WTF is she on about? - Page 2 - Rape Board

Sierra · 05-10-2009, 09:54 AM

I think this girl has given you every sign possible that she welcomes the "forced" aspect of it.

What you can do, preferably NOT during foreplay - is ask her where her boundaries are. In other words find out what she will NOT tolerate. Also establish a safe word with her. The safe word will give you both some assurance that things won't suddenly go beyond her limits.

Another thing that has worked well for me and others is to discuss it online. I know that I will admit things in IM that I would never admit face-to-face. I know couples who actually live together but retreat to different rooms on laptops to talk about subjects that one of them finds hard to discuss. The phone works too but not nearly as well.

trina-crys · 05-10-2009, 10:19 AM

Me and my girl are both in to rape fantasy. We Roll play it all the time and have never had any problems letting each other know what we want.

But again we're lesbians and talk everything out. What is it with women and talking, we love it so

taboolover · 05-25-2009, 02:08 AM

The last explanation makes more sense. I guess for many years, it's more socially expected in modern society for males to be openly kinky than females.

Males also have a disadvantage because we have to be concerned with "not crossing the line" between rape play/fanstasy and actual rape.

Texas · 06-02-2009, 09:25 PM

First off...let's get one thing straight...

Men will never understand women. And no, women do NOT understand men. That is one reason men and women are different.

Let's be real here ladies....one simple example will do...

Let's put it politely...

Guys...if we bled heavily for 3 to 5 days, losing over a pint or more of blood, we would most likely DIE.

Women, you do it for what? 30...40...sometimes 50 freakin years? And then blame US MEN for it....nuff said...women and men won't learn to understand each other...

But that's okay....Texas has a solution...well..at least to this "she wants a good raping and is not going to ask for it."

You simply don't ask and don't tell...to go back to grade school and do SHOW and TELL.

Like anything...you move up to it folks....

Start with a little holding her arms tight and to the bed or something...move to a little bondage and gags...then to the same but with clothes on and then maybe a little more force (tearing the clothes, spanking etc)....as long as her cunt gets wet, she's getting into it.

This means fellas....you got to have a little restraint here too...measure her reactions, reign your lust in, make sure she's really into it and if not...BACK THE HELL OFF to the last level she WAS into...

That way, you'll fine her limits or yours...and the LEAST of those two is where the boundary is.

Nothing worthwhile comes easy or quick, that includes a good raping you can BOTH enjoy.

At least, that's my 2 copper thins of opinion...

SecretObsession · 06-05-2009, 12:52 PM

Maybe she's just never thought about what her desires actually mean. So when you put a name to it she just didn't realize that it applies to her. Maybe she just see's it as a little game? Too young or emotionally immature to understand the bigger picture? Or maybe just too embarassed to be called out on it?

05-10-2009, 09:54 AM	#21
Sierra Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Northern California Posts: 1,625 Reputation: 129196	I think this girl has given you every sign possible that she welcomes the "forced" aspect of it. What you can do, preferably NOT during foreplay - is ask her where her boundaries are. In other words find out what she will NOT tolerate. Also establish a safe word with her. The safe word will give you both some assurance that things won't suddenly go beyond her limits. Another thing that has worked well for me and others is to discuss it online. I know that I will admit things in IM that I would never admit face-to-face. I know couples who actually live together but retreat to different rooms on laptops to talk about subjects that one of them finds hard to discuss. The phone works too but not nearly as well. __________________ Although the most incisive judges of the witches and even the witches themselves were convinced of the guilt of witchcraft, this guilt nevertheless did not exist. Thus it is with all guilt.

05-10-2009, 10:19 AM	#22
trina-crys Privileged Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 364 Reputation: 23111	Me and my girl are both in to rape fantasy. We Roll play it all the time and have never had any problems letting each other know what we want. But again we're lesbians and talk everything out. What is it with women and talking, we love it so __________________ Mother Can you keep them in the dark for life Can you hide them from the waiting world Oh mother Father Gonna take you daughter out tonight Gonna show her my world Oh father Not about to see your light But if you wanna find hell with me I can show you what its like Till your bleeding

05-25-2009, 02:08 AM	#23
taboolover Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 89 Reputation: 436	wow! The last explanation makes more sense. I guess for many years, it's more socially expected in modern society for males to be openly kinky than females. Males also have a disadvantage because we have to be concerned with "not crossing the line" between rape play/fanstasy and actual rape.

06-02-2009, 09:25 PM	#24
Texas Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 12 Reputation: 232	First off...let's get one thing straight... Men will never understand women. And no, women do NOT understand men. That is one reason men and women are different. Let's be real here ladies....one simple example will do... Let's put it politely... Guys...if we bled heavily for 3 to 5 days, losing over a pint or more of blood, we would most likely DIE. Women, you do it for what? 30...40...sometimes 50 freakin years? And then blame US MEN for it....nuff said...women and men won't learn to understand each other... But that's okay....Texas has a solution...well..at least to this "she wants a good raping and is not going to ask for it." You simply don't ask and don't tell...to go back to grade school and do SHOW and TELL. Like anything...you move up to it folks.... Start with a little holding her arms tight and to the bed or something...move to a little bondage and gags...then to the same but with clothes on and then maybe a little more force (tearing the clothes, spanking etc)....as long as her cunt gets wet, she's getting into it. This means fellas....you got to have a little restraint here too...measure her reactions, reign your lust in, make sure she's really into it and if not...BACK THE HELL OFF to the last level she WAS into... That way, you'll fine her limits or yours...and the LEAST of those two is where the boundary is. Nothing worthwhile comes easy or quick, that includes a good raping you can BOTH enjoy. At least, that's my 2 copper thins of opinion...

06-05-2009, 12:52 PM	#25
SecretObsession Passion's Playtoy Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,591 Reputation: 11692	Maybe she's just never thought about what her desires actually mean. So when you put a name to it she just didn't realize that it applies to her. Maybe she just see's it as a little game? Too young or emotionally immature to understand the bigger picture? Or maybe just too embarassed to be called out on it?