Online roleplay turn offs - Rape Board

Rogue · 11-17-2006, 11:00 PM

My biggest one is, the victim enjoying the rape. I read a roleplay recently where she shouted "Yes!!" near the end.

Now if that is some roleplayers' style then fine. The idea of ravishment is hot, forced orgasms can be too. But for the woman to actually encourage the "rape", for me, is ridiculous. And I'd be amazed if you didn't tell me beforehand this is what you like.

My second is, quoting me. If it is small talk at the very beginning when the victim doesn't yet know she's in danger, it's not something I'd care too much about, or one word sentences. Differences in rapists' characters won't be very noticeable between each RP, but I try to make little changes. And if I spend time showing that a particular man is dark and untalkative, but then my partner quotes me saying something cheesy, it's annoying.

What are yours? I'd imagine the girls don't want to be told what their thinking.

gaggirl · 11-18-2006, 12:10 AM

right. I feel like a bit of a goose but I used to swap stories and roleplay with an old old "ex" of mine, and we both liked breathplay. but then he decided plasti bagging my head would be in order! I dont think so. big turn off. I guess when I roleplay I like realism... so if its not likely to happen, I dont want to play it. SO if you wouldnt stick a plastic bag over my head in real life, (and you know its one of my off limits) you dont insert it into a play.

and I dont like being magically nude either.. That doesnt happen in real life, so it cant happen in my rps!!

Louise · 11-18-2006, 12:59 PM

Im fairly relaxed about what any roleplayer wishes to add into the mix, in fact, something that might push my limits may in fact make me more likely to get into it. As long as they dont violate stated NOs...i mean it doesnt take much to drop a quick pm to your roleplayer to ask does it?

The biggest turn off for me is an inability to write coherently...a good example is as gaggirl says...instantly nude...how'd that happen! I know you guys like to get to the good stuff quick...more often than not its the build up (and the post male cum) that is what makes the play hot...i mean...tearing my clothes...or slicing them from my body with a knife...the threat of something more, deeper or nastier...mmmmmmm

Joanna · 11-18-2006, 03:49 PM

Turn offs for me.
too much violence and anything thats close to leaving too much in the way of bruising scarring or gets anywhere near being deadly.

And stories were the victims become instantly naked I mean WTF is the rapist Gandalf or Merlin or some other type of magical being.???who just makes clothing instantly disappear?

like there to be good reasonably detailed discriptions of clothing removal.

Hate stories roleplays were it jumps straight into virginal fucking too, I like some concentration on other body parts nipples breasts belly you know not straight to the punchline the wham bam thing.
But then again guys are often like that with vanilla sex so should it be any suprise they are like that with roleplay story writing as they are with porn movies? lol.
or another turn off can be too much non sexual descriptive stuff to read through those can make for great stories but they can be an erotic buzz killer

innocent · 11-18-2006, 04:00 PM

i once tried a roleplay on another site...not the one your thinking!
it was between me and a rather nice chap i'd been chatting to. we were going well when another member decided to join in. a female. not a prob i thought. well mmmm
she decided she was gonna force me to give her oral sex. anyone who knows me knows not my thing at all! oral is a phobia for me. long story wont go into but hey, thought i'd be subtle and start dropping hints in my replies. got me no where. in the end i was posting on the thread blatently advising her if she put that thing near my teeth she wouldnt be needin brazilian wax for good few month to come....and nothing. ok i thought maybe she didnt pick up on my not so subtle hints. so i pm'd her. several times. her response....to quit all board membership! came back later full of apologies.
please think about your partners replies! and think before you gatecrash a rp!
some people dont go for same sex rps.
sorry for rant but as you can guess it totally killed a promising rp!

gaggirl · 11-18-2006, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Joanna

And stories were the victims become instantly naked I mean WTF is the rapist Gandalf or Merlin or some other type of magical being.???who just makes clothing instantly disappear?

LOL

Quote:

Originally Posted by Louise

tearing my clothes...or slicing them from my body with a knife...the threat of something more, deeper or nastier...mmmmmmm

exactly... mmmmmmmm... I can feel a story coming on.

Jasmine · 11-18-2006, 05:16 PM

What are yours? I'd imagine the girls don't want to be told what their thinking.[/QUOTE]

LOL!

