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04-06-2007, 04:31 AM | #1 |
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LTR's and rape fantasies
How do you deal with rape fantasies if you're married or in a long-term relationship?
I've always fantasized about a woman who would stay spiritually, emotionally, and mentally pure while still being my sex slave in the bedroom. But I know that is pretty damn impossible to find. So I was just wondering how most of you cope? Don't the urges get to you? How have your partners felt about it if they know? |
04-06-2007, 04:47 AM | #2 |
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Well, in my case my girlfriend shares my fantasies and my fetishes. We've been together for eight years now (engaged) and it's working out very well. We give each other complete freedom to indulge in any sexual activity we like, with each other or with others (safe sex only of course).
However, I'm sure this will work for only a few people. Even most swingers certainly couldn't handle it. As for being with someone who doesn't share your fetish; well, I guess it depends on how high your sexdrive is. If sex is a very important part of your relationship being out of synch would prove a bit of a problem, I should think. If not, just forget about sex. I don't think i could handle that sort of relationship, myself. Last edited by Dutch_Rapist; 04-06-2007 at 05:06 AM. |
04-17-2007, 12:27 PM | #3 |
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My fiancé and I deal with this very well, thank you.
I am very very in love with my fiancé, and we share everything with each other. When I found out about his rape fantasies I really wanted to participate in them because as far as sex goes, my number one turn on is pleasing him. I also was rather into the sadomasochism thing and am a bit of a sexual deviant myself. Joining this board really helped us to break any barriers we had as far as sharing our fantasies on rape etc. I certainly don’t see how being a sex slave to the one you love makes you impure. I feel like I dedicate my whole body mind etc. to please him which seems like pure love to me, and as long as the rough fantasies stays in the bedroom it’s all wonderful.
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04-17-2007, 02:59 PM | #4 |
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Yes its all good not only in the bedroom but other areas say a large van if ya have one?
Where he pulls up throws you in it gags and cuffs you then well ya`ll get the picture? But Jezebel remember to teach him those all Important words......LUBE PLEASE?!
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04-22-2007, 01:00 AM | #5 |
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My husband doesn't share my fantasies. I tried to get him to tie my wrists but he couldn't do that. He hated it. I play online, but not in rl. I don't consider it cheating, but hubby would. I suppose it depends on your perspective.
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04-22-2007, 02:38 AM | #6 |
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Jasmine sweetie, i know what you mean. When i was still with my ex husband he wound not do anything at all with me, mo matter who stall the request was.
Now that he wants me back he has said he will do those things now with me, as he knows how much im into bondage and some other of my fantasies. He doesnt know about all of my fantasies however. When i first told him, he was somewhat freaked out by it all, which made me a little sad at the time. The one i did love, thought my desires were strange and thought i was strange for having them. The current person i am with knows all about it, and he is into it as much as me. Which i love. |
04-22-2007, 02:58 AM | #7 | |
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04-22-2007, 06:47 AM | #8 | |
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My current GF and I ran into the problem of "open" vs "swinger" about midway through, and landed happily on "swinger". It was a blast (so to speak). I lost her recently due to unrelated events, and will deeply miss her and that relationship. It was unique in my experience on many levels. Unfortunately a friend of mine is recently in a situation where he's discovered his BDSM kink, but is (otherwise) happily married to a good woman who absolutely hates the very idea of this stuff. Plus he has family. Yay. Anyone with any ideas on what this guy should do or watch out for are welcome, PM or post. He's not going to be backtracked, and he does need some perspective. EN EN |
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04-22-2007, 07:45 AM | #9 |
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Well, could write tomes here, but you'd all be fast asleep halfway through. Here goes the short version.
Been with my wife for 36 1/2 years, married for almost that long. I don't know what stars were aligned in what configuration the day I decided to persue her or I'd advise you to wait for just such an occasion to meet your soulmate. I consider myself the luckiest SOB on the planet. What attracted me to her, besides the physical, was her openmindedness and inner strength. While we were different as night in day in some things, in the important things, we clicked to an almost scary degree. I never entered the realtionship with the thought of who was going to run the show. It was always a partnership I was looking for. When you have two people who are willing to go the extra yard for the other, no matter what, you've got that special match. I never try to dominate. I suggest and let her come to her own decision. That respect leads to a lot of fun. When you're fulfilling mutual fantasies, it can be very intense as each is getting what they want, no one is "taking one for the team". You can force another person to run with your fantasies, but you lose their respect and trust and, in the end, you lose them. All I can suggest is to be patient, loving and understanding. I'm convinced that there is, within most people, the desire for safely fulfilled fantasies. You just need to let it come out on its own, in its own time. You're not looking for perfection or immediate personal gratification, but someone who's perfect just for you and who's willing to let themselves share in mutual gratification. That's my two overly sloppy romantic cents....
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04-22-2007, 02:33 PM | #10 | |
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Even after comfortably accepting BDSM into our bedroom (whole heartedly) I felt I had to keep these "Dark" thoughts hidden lest I drive her screaming away. I was an Idiot. This is a part of who you are, and unless she is completley catatonic she already knows this about you just from the way you grip her wrists during sex, or give that extra unneeded thrust as you bottom out in her cervix.... Big secret revealed here guys...... Gals are not (complete) idiots.... Choose your time, stress the fantasy nature of your interest.... take the time to show her you are not some uncontrolled slavering beast...... (at the moment) and trust her to rise to the challenge. 24 years here and going strong. |
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