_Did u ever "played" real rapes with your wife/ girlfrien/ or whatever ?? - Page 2 - Rape Board

Rankin · 08-22-2008, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by redbaron

Mate, give an example of a safe word

Safe words are words that your partner would use to signify that he/she really wants to stop and is not playing around. It should be words that are totally not appropriate to the situation. For example, a safeword could be "Daisy" which would probably not come up in a normal rape fantasy play. Hope it helps.

redbaron · 08-22-2008, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Rankin

Safe words are words that your partner would use to signify that he/she really wants to stop and is not playing around. It should be words that are totally not appropriate to the situation. For example, a safeword could be "Daisy" which would probably not come up in a normal rape fantasy play. Hope it helps.

Mate I got it, but I was wondering what are THEIR safe words. It might turn me on

Rawley47 · 09-06-2008, 06:45 AM

Had a girlfreind some time back and "yes"...it was great. We would buy clothes at a second hand store so we could rip them, cum on them, abuse them and set up games....I wish it was easy to find gals in to erotic play like she was~!!!!

darksided · 09-06-2008, 02:41 PM

I've actually had two girls I dated in the past who asked me to be "rough with them" during sex and one in particular who wanted me to hold her down and just "take it" when she seemed like she was struggling. Funny thing is while I have rape fantasies and it is a turn on to read/watch it in stories, movies and pictures, I'm very uncomfortable when trying to roleplay it myself to the point where it is a turnoff when I actually try to do it (though I get turned on when discussing in beforehand with my partner). Needless to say. I've let them down and I don't try to pursue such roleplaying anymore.

wiferape · 09-06-2008, 03:12 PM

Yes, my wife and I do this on occasion. To keep it more arousing, we may not set a specific scenario, but will instead set a day that I will 'rape' her, and then sometime during that day, I will just grab her and take her. I have not had any issues to-date, and I love the unpredictability of it. Now I just need to work on convincing her gang rape would be fun.

lioness · 09-06-2008, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by darksided

I've actually had two girls I dated in the past who asked me to be "rough with them" during sex and one in particular who wanted me to hold her down and just "take it" when she seemed like she was struggling. Funny thing is while I have rape fantasies and it is a turn on to read/watch it in stories, movies and pictures, I'm very uncomfortable when trying to roleplay it myself to the point where it is a turnoff when I actually try to do it (though I get turned on when discussing in beforehand with my partner). Needless to say. I've let them down and I don't try to pursue such roleplaying anymore.

Maybe it would be easier and more enjoyable for you if you did it with a stranger. Perhaps you just care too much to even pretend to hurt your girlfriends? Or maybe you just feel silly about pretending?

darksided · 09-07-2008, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by lioness

Maybe it would be easier and more enjoyable for you if you did it with a stranger. Perhaps you just care too much to even pretend to hurt your girlfriends? Or maybe you just feel silly about pretending?

I think some of it is feeling silly.... definately when trying to roleplay a rape. I think trying it with a stranger would be the same, maybe even more awkward.... since that level of trust has not been established. I also think a part of it is that with my rape fantasies, I never put myself in the shoes of the rapist. It is always as describing a scene of which I am not in it.... but controlling it. So I guess my fantasy is to watch a scene develop... not be the big star in it so to speak... hence why I wouldn't want to roleplay it.

lioness · 09-09-2008, 08:36 PM

I agree...to be with a stranger could be awkward, you'll either get over the top too rough (too much like real rape) or just consensual sex between two people who love rape fantasy and that could be real good or real lame, it just depends....both parties would have to be really good actors.

Anyway, That makes perfect sense. It seems there are varying degrees to these fantasies. You just like to be an observer...you sound a bit like my husband. I know seeing it turns him on (just like any sex scene would) but he doesn't seek out rape porn and he isn't really enthusiastic about being in that role either.

Perhaps I just need to train him? Anyone got any advice on how to train my husband into being an enthusiastic rape fantasist who can't stop thinking about raping me? :P

halfabash · 09-23-2008, 01:58 AM

I have some ideas

Beardy · 09-23-2008, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Raper_Pimp

Something like: "U wait until she comes from work or something, than attack her from behind and rape her the way u allways wanted to !

know what I mean ??

I have role played rape with some of my ex boyfriends, but one of them did what raper pimp describes.
I came back home from shopping. When I closed the door he came on me grabbing me from the mouth and pushing me to the bedroom. Then he ripped off my blouse and bra, lifted up my skirt, ripped off my pantyhose and knickers and fucked me.
We didnâ€™t arrange that rape, but we have played similar situations, so I was surprised first (I admit I have a little fear at the beginning of the play) and delighted then.
He said after the play that he was so horny thinking about me that he decided we would play rape when I came.

shelley · 09-23-2008, 06:07 PM

going off what rankin said, does anyone here have stories where you met someone and immediately had a feeling they were into rough stuff? and became future boyfriends/girlfriends etc?

Johnboy267 · 09-28-2008, 06:32 PM

I'll jump in here. Yes. I dated a girl who told me she had fantasies of being forced.
Oddly enough, we never had a safe word, but I think that's because we trusted each other completely, and she knew that I was caring and sensitive at heart, and if she ever started becoming uncomfortable I would pick up on that and stop, which I did on one occasion.

We had a lot of caring, tender sex, but we also had some serious role-playing in our relationship, and it was very exciting.
We got into picture taking, and even video-taped one of the "rapes".
I talked about bringing in a friend of mine to share the fun, and I think I almost had her talked into this, but it never transpired, and I didn't push it.

And NO, before you all ask, I am not in contact with her anymore, and I have too much respect for her to post any of the pictures or video without her consent, so don't even ask.

