Questions about Friend-Rape Fantasies - Rape Board

luckyluke372 · 03-07-2009, 03:12 PM

Ok, I'm going to start with my specific situation. I have a best friend who is this absolutely gorgeous Halle Berry look-alike, and the sexual tension between us is so thick you can cut it with a knife. As a matter of fact I think I might be in love with her. The point is, I fantasize about raping her all the time, however I've noticed that I'm always a lot gentler with her in my fantasies than I am with most women. I then noticed that when I think about raping a woman I don't like, I'm a f*cking animal, but when fantasizing about her, I'm a f*cking teddy bear (by comparison.) So in your personal experience:

1) Guys: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is involved do you tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with the person?
2) Girls: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is raping you do they tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with you?
3) Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies?

My answers:
1) Yes, DRASTICALLY so.
2) N/A
3) Yes, a little.

Seventeen · 03-07-2009, 03:31 PM

2.) Yes, it is more like ravishment than rape in my fantasies with people I know.
3.) I feel a bit funny about it, but not really guilty.

Cedar · 03-07-2009, 03:34 PM

My rape fantasies generally aren't very violent, but if the fantasy victim is someone I like in real life, I do tend to imagine her either eventually enjoying it or at least not putting up much of a fight.

RLA68 · 03-07-2009, 03:37 PM

1) Guys: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is involved do you tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with the person?

Absolutely because reality is I am more gentle than a rabid animal. I don't let lust call all the shots.

3) Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies?

Nope they are fantasies. I keep that perspective.

As long as I don't act on them inappropiately.

I won't apologize for being a sick fuck at least in my mind.

Lucy. · 03-08-2009, 08:14 PM

I'm going to be straight with my response. You probably won't like it, but I'm going to be truthful anyway.

2) Girls: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is raping you do they tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with you?

The words gentle and rape really really do not go together. I guess when you are just fantasising then you can imagine it however you want, but there is no such thing. If a guy is raping a girl, whatever you like to imagine and whatever certain "females" may say, its not sweet and light and "oh yeah rape me harder." The definition is to take against one's will. Therefore a "gentle/sensitive" approach would either fail and she would be out of the door or it woud just make the rapist come across as even more of a bastard.

sexfiend · 03-08-2009, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucy.

I'm going to be straight with my response. You probably won't like it, but I'm going to be truthful anyway.

2) Girls: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is raping you do they tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with you?

The words gentle and rape really really do not go together. I guess when you are just fantasising then you can imagine it however you want, but there is no such thing. If a guy is raping a girl, whatever you like to imagine and whatever certain "females" may say, its not sweet and light and "oh yeah rape me harder." The definition is to take against one's will. Therefore a "gentle/sensitive" approach would either fail and she would be out of the door or it woud just make the rapist come across as even more of a bastard.

Well said lucy. If you are doing fantasy as in like a dream or in roleplaying the guy raping the girl is not gentle.Roleplay and fantasy rape is like telling a story so why would you feel guilty about that as it was not real anyway.

Unblinking Eye · 03-08-2009, 08:52 PM

(1) Quite the opposite; my fantasies involving women I know tend to be more brutal.
(3) Definitely not.

justmetoo · 03-08-2009, 09:51 PM

This is a tough call. Generally I don't think about raping some I care for because of the reasons Lucy stated. What I do fantasize about with a woman like this would be more along the lines of light bondage/teasing. But the bottom line for me is that I really fantasize more about raping someone that I don't really care for at all or at best I know on a casual basis.

RavishAGirl · 03-08-2009, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by luckyluke372

1) Guys: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is involved do you tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with the person?
2) Girls: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is raping you do they tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with you?
3) Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies?

1. Yes. And often the fantasy becomes very much about forcing them to the point where they have no choice but to realize their own hidden passion. There was someone I knew once and she was talking with someone, and I walked over and put an arm around her waist, pulled her close and said to the other person, 'Excuse me for a moment, I have something to discuss with this cutie' and just like that I pulled her into the next room. I did indeed have something to discuss, but the moment became quite suggestive, she in a tight dress (and petite) and saying a little breathlessly under her voice, 'You didn't give me much choice in the matter.' When I heard the way she said it, I knew immediately what she fantasizes about. And I knew I could take advantage of it. I was involved with someone else, so that was not a line I crossed, but it gave me very erotic daydreams for a while.

3. Not really. I know these are only daydreams.

//Ravish

TwistedMaster · 03-08-2009, 10:30 PM

1) Generally yes, but sometimes the opposite if it's someone I used to care about and don't any longer...

3) Not at all. As Ravish said, this is all in fantasy land

TwistedMaster · 03-08-2009, 10:31 PM

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crimsondesire · 03-08-2009, 11:07 PM

Girls: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is raping you do they tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with you?
Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies?