Exactly. Don't say what I am thinking or feeling unless it is imperative to something in the current post!

I want to know if my partner has particular fetishes that may come into play.

I don't want any permanent scaring or blood.

Jasmine · 11-18-2006, 05:24 PM

The biggest turn off for me is an inability to write coherently...a good example is as gaggirl says...instantly nude...how'd that happen! I know you guys like to get to the good stuff quick...more often than not its the build up (and the post male cum) that is what makes the play hot...i mean...tearing my clothes...or slicing them from my body with a knife...the threat of something more, deeper or nastier...mmmmmmm[/QUOTE]

Oh yes! I forgot about that. How can they just jump in with naked and bound? I need to know how I got there and need to struggle.

gaggirl · 11-18-2006, 05:51 PM

Or when Im in the middle of being raped but still having a good fight, and the guy starts telling me I'm having an orgasm..

What?!

Achoo!

lol

toromieda · 11-18-2006, 05:58 PM

When I am in role play in chat, I do not want your biography, what kind of job you have, how many kids, grand kids, great grand kids, how big your house is, what kind of car you drive, etc. etc.

Just tie me up and fuck me.

innocent · 11-18-2006, 05:59 PM

just tell me how deep your fucking me and which hole and i'm sorted

11-19-2006, 03:33 AM

ddd

Louise · 11-19-2006, 03:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jasmine

Don't say what I am thinking or feeling unless it is imperative to something in the current post!.

God yes, i agree with this!

So many roleplayers (male largely - sorry guys) tend to start telling you what you are thinking, what you are feeling....NO...if you want to write a story, please do...if you want to roleplay...tell us what you are thinking, what you are feeling and let us tell you!

somedude · 11-19-2006, 06:08 AM

Number one turnoff is post RP partners quiting on you with no explanation!!!

Louise · 11-19-2006, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by somedude

Number one turnoff is post RP partners quiting on you with no explanation!!!

Awww, darling...(resists urge to make teasing comment here)

Still waiting for our first, public, roleplay gorgeous...

Luke rape stalker · 11-19-2006, 09:34 AM

YES!!! you write and write and suddenly... --
If i write something wrong/ too extreme i want know it. Then we see if we stop or change it.
And please girls when you describe yourself DONT say "my perfect tits" this is my choose. Of course your body is perfect- thatÂ´s why i rape you.
I donÂ´t like it when someone come and want play with us. Thats why iÂ´m play over PM, EM, IM
Every roleplay should closed to the both if they not write "everyone is welcome" or "more player"

P.S.: I love to write about my feelings,what i think and what happened with my cock ;-)

Muffler · 11-19-2006, 10:00 AM

I hate it when roleplaying and I realise that they are just leading me on to try and sell something to me.

you know, like they're typing something along the lines of :

"you have me half naked now, you've hitched up my black pin stripe mini skirt revealing my black lacy boy leg panties as you tear down my black nyon thigh high stockings.

My blouse lays ripped with the buttons strewn on the floor, and my left breast is exposed having been pulled from my black slick bodice. I pretend I don't want you to penetrate me when really I want it bad, and I want it to hurt like my first intercourse experiences, I want to feel the almost ripping senstaion of like when I first felt my hyman break so many years ago, and felt the warm tingling sensation of the virgin fluids flow.

I want you to cup my right breast which as yet is unexposed, cup it it with...the new stay fresh range of "Tupperware" Salad bowls. Yes now Tupperware has new 'Stay Fresh' technology, and comes in many sizes, most shaped perfectly for either my breast, or a whole fresh letuce, right down to a hand full of olives and they are now also totaly microwave and dsihwasher safe, (because you're such a dirty boy!).

So how many Tupperware salad bowls can i put you down for? Infact maybe you'd like to host your own Tupperware party"

Yep, it totally turns me off when they do that. Mind you, I now have a lot of salad bowls...

Muffler · 11-19-2006, 10:01 AM

whoops, repost by mistake.

Muffler · 11-19-2006, 10:02 AM

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menace · 11-19-2006, 10:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by somedude

Number one turnoff is post RP partners quiting on you with no explanation!!!

I hate that one too. If I start something, I wan't to finish it, damn it! And it's even worse when the partner doesn't pay attention to what is going on... that's just saying you're no longer interested, but are too gutless to call quits.

