Would you still do it? - Rape Board

menace · 10-29-2007, 04:44 PM

In RL RP it is important to the victim to have control of things with safewords, limits etc. But since it's really down to the rapist how much control the victim has (it's not easy to stop a guy twice your size, especially tied up), there is always the possibility that the victim will lose control over things, and this is why it's still a turn on. Right?

Now what about a hypothetical situation where the 'rape' has been arranged, but a few hours before the rapist calls and says:

"Look honey, I've had a lot of shit to deal with today and am really in a bad mood. I'm not sure I can control myself if it came down to it, so I think we should reschedule."

What would you do?

10-29-2007, 04:56 PM

if he says he couldn't control himself (or he even thinks he couldn't), i'd say "OK! some other time!" :P

jack-the-ripa · 10-29-2007, 05:01 PM

You people actually role play rape in real life ?

Bha ha ha ha ha ha... So funny!

gaggirl · 10-29-2007, 05:03 PM

I would go ahead

especially if its someone I really like. that would make it hotter! Im always secretly wishing some of our roleplay guys would ignore certain protocols but they are all good boys and stick to the rules. which is fair enough.

kodavictimm · 10-29-2007, 05:46 PM

Personally I can't see that situation arise; if anything RL RP is an outlet for frustrations, sexually and otherwise. If rape itself is not just a crime of passion then it is possible that RP is likewise not just about passion but about the outlet for the desires that make rape possible.

Though I think that if a guy warns that he might lose control and you say come on, it is somewhat of an invitation to lose control. Better to err on the side of caution and reschedule.

dark_d3viant · 10-30-2007, 08:24 AM

.....I know it's the wrong thing to say, but I'd still do it.

It could go horribly wrong, but at the end of the day that would have been my decision, right? I'd been warned and not listened, as usual ..

Plus, he would be half in the wrong for actually agreeing to continue, knowing full well the position he's in. He may come away from it thinking he actually did commit a crime and have all those feelings..

I think I'd take the risk.

xx

ivy skye · 10-30-2007, 06:47 PM

i would find it hot if he lost control as long as i can walk away fine the deeper the faster the better

gothicopium · 11-01-2007, 08:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by menace

"Look honey, I've had a lot of shit to deal with today and am really in a bad mood. I'm not sure I can control myself if it came down to it, so I think we should reschedule."

What would you do?

Sounds like something I'd do. But only so I could sneak over later to surprise the bitch

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Jasmine · 11-03-2007, 09:59 PM

If he thinks he can't control himself, then I am not going to second guess him. I wouldn't do it especially if it wasn't someone that I knew well.

10-29-2007, 04:44 PM	#1
menace Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Who knows? Posts: 2,436 Reputation: 26964	Would you still do it? In RL RP it is important to the victim to have control of things with safewords, limits etc. But since it's really down to the rapist how much control the victim has (it's not easy to stop a guy twice your size, especially tied up), there is always the possibility that the victim will lose control over things, and this is why it's still a turn on. Right? Now what about a hypothetical situation where the 'rape' has been arranged, but a few hours before the rapist calls and says: "Look honey, I've had a lot of shit to deal with today and am really in a bad mood. I'm not sure I can control myself if it came down to it, so I think we should reschedule." What would you do? __________________ Try and stop me

10-29-2007, 05:46 PM	#5
kodavictimm Privileged Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 502 Reputation: 484	Personally I can't see that situation arise; if anything RL RP is an outlet for frustrations, sexually and otherwise. If rape itself is not just a crime of passion then it is possible that RP is likewise not just about passion but about the outlet for the desires that make rape possible. Though I think that if a guy warns that he might lose control and you say come on, it is somewhat of an invitation to lose control. Better to err on the side of caution and reschedule. __________________ No, I don't think I will rape you, although you need raping, badly. That's what's wrong with you. You should be raped and often, and by someone who knows how.

10-30-2007, 08:24 AM	#6
dark_d3viant Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 676 Reputation: 3855	Tricky question. .....I know it's the wrong thing to say, but I'd still do it. It could go horribly wrong, but at the end of the day that would have been my decision, right? I'd been warned and not listened, as usual .. Plus, he would be half in the wrong for actually agreeing to continue, knowing full well the position he's in. He may come away from it thinking he actually did commit a crime and have all those feelings.. I think I'd take the risk. xx

10-29-2007, 04:56 PM	#2
virginfantasy Guest Posts: n/a	if he says he couldn't control himself (or he even thinks he couldn't), i'd say "OK! some other time!" :P

10-29-2007, 05:01 PM	#3
jack-the-ripa Banned Join Date: May 2007 Location: www.asexuality.org Posts: 203 Reputation: 77	You people actually role play rape in real life ? Bha ha ha ha ha ha... So funny!

10-29-2007, 05:03 PM	#4
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	I would go ahead especially if its someone I really like. that would make it hotter! Im always secretly wishing some of our roleplay guys would ignore certain protocols but they are all good boys and stick to the rules. which is fair enough.

10-30-2007, 06:47 PM	#7
ivy skye Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 5 Reputation: 10	i would find it hot if he lost control as long as i can walk away fine the deeper the faster the better

11-03-2007, 09:59 PM	#9
Jasmine Privileged Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,352 Reputation: 20045	If he thinks he can't control himself, then I am not going to second guess him. I wouldn't do it especially if it wasn't someone that I knew well.