Question about variety - - Rape Board

MKP4 · 06-30-2006, 02:58 AM

Hello everyone.

I've been reading posts for about a month now before I decided to register. I'm happy to see that there are sufficiently mature people out there who can differentiate between fantasy and reality.

So I have a question for the ladies out there (if you'll indulge my curiosity). Does the assailant(s) your rape fantasies need to fit a particular mold? That is, do you routinely wished to be raped by a particular type of character?

Is he rich? Handsome? Ugly? Much older? Much younger?

Or maybe its not physical at all.

Is he evil, diabolical? Is he clever? Well-meaning? Needy? Aggressive?

ItÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s just something IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve always wondered. Do people want the same thing over and over again, but can't get it? Or if variation is important at all.

I guess for guys, it could be a similar question. Do you find yourself looking to rape the same type of girl? Pretty maybe? Homely maybe? Rich, poor? Or it is all over the place.

I'd be interested in seeing if men and women are essentially different in this regard.

(I know I'm leaving out women who like to rape men. And the many varying combinations of assailant and victim. You get the idea.)

Thanks and be safe.
MKP4

06-30-2006, 01:23 PM

i like picturing guys that are different each time- one time it can be a group of 19 year old boys, another time it can be one 40-something year old guy. i tend to like groups, though. and its always the same type of personality- clever, diabolical, violent and mean. i like being pushed around

avoeja · 06-30-2006, 02:50 PM

good post, I was always curious about the same question

MKP4 · 07-01-2006, 01:34 AM

Thanks virginfantasy!

That's interesting. So the person can be different, but the personality remains the same from fantasy to fantasy. That's really cool.

Are any other of you ladies the same way?
MKP4

07-01-2006, 01:17 PM

well the thought of a violent rape fantasy turns me on- i wouldnt picture him being nice and quiet while hes doing it.

MKP4 · 07-01-2006, 10:43 PM

That's a very good point. Would you be so kind as to reciprocate and fight back: kicking, fighting, scratching, clawing and biting?

Because just like you, some guys hate it when their victims are too passive.

TheOpportunist · 07-02-2006, 02:50 PM

For me, the woman is always "used"; she either gets the guys off against her will or is used to get them off when she's passed out or something. I never fantasize about slutty types, either. Other than those two caveats, I mix mine up too; different looks, different personalities.

07-02-2006, 07:23 PM

see- me, id fight back and i fantasize about me doing that because i like the thought of getting the shit beaten out of me during a rape, im not sure why though.......

07-02-2006, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by MKP4

Hello everyone.

I've been reading posts for about a month now before I decided to register. I'm happy to see that there are sufficiently mature people out there who can differentiate between fantasy and reality.

So I have a question for the ladies out there (if you'll indulge my curiosity). Does the assailant(s) your rape fantasies need to fit a particular mold? That is, do you routinely wished to be raped by a particular type of character?

Is he rich? Handsome? Ugly? Much older? Much younger?

Or maybe its not physical at all.

Is he evil, diabolical? Is he clever? Well-meaning? Needy? Aggressive?

ItÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s just something IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve always wondered. Do people want the same thing over and over again, but can't get it? Or if variation is important at all.

I guess for guys, it could be a similar question. Do you find yourself looking to rape the same type of girl? Pretty maybe? Homely maybe? Rich, poor? Or it is all over the place.

I'd be interested in seeing if men and women are essentially different in this regard.

(I know I'm leaving out women who like to rape men. And the many varying combinations of assailant and victim. You get the idea.)

Thanks and be safe.
MKP4

whenever i see somebody talking about other peoples' "maturity".... two thoughts come to mind

*they are under 18

*they have no friends

MKP4 · 07-02-2006, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by persiangurl

whenever i see somebody talking about other peoples' "maturity".... two thoughts come to mind

*they are under 18

*they have no friends

I only wish I were under 18. That's been a very long while.
As for friends, I guess I've been lucky.