In my fantasies if somebody I care about is raping me,they treate my differently then some casual person would, in a sort of creepy obsessive emotionally needy way.
I do not feel bad putting somebody I care about in my twisted little fantasies because the only person in mine, is my lover and he likes being apart of it. In the past, No I did not really feel bad at all, it was just in my head.....a little bit weird about it yes,indeed.

<3

kitty_joanne · 03-09-2009, 01:07 AM

2) in my fantasy no, in reality yes..

3) i don't think i feel bad at all >.< if i feel bad about fantasizing it, then how should i persuade him to do what exactly i wanted in reality..

Conrad · 03-09-2009, 10:33 AM

1, Yes a little, I haven't thought about rape for ages but do think about rough sex often so that tends to be a GF figure in the fantasy, not as violent as rape but not gentle by any means.

3, Nope, most of the people I think about aren't people that I could say I cared about really, women from Uni etc, I mean I don't know them really well just casually etc.

Tim Woodman · 03-09-2009, 11:35 AM

1 - it's case by case. Some people I know well and care about seem like they really need a good hard brutal bruising skin-tearing FUCK.... others it might be fun to simply overpower slowly.

3 - not a bit.

luckyluke372 · 03-09-2009, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Parisa

2) 3) not at all..they should be honored to be in my fantasies.

in fact, who in their right mind would pass up a chance to be raped by me in RL

LOL, who indeed.

Nemo01 · 03-09-2009, 02:30 PM

1 no in real life i can like th woman in ly fantasie i'm always sadic and bad like a stranger
3 Yes because of that i can sometimes no, sometimes a few, sometimes a lot guilty depend of the violence of the fantasie

socyologyst · 03-09-2009, 03:56 PM

1) Guys: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is involved do you tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with the person?
Yes, because it would be a long term relationship rape as opposed to a one-night-stand rape - haha.

3) Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies?
No - they'd probably love it!

Lucy. · 03-09-2009, 09:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Parisa

2) emotionally gentle..hmmm yes now that's delicious. just bcuz we're having rough sex doesn't mean u can call me all kinds of names, etc. have some respect damn it!

Thats rough sex though, thats not rape at all. Being a female rape victim you really have no control over whether your "eternal beauty" is tarnished or what you are called.

I think a lot of people on this kind of forum use the term rape very loosely or as a word for "rough sex". As previously stated, someone who is a "gentle, sweet" rapist would actually be a real nutcase. Or just fail at the rape.

There is a big difference between rape and rough sex, bdsm fantasies. What the OP seems to be describing is wanting to sleep with the girl. Gentle and Rape just do not belong in the same sentance imho.

Nemo01 · 03-09-2009, 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lucy.

Thats rough sex though, thats not rape at all. Being a female rape victim you really have no control over whether your "eternal beauty" is tarnished or what you are called.

I think a lot of people on this kind of forum use the term rape very loosely or as a word for "rough sex". As previously stated, someone who is a "gentle, sweet" rapist would actually be a real nutcase. Or just fail at the rape.

There is a big difference between rape and rough sex, bdsm fantasies. What the OP seems to be describing is wanting to sleep with the girl. Gentle and Rape just do not belong in the same sentance imho.

I don't know if you are right or not Lucy but me I'm never gentle in my fantasie

03-07-2009, 03:12 PM	#1
luckyluke372 Banned Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 30 Reputation: -113	Questions about Friend-Rape Fantasies Ok, I'm going to start with my specific situation. I have a best friend who is this absolutely gorgeous Halle Berry look-alike, and the sexual tension between us is so thick you can cut it with a knife. As a matter of fact I think I might be in love with her. The point is, I fantasize about raping her all the time, however I've noticed that I'm always a lot gentler with her in my fantasies than I am with most women. I then noticed that when I think about raping a woman I don't like, I'm a fcking animal, but when fantasizing about her, I'm a fcking teddy bear (by comparison.) So in your personal experience: 1) Guys: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is involved do you tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with the person? 2) Girls: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is raping you do they tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with you? 3) Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies? My answers: 1) Yes, DRASTICALLY so. 2) N/A 3) Yes, a little.

03-07-2009, 03:34 PM	#3
Cedar Privileged Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: USA Posts: 226 Reputation: 5732	My rape fantasies generally aren't very violent, but if the fantasy victim is someone I like in real life, I do tend to imagine her either eventually enjoying it or at least not putting up much of a fight. __________________ Coito ergo sum

03-08-2009, 10:30 PM	#10
TwistedMaster Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 955 Reputation: 4707	1) Generally yes, but sometimes the opposite if it's someone I used to care about and don't any longer... 3) Not at all. As Ravish said, this is all in fantasy land __________________ You're a gift to me, and I always play with my presents...

