Frustration - Rape Board

shysnale · 11-13-2008, 05:17 AM

Let's imagine you find yourself in the need to escape, so you start this same old good scenario of rape fantasy but for once, it doesn't work at all and you find yourself terribly frustrated and angry ? Even if you try to start dreaming again, even if you restart your favourite fantasy, something's stuck, something's wasted, and you can't do it anymore ?

Could you find yourself very grumpy in real life because of that ?

gaggirl · 11-13-2008, 06:23 AM

YES

SOmetimes idont get the buzz anymore makes me a cranky gaggirl

Sierra · 11-13-2008, 10:37 PM

It has been happening to me quite a bit lately. For some reason the "old favorites" that have been with me since I was a teenager just don't do it for me any more and I don't seem to be able to find a replacement.

It's weird because I want badly to feel that old feeling again, but it just isn't happening.

doggystylethatgirl · 11-13-2008, 11:55 PM

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Originally Posted by shysnale

Let's imagine you find yourself in the need to escape, so you start this same old good scenario of rape fantasy but for once, it doesn't work at all and you find yourself terribly frustrated and angry ? Even if you try to start dreaming again, even if you restart your favourite fantasy, something's stuck, something's wasted, and you can't do it anymore ?

Could you find yourself very grumpy in real life because of that ?

oh yeah !!

But since I learn stuff the hard way (wrong way), I try to deal with it inside myself so others won't be asking me whats wrong.Too many nosy people around me, love to ask me what I have been doing, or how come I am acting diffrent sometimes.
I like to listen to some music, get in the groove & just try to forget that, then start all over again.
But then again, I have Marilyn Monroe & sexy cheesecake album covers on my wall, to help my fantasies go good.

donnalee_s · 11-14-2008, 12:52 AM

yes it is that way old ones seem silly
finding new ones take time finding
something sorta similar has made me
even more grumpy...I know why but
can't get rid of the feeling

ChiTownHoney · 11-14-2008, 01:33 AM

I find the best way to get out of a fantasy slump is to observe your surroundings and come up with a new one. Reality breeds fantasy. So if you are at the grocery store and go to grab your milk out of the little freezer area...pause and look behind the milk rack. Creepy, cold place to rape and be raped huh? Then think about it some more and you can use your imagination to come up with a cool new fantasy.

I started recently thinking about drunk rape and gang rape, which I never really thought about before, so its something new. You can always acquire fresh ideas through your own interactions with people, places, and things.

perfectlyformed · 11-14-2008, 04:26 AM

I try a different kink for a while. If rape isn't ringing my bell I think about ageplay or bondage or public sex/exhibitionism or girl-on-girl or whatever springs to mind. But yeah if you stick with one thing it can get stale

x

ShyAngel · 11-14-2008, 04:27 AM

I have a very fertile imagination and don't really have any problems thinking of new things to keep my mind occupied. But sometimes even though I have a new fantasy, or even an old one that always gets me going...if I'm not in the mood, I figure just wait until I am in the mood and then fantasize again.

FuckingRotter · 11-14-2008, 12:36 PM

I'm always coming up with new scenarios, trying new techniques, and rarely play out the same one twice.

Conrad · 11-16-2008, 08:38 PM

Yeah, for sure, I can't think about my favourite rape girl anymore these days and it sucks balls. I tried to but just can't get back into it, it feels kinda wrong now. I'm in desperate need of a new fantasy girl and for the life of me just can't find one.

11-13-2008, 05:17 AM	#1
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	Frustration Let's imagine you find yourself in the need to escape, so you start this same old good scenario of rape fantasy but for once, it doesn't work at all and you find yourself terribly frustrated and angry ? Even if you try to start dreaming again, even if you restart your favourite fantasy, something's stuck, something's wasted, and you can't do it anymore ? Could you find yourself very grumpy in real life because of that ? Last edited by shysnale; 11-13-2008 at 05:21 AM.

11-13-2008, 10:37 PM	#3
Sierra Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Northern California Posts: 1,625 Reputation: 129196	It has been happening to me quite a bit lately. For some reason the "old favorites" that have been with me since I was a teenager just don't do it for me any more and I don't seem to be able to find a replacement. It's weird because I want badly to feel that old feeling again, but it just isn't happening. __________________ Although the most incisive judges of the witches and even the witches themselves were convinced of the guilt of witchcraft, this guilt nevertheless did not exist. Thus it is with all guilt.

11-14-2008, 04:26 AM	#7
perfectlyformed Living Sextoy Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: London, UK Posts: 3,500 Reputation: 103987	I try a different kink for a while. If rape isn't ringing my bell I think about ageplay or bondage or public sex/exhibitionism or girl-on-girl or whatever springs to mind. But yeah if you stick with one thing it can get stale x __________________ -- Fear is a four letter word. So is rape, fuck, knot, anal, hump, nuts, lick, clit shag, blow, bend, hard, deep, cunt, slut, bang, tits, dick, oral, used, easy, suck, cock, arse, slap, hold, fist and gang. So all the good ones basically..... x

11-13-2008, 06:23 AM	#2
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	YES SOmetimes idont get the buzz anymore makes me a cranky gaggirl

11-14-2008, 12:52 AM	#5
donnalee_s almost gone Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 9,377 Reputation: 33747	yes it is that way old ones seem silly finding new ones take time finding something sorta similar has made me even more grumpy...I know why but can't get rid of the feeling

11-14-2008, 01:33 AM	#6
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	I find the best way to get out of a fantasy slump is to observe your surroundings and come up with a new one. Reality breeds fantasy. So if you are at the grocery store and go to grab your milk out of the little freezer area...pause and look behind the milk rack. Creepy, cold place to rape and be raped huh? Then think about it some more and you can use your imagination to come up with a cool new fantasy. I started recently thinking about drunk rape and gang rape, which I never really thought about before, so its something new. You can always acquire fresh ideas through your own interactions with people, places, and things.

11-14-2008, 04:27 AM	#8
ShyAngel Privileged Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 959 Reputation: 21985	I have a very fertile imagination and don't really have any problems thinking of new things to keep my mind occupied. But sometimes even though I have a new fantasy, or even an old one that always gets me going...if I'm not in the mood, I figure just wait until I am in the mood and then fantasize again.

11-14-2008, 12:36 PM	#9
FuckingRotter The Fist of Fury. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Entering the.... Posts: 9,649 Reputation: 118903	I'm always coming up with new scenarios, trying new techniques, and rarely play out the same one twice.

11-16-2008, 08:38 PM	#10
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	Yeah, for sure, I can't think about my favourite rape girl anymore these days and it sucks balls. I tried to but just can't get back into it, it feels kinda wrong now. I'm in desperate need of a new fantasy girl and for the life of me just can't find one.