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10-29-2008, 10:12 AM | #81 | |
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Being an alcoholic isn't a crime of course. It was merely an example, not an intent do "bash" alcoholics in any way and certainly not to compare them to rapists. I just wanted to state that being tempted by something still doesn't give you an excuse if you actually act upon it. There also is a difference between people thinking "what if ... ?" and actually doing it. Although I might see danger lurking when people tell me "I actually thought about it but I'd never do it" ... thinking about something is (fortunately) not a crime yet. I suppose we all had things come to our minds that - if we actually DID do them - might get us into trouble or even be crimes. Still we did chose to (I hope ... ) restrain ourselves so no harm was actually done. No problem there.
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If you want to analize it however: Someone who IS or tends to be a rapist will commit a(nother) rape anyway; the presence, the behaviour or the clothes of the victim are only a pretense (dodgery?). For someone else, those things can be the cause. Without it, nothing would have happened. Dont misunderstand me; i'm not saying that rapists are usually provoked, nor that if they are provoked they are not guilty. But i can see the difference between the cases and thus i cant accept the same definition for both of them. And if i want to protect society (a rape damages whole society besides the victim), i have to protect the women (as potential victims) and i have to protect weak people by not putting their weakness in a test. Dont forget, i started this responding to your statement "People, justice systems, governments, whatever ... who decide to put blame on the victims - especially when based on clothing, walking route, etc. - are just sad and I despise this kind of thinking". It seems that those justice systems can see something that you fail to see: people are not perfect, they have weaknesses and pushing their buttons can have bad outcome; yet, even those weak people have the right to live. But let me ask back... Do you believe that people have the right to live without being tempted? If yes, what should happen to those people who play and hurt others just to tickle their vanity, or use others as a morale booster when in need to feed their egomania? What should we (society) do to that little cock teasers? (to save your time: dont tell me what we shouldnt do; just what we should. Quote:
And the beer is just a beer. If the beer was wearing a cloth as big as a tie, mischievously was slidding from his chin to his chest, was whisperring love words while bitting his ear, was proposing to go to a more private place and finally declaring that she is to much of a beer to be drunk by him and that all happened because she wanted to make other drinkers jealous.... well this is not a common beer... yes, there might be some blame to put on that beer. Speaking about alcohol.... a drunk woman is not able to give consent. In other words, she is not responsible for her actions. A man is (besides that, we are equal ). Meanning, that if she call me for a fuck, if she put her fingers in my mouth and say "i want we make love" today, but she change her mind tomorrow, that makes me a rapist. A rapist, do you conceive that? I am an evil criminal who (according to Sierra) reduced her to subhuman status, dehumanized her and destroyed her soul !!! Sorry, my brains cant take that; i'll pass. Quote:
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However... my car will eventually break down one day.... is that a reason to drive it through walls? . . . second thoughts: are you saying that because he either "has it" or "has it not" its fine to put him in temptation? Last edited by ego; 10-29-2008 at 06:35 PM. |
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10-29-2008, 07:01 PM | #84 |
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Sierra, it seems we come closer to the root of our disagreement. Respecting you and your personal experiences i'll say one thing only: If i had been raped, i might agree with you; this however wouldnt make me right, it would only narrow my ability to look from different angles.
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10-29-2008, 07:45 PM | #86 |
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Approximately. Not only. I dont want to say more about that in public.
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I also agree - people are not perfect. What is that supposed to tell us, that's the only thing I apparently fail to see. We simply have to accept rapes taking place because "people aren't perfect"? Another - quite cynical as well by the way - opinion I am not willing to share. Pretty much like the "weak people". I sure as hell won't deny "weak" people their right to live I am however denying them the right to use "being weak" as a defense for attacking others. I have been in the courtroom often enough to have heard many variations of such statements. Sorry - personally and objectively - I reject all of them. Quote:
Alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, cheating, stealing, speeding ... there are so many temptations people might be subjected to every day. I expect people to be able to resist temptations and not blame those "temptations" for their own choices. Quote:
Telling those "cock teasers" not to dress sexy, not to take certain roads, etc. certainly can't be the solution to settle with. What we should do is what we do: Tell those "tempted" men to suck it up, resist the "temptation" or otherwise go to jail. Quote:
Perhaps "alcoholic" was a poor choice of words, I might as well have said "customer", "person", whatever ... the principle is still the same. You can't blame a temptation for a person acting upon it. Already being a rapist or not is beside the point. Quote:
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Declaring men are just too weak to resist a sexy woman, they are put in a "fight" with themselves is such a sad statement offending every woman that has ever fallen prey to a rapist. It is despicable beyond words. Quote:
But like you argued before ... you are talking about people who are not alcoholics. And in that case: Yes. I expect a man (every man) to resist raping a woman. Quote:
Knowing your car will inevitably break down one day is not the same as purposely destroying it and has nothing to do with a man deciding to rape a woman. What is supposed to be the logic behind that? The man might rape the woman just now because eventually she is going to be raped someday anyway? Sorry but that's just crap. Quote:
My second thoughts: A woman is not a "temptation" to men, she is a human being and no man has the right to attack and rape her, no matter what she is wearing and where she is going!