God, I miss her!!

kitty_joanne · 09-28-2008, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by darksided

I've actually had two girls I dated in the past who asked me to be "rough with them" during sex and one in particular who wanted me to hold her down and just "take it" when she seemed like she was struggling. Funny thing is while I have rape fantasies and it is a turn on to read/watch it in stories, movies and pictures, I'm very uncomfortable when trying to roleplay it myself to the point where it is a turnoff when I actually try to do it (though I get turned on when discussing in beforehand with my partner). Needless to say. I've let them down and I don't try to pursue such roleplaying anymore.

Never give up!! It's hard to begin with, but you will get a long in the way~

ShyAngel · 09-29-2008, 02:24 PM

I've fantasized about it quite a bit, but never actually played any of the Rape Fantasies out with my husband.

Uncle Al · 10-01-2008, 12:14 PM

Actually I played (or at least I tried) some rape fantasies, with an old gf, the most famous was the movie-rape (in a real teather). Well, forcing a while with her, was hot.

mylilasianwife · 10-06-2008, 01:32 AM

Yes, ususally blackmailed rape fantasies.

hosed_n_horny · 10-08-2008, 01:09 PM

No. Not even an "consensual" roleplay (in my opinion a role-play is always consensual).

I think that a guy who likes (to wear) pantyhose and is into roleplay-rape is a bit too much for the ladies

09-06-2008, 06:45 AM	#23
Rawley47 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Michigan Posts: 27 Reputation: 74	played real rape Had a girlfreind some time back and "yes"...it was great. We would buy clothes at a second hand store so we could rip them, cum on them, abuse them and set up games....I wish it was easy to find gals in to erotic play like she was~!!!!

09-09-2008, 08:36 PM	#28
lioness Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: somewhere in north america Posts: 47 Reputation: 210	I agree...to be with a stranger could be awkward, you'll either get over the top too rough (too much like real rape) or just consensual sex between two people who love rape fantasy and that could be real good or real lame, it just depends....both parties would have to be really good actors. Anyway, That makes perfect sense. It seems there are varying degrees to these fantasies. You just like to be an observer...you sound a bit like my husband. I know seeing it turns him on (just like any sex scene would) but he doesn't seek out rape porn and he isn't really enthusiastic about being in that role either. Perhaps I just need to train him? Anyone got any advice on how to train my husband into being an enthusiastic rape fantasist who can't stop thinking about raping me? :P __________________ Just know that these things will never change for us at all.

09-23-2008, 06:07 PM	#31
shelley Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 14 Reputation: 47	going off what rankin said, does anyone here have stories where you met someone and immediately had a feeling they were into rough stuff? and became future boyfriends/girlfriends etc? __________________ read this

10-01-2008, 12:14 PM	#35
Uncle Al Privileged Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 329 Reputation: 1469	Actually I played (or at least I tried) some rape fantasies, with an old gf, the most famous was the movie-rape (in a real teather). Well, forcing a while with her, was hot. __________________ TheWorld Rape Daywas a HIT see you next year!

10-08-2008, 01:09 PM	#37
hosed_n_horny Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Rummaging through your hosiery drawer. Posts: 60 Reputation: 40	No. Not even an "consensual" roleplay (in my opinion a role-play is always consensual). I think that a guy who likes (to wear) pantyhose and is into roleplay-rape is a bit too much for the ladies __________________ Pantyhosed girls are asking to be raped!

09-06-2008, 02:41 PM	#24
darksided Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 13 Reputation: 10	I've actually had two girls I dated in the past who asked me to be "rough with them" during sex and one in particular who wanted me to hold her down and just "take it" when she seemed like she was struggling. Funny thing is while I have rape fantasies and it is a turn on to read/watch it in stories, movies and pictures, I'm very uncomfortable when trying to roleplay it myself to the point where it is a turnoff when I actually try to do it (though I get turned on when discussing in beforehand with my partner). Needless to say. I've let them down and I don't try to pursue such roleplaying anymore.

09-06-2008, 03:12 PM	#25
wiferape Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 20 Reputation: 14	Yes, my wife and I do this on occasion. To keep it more arousing, we may not set a specific scenario, but will instead set a day that I will 'rape' her, and then sometime during that day, I will just grab her and take her. I have not had any issues to-date, and I love the unpredictability of it. Now I just need to work on convincing her gang rape would be fun.

09-23-2008, 01:58 AM	#29
halfabash Junior Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1 Reputation: 10	I have some ideas

09-28-2008, 06:32 PM	#32
Johnboy267 Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 44 Reputation: 2725	I'll jump in here. Yes. I dated a girl who told me she had fantasies of being forced. Oddly enough, we never had a safe word, but I think that's because we trusted each other completely, and she knew that I was caring and sensitive at heart, and if she ever started becoming uncomfortable I would pick up on that and stop, which I did on one occasion. We had a lot of caring, tender sex, but we also had some serious role-playing in our relationship, and it was very exciting. We got into picture taking, and even video-taped one of the "rapes". I talked about bringing in a friend of mine to share the fun, and I think I almost had her talked into this, but it never transpired, and I didn't push it. And NO, before you all ask, I am not in contact with her anymore, and I have too much respect for her to post any of the pictures or video without her consent, so don't even ask. God, I miss her!!

09-29-2008, 02:24 PM	#34
ShyAngel Privileged Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 959 Reputation: 21985	I've fantasized about it quite a bit, but never actually played any of the Rape Fantasies out with my husband.

10-06-2008, 01:32 AM	#36
mylilasianwife Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 10 Reputation: 13	Yes, ususally blackmailed rape fantasies.