Should Looks Matter - Rape Board

Mugga123 · 10-17-2008, 08:24 PM

Ok guys, girl at Uni likes me but the problem is she's ugly as a hat full of assholes (Bad teeth, shit load of pimples, orange hair....). So what do I do, I'm not the best looker myself and there's no one else on the scene, do I ask her out and see how it goes or leave it and wait till someone else comes along

Sierra · 10-17-2008, 09:55 PM

Depends on if you like spending time with her.

We all know how pretty people can seem ugly if they are ugly inside. It works in reverse too.

If you spend time with her just to get your rocks off, then throw her aside when "something better" comes along, that's a level of cruel that reserves you a place near the furnace in Hell.

touriquet2001 · 10-17-2008, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Sierra

Depends on if you like spending time with her.

We all know how pretty people can seem ugly if they are ugly inside. It works in reverse too.

If you spend time with her just to get your rocks off, then throw her aside when "something better" comes along, that's a level of cruel that reserves you a place near the furnace in Hell.

very well said sierra

FuckingRotter · 10-18-2008, 08:49 AM

Ask her out!

What do her looks matter? My one and only proper long lasting girlfriend that I took seriously, despite being pretty, was a scarred, twisted, broken dwarf that could hardly walk. But she had a brilliant mind, and was as much of a sickbitch when it came to sex as I am a sick bastard. For two years of my life I was an extremely lucky and happy man.

What I'm saying is, don't let her looks put you off, you could have a real treasure there. Best of luck.

Ragman · 10-18-2008, 11:44 AM

I just have a couple of thoughts here....

First it really depends on how you feel about her. If you go into a possible relationship because you feel there is no better you can do, and as such you feel you are lowering your standards to be with the person the relationship is doomed even before it starts.

If you have feelings for her then you should see the above posts, Looks don't matter once you get to know someone.

from the sound of your post ( and I mean no offense by this) it kinda sounds like you've already judged her to be beneath you, I would say if that is the case.. do the both of you a favor and leave it be

SecretObsession · 10-18-2008, 11:50 AM

Sometimes there's not an attraction at first, but I know lots of people who started like that and gave it a chance and they are still together. My only advice, especially if she really likes you is to be honest with her. Tell her that you wanna get to know her, don't mislead her. Good luck

rasputin · 10-18-2008, 02:26 PM

Well, the way you described her... perhaps she should be very weary of going out with you and not the other way around. I see some heartbreak in the future for that girl.

If anyone talked about me that way, I would find it extremely hurtful.

Hurtful and accurate, mind you...

ChiTownHoney · 10-18-2008, 04:36 PM

You should definitely NOT go out with her. You do not find her attractive.

You should only go out with someone if there is at least SOMETHING that attracts you. If you think she is that ugly, that is pretty damn bad, and does not make a base for a good relationship. Dont do it!!! no matter what anyone else says. You will NOT start liking her because you already find her pretty damn unattractive. I mean, a hat full of assholes? Seriously?

Now, my first serious relationship was with a guy I found unattractive at first. he had scraggly hair, nerdy glasses and was kinda fat. I didnt think he was particularly attractive, but by the end of the first day I met him, there was something about him that made me go out with him later on. He had such a deep, sexy voice and had some style. So even though I wasnt attracted to him at first, there was something that lured me in. (going out with someone of my caliber gave him some confidence though, he cut his hair all good, got contacts and revealed that he was fine as hell. His confidence soured way too high, because he later cheated on me)

Unless this girl has something about her that makes you want to get to know her...forget it.

And whats with her teeth? Are they yellow and falling out, or just crooked. I want to know for my damn self because my teeth arent perfect either.

Mugga123 · 10-18-2008, 07:17 PM

Thanks everyone. Just gonna leave it. Prob better to just have her a as a friend anyway.

Mookal · 10-18-2008, 07:36 PM

"Should Looks Matter"

Hope not, or I'm fucked

menace · 10-19-2008, 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Sierra

If you spend time with her just to get your rocks off, then throw her aside when "something better" comes along, that's a level of cruel that reserves you a place near the furnace in Hell.

Now, this I have to disagree with. Sure, doing this while pretending you are serious about her is very bad indeed.

But if you make it clear from the outset that it's only a casual thing, I don't see anything wrong with that.

Sternenlied · 10-19-2008, 05:49 PM

If you're not sexually attracted to her ... what is the point?
Mutual sexual attraction is an essential point of any relationship that is supposed to last. So if one side of the partnership is missing this point it's not going to work anyway.
It doesn't matter if you're a great-looking guy, stunning and filling every woman that lays eyes on you with awe. I can understand what you're saying but it still doesn't matter. As long as she (whoever, doesn't need to be that particular person) isn't what you're attracted to - physically as well - there is no reason to pretend otherwise (and no good in doing so, for the both of you).

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 10-20-2008, 12:50 AM

I would still fuck her !!

TZOFOSHO · 10-20-2008, 06:47 AM

Should looks matter, who knows? Do they matter, yes.

Got to agree with chi town and sternenlied on this one, if you have no attraction to someone then why bother? There is something to be said for personality, i believe that liking a who a person is makes them more attractive, but i have never met someone who i found completely unattractive, and later decided that their personality made them attractive.

looks like you already made the decision mugga, but, leave this one alone.