MKP4

07-03-2006, 02:06 AM

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MKP4 · 07-03-2006, 03:10 AM

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Originally Posted by virginfantasy

see- me, id fight back and i fantasize about me doing that because i like the thought of getting the shit beaten out of me during a rape, im not sure why though.......

Wow (seriously). I never knew that. In most of my fantasies, the woman is barely touched (so she can stay purdy I guess). Kinda takes the realism out of it. I guess that's why they call it fantasy.

MKP4

MKP4 · 07-05-2006, 04:08 AM

Hmm .. where's Gal4's "Tanya was here"?

somedude · 07-05-2006, 04:11 AM

Don't encourage Gal4!

MKP4 · 07-05-2006, 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by somedude

Don't encourage Gal4!

But But But ...

Awww.

somedude · 07-05-2006, 05:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MKP4

But But But ...

Awww.

It's in the same category as don't feed the bears!

07-05-2006, 04:06 PM

A more detailed version of the original question: For the women who fantasise about getting raped, would you rather be raped by a handsome man (who you might not mind having sex with, if you weren't in a relationship, etc) or a disgusting man (fat, old, ugly, etc) who you would never consider having consensual sex with? The latter would be more degrading and against your will, but would it secretly turn you on more?

MKP4 · 07-05-2006, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace

A more detailed version of the original question: For the women who fantasise about getting raped, would you rather be raped by a handsome man (who you might not mind having sex with, if you weren't in a relationship, etc) or a disgusting man (fat, old, ugly, etc) who you would never consider having consensual sex with? The latter would be more degrading and against your will, but would it secretly turn you on more?

Good rephrase!

That's a really good point. For women, is the driving force the repulsion of unwanted sex? The pure energy of it? Or is it the fantasy of being unbearably desired by someone you secretly covet? I'm sure its different for different people.

MKP4 · 07-11-2006, 12:55 AM

I was reading over Arya's post "What's wrong with me?"

There's definitely evidence of the latter (secret desire). Does it start that way and evolve for women? Or is violence immediately part of the fantasy for some?

BoredMom · 07-14-2006, 12:35 AM

I was reading over some old posts tonight and came across this thread.

I think my fantasies are pretty basic. I shy away from younger men. Always have for some reason. I prefer middle age or a bit older. I think of someone who is more to plain in appearance. Of course, there are times I think of that handsome hunk. Who doesn't? Everyone would like to believe that they would be wanted by such a person. But the plain man who is somewhat overweight is more appealing to me. In my mind, he would be more likely to keep control of a situation than a slim person.

It would seem more that he couldn't get the girl of his dreams and decided to take any girl that crossed his path. One thing that never changes in my fantasies is that the person has good personal hygiene habits. Someone who is dirty never enters my thoughts.

At times, I think of something along the line of date rape. And other times I think of the snatch and grab sort of thing. A little rougher, but never brutal.

The person in my fantasies usually changes from one time to the next and the fantasy is never the same. Variety is the spice of life, right?

06-30-2006, 02:58 AM	#1
MKP4 Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 207 Reputation: 51	Question about variety - Hello everyone. I've been reading posts for about a month now before I decided to register. I'm happy to see that there are sufficiently mature people out there who can differentiate between fantasy and reality. So I have a question for the ladies out there (if you'll indulge my curiosity). Does the assailant(s) your rape fantasies need to fit a particular mold? That is, do you routinely wished to be raped by a particular type of character? Is he rich? Handsome? Ugly? Much older? Much younger? Or maybe its not physical at all. Is he evil, diabolical? Is he clever? Well-meaning? Needy? Aggressive? ItÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s just something IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢ve always wondered. Do people want the same thing over and over again, but can't get it? Or if variation is important at all. I guess for guys, it could be a similar question. Do you find yourself looking to rape the same type of girl? Pretty maybe? Homely maybe? Rich, poor? Or it is all over the place. I'd be interested in seeing if men and women are essentially different in this regard. (I know I'm leaving out women who like to rape men. And the many varying combinations of assailant and victim. You get the idea.) Thanks and be safe. MKP4

07-03-2006, 02:06 AM	#11
Tanya Guest Posts: n/a	d Last edited by Tanya; 11-23-2006 at 06:50 PM.