03-08-2009, 10:31 PM	#11
TwistedMaster Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 955 Reputation: 4707	. __________________ You're a gift to me, and I always play with my presents... Last edited by TwistedMaster; 03-08-2009 at 10:34 PM. Reason: double post, woops

03-08-2009, 11:07 PM	#12
crimsondesire Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 382 Reputation: 7970	Girls: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is raping you do they tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with you? Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies? In my fantasies if somebody I care about is raping me,they treate my differently then some casual person would, in a sort of creepy obsessive emotionally needy way. I do not feel bad putting somebody I care about in my twisted little fantasies because the only person in mine, is my lover and he likes being apart of it. In the past, No I did not really feel bad at all, it was just in my head.....a little bit weird about it yes,indeed. <3 __________________ Nails tear at raw flesh,cutting deep, tossing and turning, quivering with delight as I weep. Eyes wide open and mouth taped shut breathing barely, hands tied up. A loving heart completly ravished, a home for two,taught to share. Blood runs thick on skin so pale and just like my soul,body bare. Tears are dry, mascara stale, My twisted fairy tale.

03-07-2009, 03:31 PM	#2
Seventeen Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 44 Reputation: 656	2.) Yes, it is more like ravishment than rape in my fantasies with people I know. 3.) I feel a bit funny about it, but not really guilty.

03-07-2009, 03:37 PM	#4
RLA68 Banned Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1,663 Reputation: 13489	1) Guys: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is involved do you tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with the person? Absolutely because reality is I am more gentle than a rabid animal. I don't let lust call all the shots. 3) Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies? Nope they are fantasies. I keep that perspective. As long as I don't act on them inappropiately. I won't apologize for being a sick fuck at least in my mind.

03-08-2009, 08:14 PM	#5
Lucy. Banned Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: In a warzone? Posts: 634 Reputation: 21842	I'm going to be straight with my response. You probably won't like it, but I'm going to be truthful anyway. 2) Girls: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is raping you do they tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with you? The words gentle and rape really really do not go together. I guess when you are just fantasising then you can imagine it however you want, but there is no such thing. If a guy is raping a girl, whatever you like to imagine and whatever certain "females" may say, its not sweet and light and "oh yeah rape me harder." The definition is to take against one's will. Therefore a "gentle/sensitive" approach would either fail and she would be out of the door or it woud just make the rapist come across as even more of a bastard.

03-08-2009, 08:52 PM	#7
Unblinking Eye Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 56 Reputation: 2073	(1) Quite the opposite; my fantasies involving women I know tend to be more brutal. (3) Definitely not.

03-08-2009, 09:51 PM	#8
justmetoo Privileged Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In your mind Posts: 1,086 Reputation: 23015	This is a tough call. Generally I don't think about raping some I care for because of the reasons Lucy stated. What I do fantasize about with a woman like this would be more along the lines of light bondage/teasing. But the bottom line for me is that I really fantasize more about raping someone that I don't really care for at all or at best I know on a casual basis.

03-09-2009, 01:07 AM	#13
kitty_joanne Sleeping Siren Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Suburb Posts: 2,817 Reputation: 28630	2) in my fantasy no, in reality yes.. 3) i don't think i feel bad at all >.< if i feel bad about fantasizing it, then how should i persuade him to do what exactly i wanted in reality..

03-09-2009, 10:33 AM	#14
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	1, Yes a little, I haven't thought about rape for ages but do think about rough sex often so that tends to be a GF figure in the fantasy, not as violent as rape but not gentle by any means. 3, Nope, most of the people I think about aren't people that I could say I cared about really, women from Uni etc, I mean I don't know them really well just casually etc. __________________ Taking the word Pathetic to new levels since 1982.

03-09-2009, 11:35 AM	#15
Tim Woodman Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 105 Reputation: 940	1 - it's case by case. Some people I know well and care about seem like they really need a good hard brutal bruising skin-tearing FUCK.... others it might be fun to simply overpower slowly. 3 - not a bit. __________________ Tim Woodman, Professional Villain

03-09-2009, 02:30 PM	#17
Nemo01 Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Paris France Posts: 257 Reputation: 1843	1 no in real life i can like th woman in ly fantasie i'm always sadic and bad like a stranger 3 Yes because of that i can sometimes no, sometimes a few, sometimes a lot guilty depend of the violence of the fantasie

03-09-2009, 03:56 PM	#18
socyologyst Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Kuala Lumpur Posts: 15 Reputation: 157	1) Guys: In your fantasy, if someone you care about is involved do you tend to be more emotionally/physically gentle with the person? Yes, because it would be a long term relationship rape as opposed to a one-night-stand rape - haha. 3) Everybody: Do you ever find yourself feeling bad about putting someone you care about in your twisted little fantasies? No - they'd probably love it!