Crying women! - Rape Board

Conrad · 11-20-2008, 04:45 PM

Ok so bare with me as I'm not sure how to explain this properly.

So I was in the University Libary today and was looking up some books on the computer when I hear a sob to my right. I turn and look and this pretty girl is shyly moving past. She's crying and has tears running down her face and her eye makeup is running because of it. She sees me looking and I turn away. I sit and think for a minute then think, fuck it, none of my business right?

So I go to find my books and see her again, I move ailse then she moves to the one next to me again. She's still crying but has it much more under control now. Again she sees me and makes no attempt to hide her tears. So I think if I had the slightest idea how to comfort a crying woman I might have asked if there was anything I could do to help. She looks for some books herself, and then I move away again. I see her a third time, same thing, and I then go to find this book of Russian Philosophers. When I go back she's gone.

So then I get angry for some reason. Maybe, at myself, for the fact that I had no idea what to do. Or maybe that she seemed to be purposely near me even after I moved away.

Now, I do get very turned on by women crying, but I didn't today even though she was real pretty.

So I think what would I do if I raped (rp) a women and she starts crying? I mean I'd want to be so rough etc that I make her cry. But what then, after I cum what would I do? I don't think I'd know exactly how to handle it, probably just let her cry it out, but then there's a small part of me that knows that somewhere inside I'm a sadistic, none-empathy having guy. I think that there's a chance that I'd shout at her to stop crying and even grab her hair and slap her, or by the shouldlers and shake her around if she continued. That's probably the worst thing you could do as any of those things is only gonna cause the tears to keep flowing.

I think I'm a real bad guy now, I don't know how to handle this, usually I have a fairly good idead how I'd re-act in pretty much any situation; but this has thrown me off. I mean it doesn't matter as I'll probably not get the chance to rp. However it does affect the fantasy of it all, I mean now that it's in my mind it'll crop up, no matter how much I don't want it to, in my next fantasy. The whole thing bugs me and is weighing on my mind.

Thought? Theories? Discuss anything related to this sort of thing here, even if it's just to tell me what a piece of shit I am.

shysnale · 11-21-2008, 04:53 AM

I think that girl was crying only because she had to work on a Cobol language book. - lol

No seriously, it is difficult to know how to act with someone crying. Sometimes people are ashamed to cry in front of everybody and if you come offering your help it would make them feel even worse.

The thing is, you probably wouldn't feel the same if you saw a woman crying and know exactly why she is crying. (She can't pay her rent and is gonna end up homeless......Etc) Extra knowledge on the situation makes your feelings very different.

So I think you cannot know if tears in rape fantasy would be a turn off to you. If you are totally into your rape trip, you will be kind of tranced out and things won't affect you the same way.

Sorry if I misunderstood your request.

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 11-21-2008, 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Conrad

So I think what would I do if I raped (rp) a women and she starts crying? I mean I'd want to be so rough etc that I make her cry. But what then, after I cum what would I do?

man if she was still crying i would get so horny i would fucking rape her ass more !!

FuckingRotter · 11-21-2008, 10:34 AM

Yep! Tears would just spur me on to more rape and torture. I sometimes make my tiny brown whore cry on purpose simply because it amuses me to see her cry.

Conrad · 11-21-2008, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by MADDOGMCMANAMAN

man if she was still crying i would get so horny i would fucking rape her ass more !!

That's the thing, It'd be largely out the system after the first go, the emotional release spent. I mean I'd be ready to do it again pretty damn soon after and would want to hear her crying again. But if I didn't then it might get on my nerves, and then I'm not sure how I'd act. Like, usually I think of rape in the context of I have a GF and events lead to the rape, it's not some woman I'll never see again, and she usually has similar fantasies. I often think of rape as short, brutal and then done. I generally don't think of how we'd be when around each other afterwards, but recently I am thinking about how it'd be.

Conrad · 11-21-2008, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by shysnale

I think that girl was crying only because she had to work on a Cobol language book. - lol

No seriously, it is difficult to know how to act with someone crying. Sometimes people are ashamed to cry in front of everybody and if you come offering your help it would make them feel even worse.

The thing is, you probably wouldn't feel the same if you saw a woman crying and know exactly why she is crying. (She can't pay her rent and is gonna end up homeless......Etc) Extra knowledge on the situation makes your feelings very different.

So I think you cannot know if tears in rape fantasy would be a turn off to you. If you are totally into your rape trip, you will be kind of tranced out and things won't affect you the same way.

Sorry if I misunderstood your request.

If she was on my course she'd be crying tears of boredom

You absolutely right though, it is hard to know how to act when some-one is crying. It's easy if it's a family member or some-one like that as your so close that you instinctively know what to do. But people you don't know to well or at all it's real hard. I kinda wish now I'd asked her if she was ok. But then I also think it's her problem, why should it bother me, I have my own to deal with and am not doing very well with those.

It's true that she might have been crying for some silly reason and then I'd be thinking wtf! pull yourself together and stop being so dumb.

