine art lol most of the time I went on gut instinct, but sometimes when your really hungry you ignore your instincts, and that can get u into trouble. eventually I learnt you meet them in public FIRST because they might not be saying who they are, or they might look totally different, or they might even behave strangely or not look u in the eye. too late you get there and you have this thing stitched up, but because he was a liar you say no, but he decides "fuck you you made a promise". I understand the excitment of not knowing what they look like, and had one man turn up to my house wearing a mask for this reason.. and yet I also had a so called "Master" for a little while, who had my key, and was pretty good with respecting limits until he had me tied up and took it too far. So its a bit of a mixed bag, and I'd hate to imagine what its like nowadays. atm Im lucky I have my man check them out for us first. we had a very narrow profile of what we are looking for (no bouncers or boxer types for instance lol) we only meet them in public, and then sort out the logistics later. anyway I do wish you the very best of luck! Its a very exciting adventure.. just be careful.

12-04-2006, 08:52 AM	#5
ego the obscure Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 3,457 Reputation: 14892	Why dont you have a dinner first? Just to know who rapes u

12-04-2006, 03:29 PM	#6
Rogue Immoral Irishman Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,344 Reputation: 20982	Pity you haven't gotten more replies Courtney, but I hope you'll let us know how it goes

12-14-2006, 08:47 PM	#10
vestri vinco Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: u.s.a Posts: 47 Reputation: -21	Im with most on here. I would like to meet a girl that was into role play rape but a couple that I have talked to in the past could not respect my privacy and seemed a little off kilter for me to mess with. So def make it a public place to meet and maybe even do a back ground check on them. 20 dollars for a back ground check could save a lot of trouble. Remember we are not all who we say we are on the net.

12-15-2006, 08:59 PM	#11
courtneyj Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 56 Reputation: 190	lol I worked everything out with this guy for over a month, and he canceled on me like 2 hours before we were supposed to meet.

12-19-2006, 10:49 AM	#13
Rheostatic Rape Board Chancellor Join Date: May 2006 Location: Southern Ontario, Canada Posts: 409 Reputation: 768	I would expect that it is for the best. __________________ In Somnium, Veritas

12-25-2006, 02:32 AM	#14
vestri vinco Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: u.s.a Posts: 47 Reputation: -21	shoot there just are not many women around my part that are into rape fantasies or rolepaly.. some say they are but even at rough sex they start complaining. LOL

12-26-2006, 05:31 AM	#15
WEIRD1976 Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: HELLVILLE Posts: 157 Reputation: 58	I think that would be interesting to do.(Not sure how many women her would be interested in that here) But I would want to get to know them alittle bit first.

12-26-2006, 09:40 AM	#16
Phreedom Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 2 Reputation: 10	I was lucky to find one female - she loved be my slave. We exchanged emails for some years, in which would in my most bizarre fantasies, being raped and abused in them. I would begin writing a story and she would end the story in which she would always love to be the victim.

01-27-2007, 09:15 PM	#18
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	You R All Lucky Bastards In America, I Am From The Uk And As For Meeting A Girl Like That...i Got More Chance Of Fucking Angelina Jolie!!

01-28-2007, 01:45 AM	#19
gal4 UnWanted Trick Baby Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 834 Reputation: 584	There are BDSM and fetish communities out there now, seek out and join them. They have get togethers, meetings, dinner parties. Meet some of the people, get to know them. Once you get to know some of these folks, then and only then can you allow them to hook you up. These communities do a fairly good job of policing themselves, and any extreme or undesirable elements are quickly detected and dealt with, pretty much as in this board communitiy. I have already expressed my experience deailing with strangers in my previous posts, and not going to repreat it. Take care and good luck.