magic wand - Rape Board

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 02-05-2008, 07:28 PM

If you could wave a magic wand and make yourself free of these fantasies - would you ??

for me its a tough question because althought it is a difficult fantasy to have man its fucking rewarding when you meet the right partner !!

Sternenlied · 02-05-2008, 07:29 PM

No way!
Why should I make them go away?
They are no nuisance whatsoever, I like them!

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 02-05-2008, 07:33 PM

remember if you did wave the wand you would not remember what they were - you would be *NORMAL* and you wouldnt have to hide shit from partners and the like .

Sternenlied · 02-05-2008, 07:37 PM

Well, I consider myself to be "normal" since I don't regard these fantasies as something "abnormal".
And I don't hide them from my partners - if they can't deal that's their problem, not mine.
So I don't feel the need to change in any way.

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 02-05-2008, 07:45 PM

the problem is not if you see them as abnormal though - its what other people think as well - i mean i am the first to point two fingers up at society !! but i actually do care what my family and some friends would think you see what i mean ?

i dont think there is anything wrong with these fantasie but sometimes it does get tiring to hide it from certain people.

Sternenlied · 02-05-2008, 07:49 PM

I can understand your incentive.
I have to keep those fantasies away fro several places in my mind as well. I do not support the hypocritial opinions of most of our societies but I have accepted the need to live with them when necessary.
But still I wouldn't want to change any part of me that makes me who I am.

jessica · 02-05-2008, 08:28 PM

i would.. i wish i could make love with a guy but it makes me cry. and it hurts the guy's i've been with because they don't understand. i can only do it if it's forced. my life would be so much happier if i could change things

Sierra · 02-05-2008, 11:22 PM

Not me. Fantasy rape made the real one not nearly so scary.

Besides - it's one hell of a lot of fun!!

zazie · 02-05-2008, 11:25 PM

I wouldn't. I don't exclusively fantasize about rape, so it doesn't have a negative effect on my ability to enjoy anything else. It's just a good way to liven things up.

Ragman · 02-06-2008, 01:00 AM

Honestly thats a hard question. I mean one one end, there would be no risking getting caught, no "confession" to make to your partner and the worry that perhaps you would be looked at as some deviant, and perhaps thought to be lumped in with real rapists.

On the other hand the fantasy is part of me and denying who you are is never a good thing.

I am going to say no i wouldn't, I like them too much and they serve me as stress relief.

Of course the pervert in me knows that a wand that coudl boast such amazing properties could be useful for... other .. things

ego · 02-06-2008, 06:58 AM

I wouldnt.
There are things i would like to change on other people however.

menace · 02-06-2008, 12:34 PM

No way! Without them, I'd just be boring

Jennevieve · 02-06-2008, 04:21 PM

For me: absolutely not.

Honestly, though, the easiest way to deal with it is to be fairly open. Maybe you can't do that with rape, but you can make it pretty clear that you're into kinky things, and I mean, if you're into BDSM, it makes it a lot easier. I lit. have BDSM as an interest on Facebook. Everyone knows I'm a sub, because it's just part of who I am -- when you're open with this sort of thing, you don't have to deal with the uncomfortable situation of explaining it to a partner, etc. People should take you for who you are.

AtomicGarbage · 02-07-2008, 05:51 AM

I would. There's no question about it.

Being an extreme masochist isn't part of who I am. It's an arbitrary attribute designated to me without my permission. It means that I can never have a relationship with a man that isn't purely sexual, and it means that I can never have a relationship with a woman without denying my sexual preferences. Christ, if I didn't have this stupid self-destructive tendency I would never have made certain mistakes in my past that I find myself regretting these days. To hell with this stupid part of me that wants to be hurt. No surprise: it's caused nothing but pain.

Abra kadabra.

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 02-13-2008, 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Ragman

Honestly thats a hard question. I mean one one end, there would be no risking getting caught, no "confession" to make to your partner and the worry that perhaps you would be looked at as some deviant, and perhaps thought to be lumped in with real rapists.

On the other hand the fantasy is part of me and denying who you are is never a good thing.

I am going to say no i wouldn't, I like them too much and they serve me as stress relief.

Of course the pervert in me knows that a wand that coudl boast such amazing properties could be useful for... other .. things

it is a very fucking tough question thats why i asked it ! i am still not sure of my own answer to it !!

02-13-2008, 08:50 AM

No way would I give this up. It's who and what I am.. always have been. Whether or not I'm with someone I can do this with or not doesn't matter. I have had totally fulfulling encounters and relationships with men on both sides of the spectrum, so to speak. You don't have to go all out with bondage or role play rapes to enjoy these desires. And you don't have to shut this off from yourself to enjoy "regular" sex and/or intimacy. If you can't call it a rape fantasy because the partner you're with would flip out on you, say it's just rough sex. Make it fun and sexy... regardless.