I also don't like to be told what I'm doing next, unless it's a logical continuation of what I was doing in the previous post.

11-17-2006, 11:00 PM	#1
Rogue Immoral Irishman Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,344 Reputation: 20982	Online roleplay turn offs My biggest one is, the victim enjoying the rape. I read a roleplay recently where she shouted "Yes!!" near the end. Now if that is some roleplayers' style then fine. The idea of ravishment is hot, forced orgasms can be too. But for the woman to actually encourage the "rape", for me, is ridiculous. And I'd be amazed if you didn't tell me beforehand this is what you like. My second is, quoting me. If it is small talk at the very beginning when the victim doesn't yet know she's in danger, it's not something I'd care too much about, or one word sentences. Differences in rapists' characters won't be very noticeable between each RP, but I try to make little changes. And if I spend time showing that a particular man is dark and untalkative, but then my partner quotes me saying something cheesy, it's annoying. What are yours? I'd imagine the girls don't want to be told what their thinking.

11-18-2006, 12:59 PM	#3
Louise Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,865 Reputation: 4905	Im fairly relaxed about what any roleplayer wishes to add into the mix, in fact, something that might push my limits may in fact make me more likely to get into it. As long as they dont violate stated NOs...i mean it doesnt take much to drop a quick pm to your roleplayer to ask does it? The biggest turn off for me is an inability to write coherently...a good example is as gaggirl says...instantly nude...how'd that happen! I know you guys like to get to the good stuff quick...more often than not its the build up (and the post male cum) that is what makes the play hot...i mean...tearing my clothes...or slicing them from my body with a knife...the threat of something more, deeper or nastier...mmmmmmm __________________ ...no mercy in thy icy heart, for the lost prey you stalk and hunt, only the lust...

11-18-2006, 05:16 PM	#7
Jasmine Privileged Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,352 Reputation: 20045	What are yours? I'd imagine the girls don't want to be told what their thinking.[/QUOTE] LOL! Exactly. Don't say what I am thinking or feeling unless it is imperative to something in the current post! I want to know if my partner has particular fetishes that may come into play. I don't want any permanent scaring or blood. Last edited by Jasmine; 11-18-2006 at 05:21 PM.

11-19-2006, 03:33 AM	#12
Tanya Guest Posts: n/a	ddd Last edited by Tanya; 11-23-2006 at 06:14 PM.

11-19-2006, 06:08 AM	#14
somedude W.I.R. and Marshal Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Way out West!!!! Posts: 8,566 Reputation: 124981	Number one turnoff is post RP partners quiting on you with no explanation!!! __________________ I'm a pervert and proud of it!

11-18-2006, 12:10 AM	#2
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	right. I feel like a bit of a goose but I used to swap stories and roleplay with an old old "ex" of mine, and we both liked breathplay. but then he decided plasti bagging my head would be in order! I dont think so. big turn off. I guess when I roleplay I like realism... so if its not likely to happen, I dont want to play it. SO if you wouldnt stick a plastic bag over my head in real life, (and you know its one of my off limits) you dont insert it into a play. and I dont like being magically nude either.. That doesnt happen in real life, so it cant happen in my rps!!

11-18-2006, 03:49 PM	#4
Joanna token average person lol Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 441 Reputation: 267	Turn offs for me. too much violence and anything thats close to leaving too much in the way of bruising scarring or gets anywhere near being deadly. And stories were the victims become instantly naked I mean WTF is the rapist Gandalf or Merlin or some other type of magical being.???who just makes clothing instantly disappear? like there to be good reasonably detailed discriptions of clothing removal. Hate stories roleplays were it jumps straight into virginal fucking too, I like some concentration on other body parts nipples breasts belly you know not straight to the punchline the wham bam thing. But then again guys are often like that with vanilla sex so should it be any suprise they are like that with roleplay story writing as they are with porn movies? lol. or another turn off can be too much non sexual descriptive stuff to read through those can make for great stories but they can be an erotic buzz killer

11-18-2006, 04:00 PM	#5
innocent Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: uk Posts: 2,110 Reputation: 9976	i once tried a roleplay on another site...not the one your thinking! it was between me and a rather nice chap i'd been chatting to. we were going well when another member decided to join in. a female. not a prob i thought. well mmmm she decided she was gonna force me to give her oral sex. anyone who knows me knows not my thing at all! oral is a phobia for me. long story wont go into but hey, thought i'd be subtle and start dropping hints in my replies. got me no where. in the end i was posting on the thread blatently advising her if she put that thing near my teeth she wouldnt be needin brazilian wax for good few month to come....and nothing. ok i thought maybe she didnt pick up on my not so subtle hints. so i pm'd her. several times. her response....to quit all board membership! came back later full of apologies. please think about your partners replies! and think before you gatecrash a rp! some people dont go for same sex rps. sorry for rant but as you can guess it totally killed a promising rp!

