Narcissism - Rape Board

cryptic · 03-26-2008, 12:39 AM

Am i the only one who thinks it's hot?

lol...ok, maybe i'm weird, but when i notice that someone is really, really overconfident (and i don't just mean high self esteem; i mean bordering on delusions of grandeur

) ...well, i just find it unbelievably attractive.

Narcissism in the context of rape is even hotter...means the guy has no empathy for you at all, and it's all about his thrill, his kicks, his power.

i don't mean to be insensitive, or anything...i know that it's a personality disorder and it causes a lot of hurt to the people who suffer from it, and usually to those close to them as well.
So i feel kind of guilty about finding it attractive.

But still...
am i the only one who has a fascination with, well...those who are fascinated by their own egos?

Especially at a board like this.
Those who lack empathy make the best sadists.

(PS: Sorry in advance if this offends anyone. It's probably a bit of a delicate subject...i just wanted to see what others thought of it).

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 03-26-2008, 01:49 AM

i thougn narcisism was a greek god os something !!

cryptic · 03-26-2008, 01:59 AM

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Originally Posted by MADDOGMCMANAMAN

i thougn narcisism was a greek god os something !!

There was a character from Greek mythology called Narcissus.
He wasn't a god, though...he was just cruel and self-obsessed.

All the nymphs were completely in love with him because of his beauty, but he rejected them all, believing that no-one was good enough for him.

Aphrodite saw what he was doing, and decided to punish him by placing a curse on him.
Basically the curse was, "You'll find out what it's like to love something you can never have".
So one day he caught sight of his reflection in some still water.
Because of the curse, he thought that his reflection was actually a beautiful water nymph looking up at him, and he instantly fell in love with it.
But of course, every time he reached out to embrace it, the ripples in the water made it disappear.
He got so obsessed with trying to catch his reflection that he forgot to eat or sleep...and eventually just died by that pond.

Sigmund Freud dug up that old myth centuries later, and came up with the concept of "Narcissistic personality disorder", because he noticed that people with this disorder seemed to have the same self-obsessed characteristics as Narcissus did.

ChiTownHoney · 03-26-2008, 05:47 PM

yes I am also very turned on by that. And what you said Those who lack empathy make the best sadists, I completely agree with!!

However, some guys just CANT get away with it. I mean, it just doesnt work for some men. I always found men with those kind of issues a turn on, the idea of a sociopathic man turns me on, and often ends up in my fantasies.

I dont know why that is.

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 03-26-2008, 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by cryptic

There was a character from Greek mythology called Narcissus.
He wasn't a god, though...he was just cruel and self-obsessed.

All the nymphs were completely in love with him because of his beauty, but he rejected them all, believing that no-one was good enough for him.

Aphrodite saw what he was doing, and decided to punish him by placing a curse on him.
Basically the curse was, "You'll find out what it's like to love something you can never have".
So one day he caught sight of his reflection in some still water.
Because of the curse, he thought that his reflection was actually a beautiful water nymph looking up at him, and he instantly fell in love with it.
But of course, every time he reached out to embrace it, the ripples in the water made it disappear.
He got so obsessed with trying to catch his reflection that he forgot to eat or sleep...and eventually just died by that pond.

Sigmund Freud dug up that old myth centuries later, and came up with the concept of "Narcissistic personality disorder", because he noticed that people with this disorder seemed to have the same self-obsessed characteristics as Narcissus did.

wow - thanks for the explanation cryptic

but what a fucking idiot that guy sounds like ! - i would have fucked every nymph that just looked at me !! and then fucked those that didnt lol

Mugga123 · 03-27-2008, 02:59 AM

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Originally Posted by cryptic

Am i the only one who thinks it's hot?

lol...ok, maybe i'm weird, but when i notice that someone is really, really overconfident (and i don't just mean high self esteem; i mean bordering on delusions of grandeur

) ...well, i just find it unbelievably attractive.

Narcissism in the context of rape is even hotter...means the guy has no empathy for you at all, and it's all about his thrill, his kicks, his power.

i don't mean to be insensitive, or anything...i know that it's a personality disorder and it causes a lot of hurt to the people who suffer from it, and usually to those close to them as well.
So i feel kind of guilty about finding it attractive.

But still...
am i the only one who has a fascination with, well...those who are fascinated by their own egos?

Especially at a board like this.
Those who lack empathy make the best sadists.

(PS: Sorry in advance if this offends anyone. It's probably a bit of a delicate subject...i just wanted to see what others thought of it).

What about the rape of a woman who is narcissistic? That whole I'm too good for you thing....

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 03-27-2008, 03:01 AM

now that sounds HOT !!

cryptic · 03-27-2008, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Mugga123

What about the rape of a woman who is narcissistic? That whole I'm too good for you thing....

Hmm...for those who are that way inclined, i can imagine that would be a rather enticing thought.

Especially if, while you are hurting her, you constantly tell her how she is worthless, ordinary, and nothing special...i bet that'd really mess with her head.

It'd be pretty mean, but, well, i guess rape does tend to be just a tad mean, funnily enough.

Let's face it...even the fantasy stuff isn't exactly all about sunshine and lollipops.

So yeah, the psychological element of overpowering a woman who would ordinarily shun pretty much everyone 'cause of her ego..
Yep, that'd probably be a pretty sweet victory.

Ragman · 03-27-2008, 10:52 AM

I agree that the taking of a woman who is a narcasist is an incredible turn on. Being shunned isn't fun and tends to illicit a desire for some sort of revenge.. if the shunning comes from a woman.. yum

shewasaskingforit · 03-28-2008, 01:11 PM

I also concur that forcefully raping a narcissistic woman to completely destroy her ego is a turn on.

SirSinister · 03-30-2008, 06:57 AM

What was the point of this thread?..