Your kinda right, I mean I hope you are. See the thing is, I think about what she's thinking, both about me and what is happening, as well as my own thoughts and emotions. I never really zone out. That said you are right in as far as I'd be far more concerned about my own pleasure so it may not matter to me at all.

menace · 11-21-2008, 12:48 PM

If someone crys in public, they ask for attention. Give it to them, and you won't go wrong.

As for the RP thing, hmmm...

I guess there's a difference between real and fake tears. If it's real, then it's a question of are they from physical or emotional. If it's physical, that's no problem. If she hasn't used the safeword, it means she doesn't mind the pain.

But when real, emotional tears flow, you are IMO better off not playing with that girl again. Because she obviously was not ready for it.

Conrad · 11-21-2008, 08:41 PM

Good points my man, thanks for the imput.

doggystylethatgirl · 11-21-2008, 09:11 PM

as for me, I don't know if a girl is crying cause she is happy

or sad

or something personal was wrong

(family member dying, etc).

Tears can mean happiness or sadness or even anger

at times.

Thats my thought on crying.

________
As for what I would do, is leave her alone.I have had too many bad experiences with "none of yor damn buiness" kinda shit for trying to help a crying girl out.

gaggirl · 11-21-2008, 09:53 PM

Menace, actually it depends... tears rolled unbidden down my cheeks and it wasnt just from pain it was also from emotions like fear humiliation and rage, but it did not mean I wasnt ready for it, if anything it was the thing that Id been hungering for - an experience tht would provoke such a reaction that would touch me so deeply.

Its funny iquite enjoyed that I was crying (more so afterwords naturally) but even better I liked that hte men didnt slow down or stop in the face of my misery

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 11-21-2008, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Conrad

That's the thing, It'd be largely out the system after the first go, the emotional release spent. I mean I'd be ready to do it again pretty damn soon after and would want to hear her crying again. But if I didn't then it might get on my nerves, and then I'm not sure how I'd act. Like, usually I think of rape in the context of I have a GF and events lead to the rape, it's not some woman I'll never see again, and she usually has similar fantasies. I often think of rape as short, brutal and then done. I generally don't think of how we'd be when around each other afterwards, but recently I am thinking about how it'd be.

I think that it is difficult to say other than on an individual basis, for example if the experience was good for me and the chick was hot but she was sobbing and blubering then i maybe would comfort her a little to ensure her return. However if she was a nasty fucking dirty slut whore born for abuse and i knew she would be back for more, then i would just tell her to leave.

perfectlyformed · 11-22-2008, 02:45 AM

I have had a good cry during a particularly rough session on more that one occasion. just because I'm bawling my eyes out doesn't mean I'm not loving every second. Theres a bit of extra pepper of the experience if the guy can get me paniced or scared enough to cry, or even in enough pain if hes doing it hard enough (or in the arse)

Theres more of a release in it for me if I cry like a catharsis or stress thing. Maybe its adrenaline or endorphins or whatever but I always feel great afterward so bring it on guys....make me cry

x

somedude · 11-22-2008, 03:00 AM

So make you watch a really sad movie before raping you?

Parisa2 · 11-22-2008, 04:07 AM

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Originally Posted by somedude

So make you watch a really sad movie before raping you?

ahahaha is your thingy really so tiny that u have to resort to sad movies to make her cry

jk

Conrad · 11-24-2008, 07:26 AM

Edit: Response to a spammer who's post has since been deleted.

Parisa2 · 11-24-2008, 12:57 PM

u talking to me conrad?

Conrad · 11-24-2008, 03:21 PM

Ah no sorry, there was a spammer post there when I checked the thread this morning. Mod must have deleted it. Now I look more of a tit than usual. Apologies if it looked like I was talking to you.

Parisa2 · 11-24-2008, 06:35 PM

aah ok, no worries

gaggirl · 11-25-2008, 02:09 AM

so thats what it takes to piss off Conrad- spam his thread!

11-20-2008, 04:45 PM	#1
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	Crying women! Ok so bare with me as I'm not sure how to explain this properly. So I was in the University Libary today and was looking up some books on the computer when I hear a sob to my right. I turn and look and this pretty girl is shyly moving past. She's crying and has tears running down her face and her eye makeup is running because of it. She sees me looking and I turn away. I sit and think for a minute then think, fuck it, none of my business right? So I go to find my books and see her again, I move ailse then she moves to the one next to me again. She's still crying but has it much more under control now. Again she sees me and makes no attempt to hide her tears. So I think if I had the slightest idea how to comfort a crying woman I might have asked if there was anything I could do to help. She looks for some books herself, and then I move away again. I see her a third time, same thing, and I then go to find this book of Russian Philosophers. When I go back she's gone. So then I get angry for some reason. Maybe, at myself, for the fact that I had no idea what to do. Or maybe that she seemed to be purposely near me even after I moved away. Now, I do get very turned on by women crying, but I didn't today even though she was real pretty. So I think what would I do if I raped (rp) a women and she starts crying? I mean I'd want to be so rough etc that I make her cry. But what then, after I cum what would I do? I don't think I'd know exactly how to handle it, probably just let her cry it out, but then there's a small part of me that knows that somewhere inside I'm a sadistic, none-empathy having guy. I think that there's a chance that I'd shout at her to stop crying and even grab her hair and slap her, or by the shouldlers and shake her around if she continued. That's probably the worst thing you could do as any of those things is only gonna cause the tears to keep flowing. I think I'm a real bad guy now, I don't know how to handle this, usually I have a fairly good idead how I'd re-act in pretty much any situation; but this has thrown me off. I mean it doesn't matter as I'll probably not get the chance to rp. However it does affect the fantasy of it all, I mean now that it's in my mind it'll crop up, no matter how much I don't want it to, in my next fantasy. The whole thing bugs me and is weighing on my mind. Thought? Theories? Discuss anything related to this sort of thing here, even if it's just to tell me what a piece of shit I am. Last edited by Conrad; 11-20-2008 at 04:51 PM.