07-05-2006, 04:11 AM	#14
somedude W.I.R. and Marshal Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Way out West!!!! Posts: 8,566 Reputation: 124981	Don't encourage Gal4! __________________ I'm a pervert and proud of it!

06-30-2006, 01:23 PM	#2
virginfantasy Guest Posts: n/a	i like picturing guys that are different each time- one time it can be a group of 19 year old boys, another time it can be one 40-something year old guy. i tend to like groups, though. and its always the same type of personality- clever, diabolical, violent and mean. i like being pushed around

06-30-2006, 02:50 PM	#3
avoeja Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 23 Reputation: 10	good post, I was always curious about the same question

07-01-2006, 01:34 AM	#4
MKP4 Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 207 Reputation: 51	Thanks virginfantasy! That's interesting. So the person can be different, but the personality remains the same from fantasy to fantasy. That's really cool. Are any other of you ladies the same way? MKP4

07-01-2006, 01:17 PM	#5
virginfantasy Guest Posts: n/a	well the thought of a violent rape fantasy turns me on- i wouldnt picture him being nice and quiet while hes doing it.

07-01-2006, 10:43 PM	#6
MKP4 Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 207 Reputation: 51	That's a very good point. Would you be so kind as to reciprocate and fight back: kicking, fighting, scratching, clawing and biting? Because just like you, some guys hate it when their victims are too passive.

07-02-2006, 02:50 PM	#7
TheOpportunist Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 127 Reputation: 45	For me, the woman is always "used"; she either gets the guys off against her will or is used to get them off when she's passed out or something. I never fantasize about slutty types, either. Other than those two caveats, I mix mine up too; different looks, different personalities.

07-02-2006, 07:23 PM	#8
virginfantasy Guest Posts: n/a	see- me, id fight back and i fantasize about me doing that because i like the thought of getting the shit beaten out of me during a rape, im not sure why though.......

07-05-2006, 04:08 AM	#13
MKP4 Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 207 Reputation: 51	Hmm .. where's Gal4's "Tanya was here"?

07-05-2006, 04:06 PM	#17
Ace Guest Posts: n/a	A more detailed version of the original question: For the women who fantasise about getting raped, would you rather be raped by a handsome man (who you might not mind having sex with, if you weren't in a relationship, etc) or a disgusting man (fat, old, ugly, etc) who you would never consider having consensual sex with? The latter would be more degrading and against your will, but would it secretly turn you on more?

07-11-2006, 12:55 AM	#19
MKP4 Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 207 Reputation: 51	I was reading over Arya's post "What's wrong with me?" There's definitely evidence of the latter (secret desire). Does it start that way and evolve for women? Or is violence immediately part of the fantasy for some?

07-14-2006, 12:35 AM	#20
BoredMom Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Brookland, Arkansas Posts: 549 Reputation: 5835	I was reading over some old posts tonight and came across this thread. I think my fantasies are pretty basic. I shy away from younger men. Always have for some reason. I prefer middle age or a bit older. I think of someone who is more to plain in appearance. Of course, there are times I think of that handsome hunk. Who doesn't? Everyone would like to believe that they would be wanted by such a person. But the plain man who is somewhat overweight is more appealing to me. In my mind, he would be more likely to keep control of a situation than a slim person. It would seem more that he couldn't get the girl of his dreams and decided to take any girl that crossed his path. One thing that never changes in my fantasies is that the person has good personal hygiene habits. Someone who is dirty never enters my thoughts. At times, I think of something along the line of date rape. And other times I think of the snatch and grab sort of thing. A little rougher, but never brutal. The person in my fantasies usually changes from one time to the next and the fantasy is never the same. Variety is the spice of life, right?