Mugga123 · 03-30-2008, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by SirSinister

What was the point of this thread?..

To find out if people think Narcissism is hot.

SirSinister · 03-30-2008, 08:04 AM

I was not being literal...

My question was a personal one to cryptic...

Mugga123 · 03-30-2008, 08:08 AM

My apologies

SirSinister · 03-30-2008, 08:09 AM

No problem...

cryptic · 03-30-2008, 08:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SirSinister

I was not being literal...

My question was a personal one to cryptic...

No point, apart from curiosity.

Why do you ask?

dasVerlangen · 03-31-2008, 08:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cryptic

Am i the only one who thinks it's hot?

lol...ok, maybe i'm weird, but when i notice that someone is really, really overconfident (and i don't just mean high self esteem; i mean bordering on delusions of grandeur

) ...well, i just find it unbelievably attractive.

Narcissism in the context of rape is even hotter...means the guy has no empathy for you at all, and it's all about his thrill, his kicks, his power.

i don't mean to be insensitive, or anything...i know that it's a personality disorder and it causes a lot of hurt to the people who suffer from it, and usually to those close to them as well.
So i feel kind of guilty about finding it attractive..

If you are to enjoy something, you must not feel guilty regarding your enjoyment of it.
For instance, if one were a complete sociopath lacking any form of empathy...
were one to rape, torture, or maim someone, one would not cease, nor feel guilt for violating and destroying, as the immense pleasure from the activity would outweigh any vestige of sympathy for the sufferer's plight.

What is the deal with people feeling the need to apologize for their paraphilias?

To hell with that - I like what I like and anyone who does not like what I do has the option not to speak or agree with me. From where does this desire to be acceptable stem? Fuck that.

You like narcissism.
Diddle yourself all you'd like for it, but under no circumstances feel guilty for enjoying the concept.

ChiTownHoney · 03-31-2008, 08:05 PM

I dont know how this conversation turned into a conversation about Narcissitic women. What the hell? We were talking about men here.

cryptic · 03-31-2008, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

I dont know how this conversation turned into a conversation about Narcissitic women. What the hell? We were talking about men here.

Threads have a habit of meandering off-topic like that.

Still, it's interesting to see the guys' points of view as well as the girls'.

dasVerlangen · 04-01-2008, 02:49 AM

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Originally Posted by cryptic

Threads have a habit of meandering off-topic like that.

Still, it's interesting to see the guys' points of view as well as the girls'.

Once again, the topic was not narcissistic men, it was a general subject (narcissism) referenced to the entire board, unless my optic nerves are malfunctioning.
Furthermore, what I said is far more useful than any bits of drivel involving the nodding and wagging of many incurious heads and tails. . . which are bound to follow.
If a conversation doesn't flow, then it's a goddamned poll. . . in which case you should just make a fucking poll.

03-26-2008, 12:39 AM	#1
cryptic Trapped by the darkness Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 339 Reputation: 3938	Narcissism Am i the only one who thinks it's hot? lol...ok, maybe i'm weird, but when i notice that someone is really, really overconfident (and i don't just mean high self esteem; i mean bordering on delusions of grandeur ) ...well, i just find it unbelievably attractive. Narcissism in the context of rape is even hotter...means the guy has no empathy for you at all, and it's all about his thrill, his kicks, his power. i don't mean to be insensitive, or anything...i know that it's a personality disorder and it causes a lot of hurt to the people who suffer from it, and usually to those close to them as well. So i feel kind of guilty about finding it attractive. But still... am i the only one who has a fascination with, well...those who are fascinated by their own egos? Especially at a board like this. Those who lack empathy make the best sadists. (PS: Sorry in advance if this offends anyone. It's probably a bit of a delicate subject...i just wanted to see what others thought of it). __________________ "I don't know what you've done to me But I know this much is true I want to do bad things with you..." - True Blood themesong "So hungry For the one understanding Looking for a token Of blood or tenderness..." - Suzanne Vega Anal rapists are fucking assholes.

03-26-2008, 01:49 AM	#2
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	i thougn narcisism was a greek god os something !! __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!

03-27-2008, 03:01 AM	#7
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	now that sounds HOT !! __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!

03-27-2008, 10:52 AM	#9
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	I agree that the taking of a woman who is a narcasist is an incredible turn on. Being shunned isn't fun and tends to illicit a desire for some sort of revenge.. if the shunning comes from a woman.. yum __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2

03-28-2008, 01:11 PM	#10
shewasaskingforit Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8 Reputation: 10	I also concur that forcefully raping a narcissistic woman to completely destroy her ego is a turn on. __________________ I'm the only one you love, I feel her heart beating my knife deep inside, her crotch is bleeding

03-26-2008, 05:47 PM	#4
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	yes I am also very turned on by that. And what you said Those who lack empathy make the best sadists, I completely agree with!! However, some guys just CANT get away with it. I mean, it just doesnt work for some men. I always found men with those kind of issues a turn on, the idea of a sociopathic man turns me on, and often ends up in my fantasies. I dont know why that is.

03-30-2008, 06:57 AM	#11
SirSinister Banned Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 184 Reputation: 112	What was the point of this thread?..

03-30-2008, 08:04 AM	#13
SirSinister Banned Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 184 Reputation: 112	I was not being literal... My question was a personal one to cryptic...

03-30-2008, 08:08 AM	#14
Mugga123 Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 983 Reputation: 22893	My apologies __________________ It's all fun and games till someone gets raped.

03-30-2008, 08:09 AM	#15
SirSinister Banned Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 184 Reputation: 112	No problem...

03-31-2008, 08:05 PM	#18
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	I dont know how this conversation turned into a conversation about Narcissitic women. What the hell? We were talking about men here.