11-21-2008, 12:48 PM	#7
menace Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Who knows? Posts: 2,436 Reputation: 26964	If someone crys in public, they ask for attention. Give it to them, and you won't go wrong. As for the RP thing, hmmm... I guess there's a difference between real and fake tears. If it's real, then it's a question of are they from physical or emotional. If it's physical, that's no problem. If she hasn't used the safeword, it means she doesn't mind the pain. But when real, emotional tears flow, you are IMO better off not playing with that girl again. Because she obviously was not ready for it. __________________ Try and stop me

11-21-2008, 09:11 PM	#9
doggystylethatgirl Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 4,113 Reputation: 27657	as for me, I don't know if a girl is crying cause she is happy or sad or something personal was wrong (family member dying, etc). Tears can mean happiness or sadness or even anger at times. Thats my thought on crying. ________ As for what I would do, is leave her alone.I have had too many bad experiences with "none of yor damn buiness" kinda shit for trying to help a crying girl out. Last edited by doggystylethatgirl; 11-21-2008 at 11:08 PM.

11-22-2008, 02:45 AM	#12
perfectlyformed Living Sextoy Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: London, UK Posts: 3,500 Reputation: 103987	I have had a good cry during a particularly rough session on more that one occasion. just because I'm bawling my eyes out doesn't mean I'm not loving every second. Theres a bit of extra pepper of the experience if the guy can get me paniced or scared enough to cry, or even in enough pain if hes doing it hard enough (or in the arse) Theres more of a release in it for me if I cry like a catharsis or stress thing. Maybe its adrenaline or endorphins or whatever but I always feel great afterward so bring it on guys....make me cry x __________________ -- Fear is a four letter word. So is rape, fuck, knot, anal, hump, nuts, lick, clit shag, blow, bend, hard, deep, cunt, slut, bang, tits, dick, oral, used, easy, suck, cock, arse, slap, hold, fist and gang. So all the good ones basically..... x

11-22-2008, 03:00 AM	#13
somedude W.I.R. and Marshal Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Way out West!!!! Posts: 8,566 Reputation: 124981	So make you watch a really sad movie before raping you? __________________ I'm a pervert and proud of it!

11-21-2008, 04:53 AM	#2
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	I think that girl was crying only because she had to work on a Cobol language book. - lol No seriously, it is difficult to know how to act with someone crying. Sometimes people are ashamed to cry in front of everybody and if you come offering your help it would make them feel even worse. The thing is, you probably wouldn't feel the same if you saw a woman crying and know exactly why she is crying. (She can't pay her rent and is gonna end up homeless......Etc) Extra knowledge on the situation makes your feelings very different. So I think you cannot know if tears in rape fantasy would be a turn off to you. If you are totally into your rape trip, you will be kind of tranced out and things won't affect you the same way. Sorry if I misunderstood your request.

11-21-2008, 10:34 AM	#4
FuckingRotter The Fist of Fury. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Entering the.... Posts: 9,649 Reputation: 118903	Yep! Tears would just spur me on to more rape and torture. I sometimes make my tiny brown whore cry on purpose simply because it amuses me to see her cry.

11-21-2008, 08:41 PM	#8
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	Good points my man, thanks for the imput.

11-21-2008, 09:53 PM	#10
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	Menace, actually it depends... tears rolled unbidden down my cheeks and it wasnt just from pain it was also from emotions like fear humiliation and rage, but it did not mean I wasnt ready for it, if anything it was the thing that Id been hungering for - an experience tht would provoke such a reaction that would touch me so deeply. Its funny iquite enjoyed that I was crying (more so afterwords naturally) but even better I liked that hte men didnt slow down or stop in the face of my misery

11-24-2008, 07:26 AM	#15
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	Edit: Response to a spammer who's post has since been deleted. Last edited by Conrad; 11-24-2008 at 03:22 PM.

11-24-2008, 12:57 PM	#16
Parisa2 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 170 Reputation: 1282	u talking to me conrad?

11-24-2008, 03:21 PM	#17
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	Ah no sorry, there was a spammer post there when I checked the thread this morning. Mod must have deleted it. Now I look more of a tit than usual. Apologies if it looked like I was talking to you.

11-24-2008, 06:35 PM	#18
Parisa2 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 170 Reputation: 1282	aah ok, no worries

11-25-2008, 02:09 AM	#19
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	so thats what it takes to piss off Conrad- spam his thread!