02-05-2008, 07:28 PM	#1
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	magic wand If you could wave a magic wand and make yourself free of these fantasies - would you ?? for me its a tough question because althought it is a difficult fantasy to have man its fucking rewarding when you meet the right partner !! __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!

02-05-2008, 07:29 PM	#2
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	No way! Why should I make them go away? They are no nuisance whatsoever, I like them! __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

02-05-2008, 07:33 PM	#3
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	remember if you did wave the wand you would not remember what they were - you would be NORMAL and you wouldnt have to hide shit from partners and the like . __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!

02-05-2008, 07:37 PM	#4
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	Well, I consider myself to be "normal" since I don't regard these fantasies as something "abnormal". And I don't hide them from my partners - if they can't deal that's their problem, not mine. So I don't feel the need to change in any way. __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

02-05-2008, 07:45 PM	#5
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	the problem is not if you see them as abnormal though - its what other people think as well - i mean i am the first to point two fingers up at society !! but i actually do care what my family and some friends would think you see what i mean ? i dont think there is anything wrong with these fantasie but sometimes it does get tiring to hide it from certain people. __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!

02-05-2008, 07:49 PM	#6
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	I can understand your incentive. I have to keep those fantasies away fro several places in my mind as well. I do not support the hypocritial opinions of most of our societies but I have accepted the need to live with them when necessary. But still I wouldn't want to change any part of me that makes me who I am. __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

02-05-2008, 08:28 PM	#7
jessica Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 1 Reputation: 10	i would.. i wish i could make love with a guy but it makes me cry. and it hurts the guy's i've been with because they don't understand. i can only do it if it's forced. my life would be so much happier if i could change things

02-05-2008, 11:22 PM	#8
Sierra Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Northern California Posts: 1,625 Reputation: 129196	Not me. Fantasy rape made the real one not nearly so scary. Besides - it's one hell of a lot of fun!! __________________ Although the most incisive judges of the witches and even the witches themselves were convinced of the guilt of witchcraft, this guilt nevertheless did not exist. Thus it is with all guilt.

02-05-2008, 11:25 PM	#9
zazie Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 87 Reputation: 15	I wouldn't. I don't exclusively fantasize about rape, so it doesn't have a negative effect on my ability to enjoy anything else. It's just a good way to liven things up.

02-06-2008, 01:00 AM	#10
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	Honestly thats a hard question. I mean one one end, there would be no risking getting caught, no "confession" to make to your partner and the worry that perhaps you would be looked at as some deviant, and perhaps thought to be lumped in with real rapists. On the other hand the fantasy is part of me and denying who you are is never a good thing. I am going to say no i wouldn't, I like them too much and they serve me as stress relief. Of course the pervert in me knows that a wand that coudl boast such amazing properties could be useful for... other .. things __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2

02-06-2008, 06:58 AM	#11
ego the obscure Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 3,457 Reputation: 14892	I wouldnt. There are things i would like to change on other people however. __________________ ..lure them all into the abyss!

02-06-2008, 12:34 PM	#12
menace Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Who knows? Posts: 2,436 Reputation: 26964	No way! Without them, I'd just be boring __________________ Try and stop me

02-06-2008, 04:21 PM	#13
Jennevieve Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 97 Reputation: 118	For me: absolutely not. Honestly, though, the easiest way to deal with it is to be fairly open. Maybe you can't do that with rape, but you can make it pretty clear that you're into kinky things, and I mean, if you're into BDSM, it makes it a lot easier. I lit. have BDSM as an interest on Facebook. Everyone knows I'm a sub, because it's just part of who I am -- when you're open with this sort of thing, you don't have to deal with the uncomfortable situation of explaining it to a partner, etc. People should take you for who you are.

02-07-2008, 05:51 AM	#14
AtomicGarbage Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: San Francisco, California Posts: 59 Reputation: 475	I would. There's no question about it. Being an extreme masochist isn't part of who I am. It's an arbitrary attribute designated to me without my permission. It means that I can never have a relationship with a man that isn't purely sexual, and it means that I can never have a relationship with a woman without denying my sexual preferences. Christ, if I didn't have this stupid self-destructive tendency I would never have made certain mistakes in my past that I find myself regretting these days. To hell with this stupid part of me that wants to be hurt. No surprise: it's caused nothing but pain. Abra kadabra. __________________ I haven't been fucked like that since gradeschool.

02-13-2008, 08:50 AM	#16
Sephy Guest Posts: n/a	No way would I give this up. It's who and what I am.. always have been. Whether or not I'm with someone I can do this with or not doesn't matter. I have had totally fulfulling encounters and relationships with men on both sides of the spectrum, so to speak. You don't have to go all out with bondage or role play rapes to enjoy these desires. And you don't have to shut this off from yourself to enjoy "regular" sex and/or intimacy. If you can't call it a rape fantasy because the partner you're with would flip out on you, say it's just rough sex. Make it fun and sexy... regardless.