Why am I so obsessed with thoughts of being raped

[Lindseysmiles]

That is a question I keep asking myself. I mean was I abused as a child? Almost abused? Was a friend abused? Struggle as I may, I just can't remember but they say that is common. I think it may be the case because even when I play my real age of 18 I always try to imagine myself as even younger. My ideas are not ones of brute force but if being out in a position where I need to give in to someone I don't like in that way if at all and who will treat me rough and relish in the idea of how physically and emotionally painful it is for me. I like incest, loser boss at a loser job like mcdonalds or dominoes, teachers, bullies I have to date so they don't beat someone up, and even Internet dating scenes.... it seems to be therapeutic but I need detailed scenes with lots of dialogue. If anyone is interested please send me a private message

[Astro Creep]

I keep wondering why im so obsessed with the thoughts of raping someone, maybe we can figure this out together

[Lindseysmiles]

send me a private message if you wnt to roleplay

[MissPhoenix]

It seems therapeutic for me too. I have other reasons to believe I was sexually abused as a child however, and I am seeking hypnotherapy.

Soph xxx

[romer]

You seem too good to be true. Maybe this is an opportunity I should pass on

[StalkHer]

You are not alone. Now if I could only get you alone.......

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[sex buster]

i feel the same but i`m obsessed with raping someone maybe we can find an answer together?

[UK GIRL]

I fantasise all the time about being gangraped. I feel I have no control over thinking about it. It's like my body craves it. Sometimes my holes ache for cock so much, not gentle sex, but having it rammed in me so I scream.

[alexbrett]

Also weirdly obsessed with rape, love the idea of it, it turns me on more than consenting sex, have roleplayed it with a few girls and i have never cum so hard

[dokturok]

I have often asked myself a similar question: Why am I so obsessed with the idea of raping a woman? It's not me. I am the quintessential "nice guy." I open doors, help with coats, pull out chairs. Hell, in college I was the guy all the girls would come to after a night out because they knew I would take them back to their dorm room and not try anything. In fact, I recently had a woman tell me, and I felt rather ashamed when she said it because of these thoughts, "I know of no one more respectful of women than you are." I don't know where it comes from. I just hope the woman I decide to settle down with understands and is willing to 'help' for want of a better word.

Maybe it's got something to do with being the nice guy. Of being, I admit, taken advantage of by women. In my rape fantasies I often find myself telling my victims, "I have been SO good to you...now it's time for you to be good to me."

[UK GIRL]

I really don't know why either. I think it may be down to hormones or something. Sometimes all I can think about is being pinned down and gangraped and having many men cum in me. My nipples get hard and I get wet and I can't think about anything else.

[CockTheRipper]

All I know is I need to get the bus to Reading soon...

[Azores89]

Im not obsessed but I dont understand it in the first place, I had rather nice childhood and nice family/friends, no history of abuse, no history of being exposed to it either. Sometimes I think Im interested in the subject more to the 'intelligent' side like figuring it out (why etc etc) but heck I cant fool my mind into not fantasizing it. What a mess of thoughts

[susan_haynes19]

I'm the same way, but my rape was by a woman and now I'm obsessed with role playing with a woman.

[chadbro20]

I can relate! (Warning; long post ahead!)

For the longest time I was very VERY ashamed of my fantasies. I have never been raped or molested myself, so there was no "excuse" for it, if you'll pardon the language. In real life, I had always been kind and respectful to women, and I had seen the effects of rape on some of my former partners, who had been assaulted in the past. Likewise, my mother is a feminist and had worked at a battered women's shelter when I was a young teen, so it's not like I was ignorant of the effects of real-world rape. Add to that the fact that I am a former Catholic, and you can probably tell that I had a whole lot of sexual shame that stemmed not just from my forced-sex fantasies, but also from my gender. I had a lot of guilt for even owning a penis, let alone these thoughts of violating another human being!

Eventually I felt something was wrong with me so I went to therapy, convinced there was something broken inside me. Why the hell would I choose to think about these things? I already knew that it was something I would never, ever do in real-life. I'm not a threatening person, and a lot of the people who know me well speak of me in the highest regard. So why would I think of it?!

But after a while in counseling I had realized that it really just wasn't a choice. My counselor (an open-minded woman) explained that these thoughts would likely always be there and that the only thing I could do would be to decide what to do with them. I could either continue to feel guilt and shame about my fantasies, keeping them a secret and hating myself for them or I could embrace them and learn about them and enjoy them in a safe, harmless way.

Now that I've gained this new perspective, I feel so much happier and self-confident than I did before. After watching a simulated-rape porno or acting out some roleplay with a ready and willing partner, I no longer feel like I had just done something terrible and evil. I am now able to separate the actual act from my fantasies and reconcile these urges with reality in a way that keeps everybody happy.

Sorry for the long post, haha. I just wanted to put that out there.

[UK GIRL]

I've tracked my urges to be raped and they definitely are corolated to my cycle. So there! I am not twisted its my hormones! I need to be mated with!!!!

[Dangerdevil]

Hmmm. Just think how obsessive you'll get if you ever get pregnant!!!

[Sierra]

I think we all get obsessive about it because we are either (1) unlikely to ever experience it or (2) have already experienced it and are looking to process it.

Rape is powerful, even when the force is consensual. Most of us don't get to live out those fantasies, but even when we do it is scary on a lot of levels. Will I get hurt? Will I hurt her? How far is too far? etc.

[Phase]

It's a fetish, like many others. Though extremely taboo, it's a very understandable fetish, imho. We're all animals, mixing sex and violence and power seems very primal, in a natural sort of way. Consent and social behaviour, though important, are artificial constructs. Just my thinking.

[Marian T]

I was never raped or abused, just groped once at a concert. But the fantasy of getting raped is some kind of sex where I have no responsibility about what happens as I have no choice but to follow all desires of the rapists.