10-17-2008, 08:24 PM	#1
Mugga123 Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 983 Reputation: 22893	Should Looks Matter Ok guys, girl at Uni likes me but the problem is she's ugly as a hat full of assholes (Bad teeth, shit load of pimples, orange hair....). So what do I do, I'm not the best looker myself and there's no one else on the scene, do I ask her out and see how it goes or leave it and wait till someone else comes along __________________ It's all fun and games till someone gets raped.

10-17-2008, 09:55 PM	#2
Sierra Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Northern California Posts: 1,625 Reputation: 129196	Depends on if you like spending time with her. We all know how pretty people can seem ugly if they are ugly inside. It works in reverse too. If you spend time with her just to get your rocks off, then throw her aside when "something better" comes along, that's a level of cruel that reserves you a place near the furnace in Hell. __________________ Although the most incisive judges of the witches and even the witches themselves were convinced of the guilt of witchcraft, this guilt nevertheless did not exist. Thus it is with all guilt.

10-18-2008, 11:44 AM	#5
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	I just have a couple of thoughts here.... First it really depends on how you feel about her. If you go into a possible relationship because you feel there is no better you can do, and as such you feel you are lowering your standards to be with the person the relationship is doomed even before it starts. If you have feelings for her then you should see the above posts, Looks don't matter once you get to know someone. from the sound of your post ( and I mean no offense by this) it kinda sounds like you've already judged her to be beneath you, I would say if that is the case.. do the both of you a favor and leave it be __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2

10-18-2008, 07:17 PM	#9
Mugga123 Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 983 Reputation: 22893	Thanks everyone. Just gonna leave it. Prob better to just have her a as a friend anyway. __________________ It's all fun and games till someone gets raped.

10-19-2008, 05:49 PM	#12
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	If you're not sexually attracted to her ... what is the point? Mutual sexual attraction is an essential point of any relationship that is supposed to last. So if one side of the partnership is missing this point it's not going to work anyway. It doesn't matter if you're a great-looking guy, stunning and filling every woman that lays eyes on you with awe. I can understand what you're saying but it still doesn't matter. As long as she (whoever, doesn't need to be that particular person) isn't what you're attracted to - physically as well - there is no reason to pretend otherwise (and no good in doing so, for the both of you). __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

10-18-2008, 08:49 AM	#4
FuckingRotter The Fist of Fury. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Entering the.... Posts: 9,649 Reputation: 118903	Ask her out! What do her looks matter? My one and only proper long lasting girlfriend that I took seriously, despite being pretty, was a scarred, twisted, broken dwarf that could hardly walk. But she had a brilliant mind, and was as much of a sickbitch when it came to sex as I am a sick bastard. For two years of my life I was an extremely lucky and happy man. What I'm saying is, don't let her looks put you off, you could have a real treasure there. Best of luck.

10-18-2008, 11:50 AM	#6
SecretObsession Passion's Playtoy Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,591 Reputation: 11692	Sometimes there's not an attraction at first, but I know lots of people who started like that and gave it a chance and they are still together. My only advice, especially if she really likes you is to be honest with her. Tell her that you wanna get to know her, don't mislead her. Good luck

10-18-2008, 02:26 PM	#7
rasputin Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 378 Reputation: 1534	Well, the way you described her... perhaps she should be very weary of going out with you and not the other way around. I see some heartbreak in the future for that girl. If anyone talked about me that way, I would find it extremely hurtful. Hurtful and accurate, mind you...

10-18-2008, 04:36 PM	#8
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	You should definitely NOT go out with her. You do not find her attractive. You should only go out with someone if there is at least SOMETHING that attracts you. If you think she is that ugly, that is pretty damn bad, and does not make a base for a good relationship. Dont do it!!! no matter what anyone else says. You will NOT start liking her because you already find her pretty damn unattractive. I mean, a hat full of assholes? Seriously? Now, my first serious relationship was with a guy I found unattractive at first. he had scraggly hair, nerdy glasses and was kinda fat. I didnt think he was particularly attractive, but by the end of the first day I met him, there was something about him that made me go out with him later on. He had such a deep, sexy voice and had some style. So even though I wasnt attracted to him at first, there was something that lured me in. (going out with someone of my caliber gave him some confidence though, he cut his hair all good, got contacts and revealed that he was fine as hell. His confidence soured way too high, because he later cheated on me) Unless this girl has something about her that makes you want to get to know her...forget it. And whats with her teeth? Are they yellow and falling out, or just crooked. I want to know for my damn self because my teeth arent perfect either.

10-18-2008, 07:36 PM	#10
Mookal Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 134 Reputation: 192	"Should Looks Matter" Hope not, or I'm fucked

10-20-2008, 12:50 AM	#13
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	I would still fuck her !! __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!

10-20-2008, 06:47 AM	#14
TZOFOSHO Hardest E-thug around Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 970 Reputation: 38545	Should looks matter, who knows? Do they matter, yes. Got to agree with chi town and sternenlied on this one, if you have no attraction to someone then why bother? There is something to be said for personality, i believe that liking a who a person is makes them more attractive, but i have never met someone who i found completely unattractive, and later decided that their personality made them attractive. looks like you already made the decision mugga, but, leave this one alone. __________________ I'm a drunken fool...