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VERY VERY well said Sternenlied!
Ego i went through your whole post and tried to understand what you were saying(out of respect)but give me a break.I don't care what a woman does,how slutty or stupid she acts,it's called being a man not a little bitch.No one can tempt you into doing something so horrible.Your attempt at justifying it is ,well,ridiculous.We live in 2008 not 1958.Being a man is not just about having a dick.Its about your actions. if i have miss understood you then my bad but i don't think i have. We as men have to take responsibility for are actions.No one can make us do something like that. |
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Joking aside, I think Ego's trying to argue something that he'll never win in. It's a well known fact that hardcore conservatives think that the woman is to be blamed for wearing something exotic in the middle of the night. Why? Can't she express her freedom to wear whatever she wants? It's none of the government's business! Maybe she just came back from a party! |
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I am well aware how lawyers know their job (at least they should) just as well as I know mine. I don't see what the relevance is supposed to be. In Germany all rape cases (or alleged rape cases) - if they come to the law enforcement's attention - must be investigated and prosecuted. If any hypothetical case might or might not go to court doesn't really matter here since I was merely stating I have heard all kinds of "reasoning" why a rapist might have been pushed into raping a victim and telling you how false I consider all of them. Quote:
Rape is also illegal and still you want to but blame on the victim for offering "temptation". Now - by declaring my other examples are outlawed - you want to make the opposing point. What's it going to be? Your conclusion those things are outlawed because of society's desire to control "temptations" is exactly that: your conclusion. Those "temptations" might be outlawed (to various degrees) in several countries for very different reasons, others are not at all or only to a very small degree. So obviously "society" (putting it in quotation marks since there is no one, single society) doesn't agree on what should be allowed and what shouldn't be. Quote:
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To a rapist women are objects. I didn't say women can't be blamed for anything, I said they can't be blamed for being raped. I didn't say women aren't responsible for their own behaviour. I said they aren't responsible for other people's behaviour (in this case a rapist's). I didn't say women's actions aren't rated. I said other people's actions aren't their fault. I didn't say whatever may happen to them is only a man's decision. I said raping a woman is only a man's decision. Quote:
Shoot every man approaching her when she's alone in a dark alley or dressed sexy? What's the purpose of this question? Like I said several times already ... if you so desperately want to put blame on the victim feel free to do so but never expect me to agree. Quote:
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If you're talking about sexually tempting a man - yes, if I want to I know of several ways to do so of course. Doesn't mean a man is allowed to act upon that temptation if I don't want him to.
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I have no idea why my post is above yours ...
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While i speak about presence, provocative behaviour and clothes and i give specific examples, you trying to reduce it to "her just being there"! Perhaps because its easy to defend it that way, while you know what provocative behaviour is and probably you feel its wrong although you dont want to admit it. Well, i'm not that stupid to put blame on someone for "just being there". Then, did i say that this is an excuse or explanation? I said that in some cases, it can be the cause. Did i say that he is not guilty? I dont think so. Quite the opposite. I put the blame of rapping on him, tempted or not. Plus, i put the blame of tempting on her, raped or not. The one does not negate the other. Quote:
Perhaps you should say as well in what capacity and for what reason you have been in the courtroom, it might explain a few things and make one think that perhaps shouldnt be in the same sentence with the word objectively... Not to mention that lawyers and procurators know their job: cases like the ones that i talk about probably wont go in the court... Quote:
Seriously, i have to thank you for that statment! I believe that deep inside you, you know the truth; but there is a wall that doesnt allow you to reach it. Because: *Alcohol is banned to some societies, denied to minors in the others. People who use it often are censurable by society. Officially reports in England consider alcohol the second most dangerous drug. *Cigarettes: non acceptable in some societies, almost banned in America, banned from public places in EU, forced to write smoking can kill on packs. *drugs:do i need to comment? Yes i need, especially on that one. Because in that case the one who makes the action is considered a patient, while the temptation's provider is considered a drug dealer, one of the worst criminals. *cheating: definitelly considered a "bad" action, censurable by most societies, incures penalties that reach execution to some of them. *stealing ...well, that is a crime! *speeding: allowed within limit. Low enough to say: but i'm not speeding right now! Well, it seems that society does care about reducing and/or control temptations. Your answer however is No, people dont have the right to live without being tempted. And so, people who play and hurt others just to tickle their vanity, or use others as a morale booster when in need to feed their egomania are just fine? Quote:
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For 3rd time in this topic however: I put the blame of rapping on him, tempted or not. Plus, i put the blame of tempting on her, raped or not. Personally, i find another thing offending for women: To reduce them in beer status (object anyway). To declare they can be blammed for nothing, they are not responsible for their behavior, their actions are not rated; what happens or happens not to them, is corollary of a man's decision.... Agreed...besides, what to expect from a woman? Quote:
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On a society level, i have already won. Societies -each one to a degree- have developped their ways to keep temptations and "temptations" within lines. I'm not saying that those "defences", those written or unwritten laws are the best solution, but the fact there is a need for solutions means that temptations are diagnosed as a problem. Quote:
Yes she can, within lines. Taking whatever literally, no, she cant. She can do that in her home, not in public. 1st because that "whatever" does things on others. One's freedom ends where one other's freedom starts. 2nd because if she has the right to express her freedom anyhow, same right has anybody; those who spray the walls, those who run naked during games, those who dont let you sleep with their music, those...those...those.... Those exhibitionists with the gabbardine. Really, why that is considered a vice and not "one's freedom expression through dressing choices" ?? Quote:
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People are expected to be able to resist, however societies help them,do not let them like that! They try to reduce their exposure! Rape is not a temptation, its a crime. To 3 of your six examples the temptation is banned, not the person who acts! To 5 (all actually, stealing is a crime), the temptation is targeted, considered a "bad" thing and punishable or an example to avoid! You however, you used those examples to state that no, people dont need any right to live without being tempted !!! I need to make no opposing point, you've done it on your own. Quote:
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So she isnt raped! Big difference dont you think !? Perhaps you havent noticed that (that she isnt raped if...), becaused you've been focused on him. He failed, he tried, he get caught, he died. What about her? Even if she goes unharmed, he wont get away from your furry, because "if he has it inside him, he'll commit a rape anyway". Is that Judge Dredd typing those? The experiment you refer to has to do with random events, and provoking someone is an action/decision, not a random event.Yet, even if so, only when the box is opened and an observation performed one can say about the cat's state. Never before Quote:
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In the initial example - a women being raped when she's wearing sexy clothes and maybe taking a shortcut through an empty park or a dark alley - I don't see any active behaviour towards the rapist in question. She's simply there while he is the one attacking her. So if your whole point is pointing out that I focus on the assailant then yes, I do. I am not criticizing her if a rape occurs so why would I if nothing happens? Quote:
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Yes, I am focused on him. And why not? Of course being raped or not would make a big difference ... for her. For him however ... not at all, he still attempted to rape her. There's a reason attempting to commit a crime is still a crime itself. His attempt at raping her being foiled in some way shouldn't let him get away with it. Quote:
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I understood what you was stating, but it wasnt everything i understood. Regardless of what you was taking those examples to, they indicate two things: *quotes himself* Quote:
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*looks back on the conversation* I am saying presenting him with a "temptation" doesn't matter. A man who is willing to rape a woman will do so one day, with or without "temptation". Off course it matters. ..2nd, if not tempted to commit a rape today... many things may happen tomorrow. So? He might fail. Means he still tried. .... So? So she isnt raped! Big difference dont you think !? Of course being raped or not would make a big difference ... for her. So, presenting him with a "temptation", makes some difference! It does matters! And -no matter how much you dont want see it- her decisions effects the result! Yes i know, those are small print to you. Imortant is to get him and since he is caught.... mission accomplished. Quote:
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Well, since you claim to understand what I am talking about I have to assume you're simply just not willing to see what I am saying. Given that I also asked you not to repeat yourself all the time but actually progress your argument while you obviously refuse to clarify on those points I asked you about I see no reason to continue this any further.
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And i gave you a very clarified example; so, no refusion from my side. You however, you refuse to comment on it. Why asking for others? Just to give you the joy of trying reject them? Or to ignore them if you cant reject? After all, if you wanted any clarifications you could ask in the beggining; then when you wasnt arguing yet and before you make absolut statements that your own words turned against. Sorry doggy, your statement makes no sense. Please improve your maths. |
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OMG, I was reading for a long time, but there's still not a final answer.
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