11-18-2006, 05:24 PM	#8
Jasmine Privileged Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,352 Reputation: 20045	The biggest turn off for me is an inability to write coherently...a good example is as gaggirl says...instantly nude...how'd that happen! I know you guys like to get to the good stuff quick...more often than not its the build up (and the post male cum) that is what makes the play hot...i mean...tearing my clothes...or slicing them from my body with a knife...the threat of something more, deeper or nastier...mmmmmmm[/QUOTE] Oh yes! I forgot about that. How can they just jump in with naked and bound? I need to know how I got there and need to struggle.

11-18-2006, 05:51 PM	#9
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	Or when Im in the middle of being raped but still having a good fight, and the guy starts telling me I'm having an orgasm.. What?! Achoo! lol

11-18-2006, 05:58 PM	#10
toromieda Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 105 Reputation: 84	When I am in role play in chat, I do not want your biography, what kind of job you have, how many kids, grand kids, great grand kids, how big your house is, what kind of car you drive, etc. etc. Just tie me up and fuck me.

11-18-2006, 05:59 PM	#11
innocent Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: uk Posts: 2,110 Reputation: 9976	just tell me how deep your fucking me and which hole and i'm sorted

11-19-2006, 09:34 AM	#16
Luke rape stalker or Jekyll and Hyde Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 781 Reputation: 1695	YES!!! you write and write and suddenly... -- If i write something wrong/ too extreme i want know it. Then we see if we stop or change it. And please girls when you describe yourself DONT say "my perfect tits" this is my choose. Of course your body is perfect- thatÂ´s why i rape you. I donÂ´t like it when someone come and want play with us. Thats why iÂ´m play over PM, EM, IM Every roleplay should closed to the both if they not write "everyone is welcome" or "more player" P.S.: I love to write about my feelings,what i think and what happened with my cock ;-) Last edited by Luke rape stalker; 11-19-2006 at 09:42 AM.

11-19-2006, 10:00 AM	#17
Muffler Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 76 Reputation: 122	I hate it when roleplaying and I realise that they are just leading me on to try and sell something to me. you know, like they're typing something along the lines of : "you have me half naked now, you've hitched up my black pin stripe mini skirt revealing my black lacy boy leg panties as you tear down my black nyon thigh high stockings. My blouse lays ripped with the buttons strewn on the floor, and my left breast is exposed having been pulled from my black slick bodice. I pretend I don't want you to penetrate me when really I want it bad, and I want it to hurt like my first intercourse experiences, I want to feel the almost ripping senstaion of like when I first felt my hyman break so many years ago, and felt the warm tingling sensation of the virgin fluids flow. I want you to cup my right breast which as yet is unexposed, cup it it with...the new stay fresh range of "Tupperware" Salad bowls. Yes now Tupperware has new 'Stay Fresh' technology, and comes in many sizes, most shaped perfectly for either my breast, or a whole fresh letuce, right down to a hand full of olives and they are now also totaly microwave and dsihwasher safe, (because you're such a dirty boy!). So how many Tupperware salad bowls can i put you down for? Infact maybe you'd like to host your own Tupperware party" Yep, it totally turns me off when they do that. Mind you, I now have a lot of salad bowls... __________________ "...as my world darkens, my vision is clearer...

11-19-2006, 10:01 AM	#18
Muffler Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 76 Reputation: 122	whoops, repost by mistake. __________________ "...as my world darkens, my vision is clearer... Last edited by Muffler; 11-19-2006 at 10:07 AM.

11-19-2006, 10:02 AM	#19
Muffler Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 76 Reputation: 122	q __________________ "...as my world darkens, my vision is clearer... Last edited by Muffler; 11-19-2006 at 10:07 AM.