how would you tell your real partner? - Rape Board

rapeontheroad78 · 01-25-2009, 07:50 PM

anyone know how to tell somoene your with about ropeplaying rape with out it sounding bad how would i go about it to my gf?

crimsondesire · 01-25-2009, 08:03 PM

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menace · 01-25-2009, 08:27 PM

I think that if you have to explain the meaning of role play to them, it's probably best to keep it there with that person.

joey · 01-25-2009, 08:54 PM

Lots of luck! Let us know if your successful. Unfortunately can't offer any tips as I"m in the closet so to speak.

crimsondesire · 01-25-2009, 11:48 PM

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AtomicGarbage · 01-25-2009, 11:51 PM

alternatively, ask them if they're into kink first. Gradually try new, kinkier things until you traverse the sexual spectrum and wind up in Rape Role Play Alley.

ChiTownHoney · 01-25-2009, 11:52 PM

I would say to just experiement during sex to see if she is at all into it. Like pull her hair, pin her down, pull her into various positions. Go a little bit rough and see her reaction. You can see if she likes it or not, or just ask her if she likes it. Then if she does, each time, get rougher. The problem with this is that she may not like it, then what? Do you still want to tell her about it?

Maybe you can even talk about fantasies..and ask her to discuss hers. maybe its on her list? Or if not, you can ask her what she thinks about a "taken" fantasy. See whats up. If she says "hmmm...maybe"...say you can roleplay it for her sometimes..see if she likes it...then I guess you have to tell her that you are into it.

My way to tell people I'm into it is while we are having sex, I would say "yes, I like it rough, daddy! give it to me rough!". I did that to my ex, and he got really into it. I didnt really need to say anything though, because he confessed that he always new what was up with me and it was cool. I guess I have a way about me where I unknowingly prodded him to be rough.

TwistedMaster · 01-26-2009, 06:12 AM

I honestly can't remember how I've told my past partners exactly... You just know whether or not they would be receptive to it. Some I've told, others I haven't

Tim Woodman · 01-26-2009, 11:41 AM

Man, everybody already said the right thing here. It's a little bit of guesswork, a lot of gradual, small steps, and good luck!

I'm a professional villain, and simply don't associate with vanilla people anymore, so I haven't had to introduce a lover to this stuff in a long time, and maaan, I don't miss that!

justmetoo · 01-26-2009, 04:45 PM

Yeah, it is a gradual process for sure. With the wife it's been a slow process. First was getting her to screw another guy. She was always into getting tied up. I posted a while ago about a trick I played on her where she was tied to the bed and I pretended that some guys were going to come in there and take her.

That is about as far as I've gone so far. But I'm still working on it.

ChiTownHoney · 01-26-2009, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Parisa

get her to listen to the Enrique Iglesias song 'Love To See You Cry'...then be like, ohh baby u're so beautiful when u cry i almost wanna make u cry...then proceed to pounce on her and rape her

Thats en fuego

lildefect · 01-26-2009, 11:45 PM

It is so weird, I just learned about how people put on a face, even the people they are most intimate with, and cannot truly be themselves. I would have to agree with chitown- definitely ease into it. I know people who would be completely turned off by the idea, even offended, so definitely test the waters first. Then maybe ask about their personal fantasies- tell them not to hold back anything! Start with just some rough sex, pinning, light bondage, work up to naughty talk and physical force, and then proceed to ask about your partners fantasies.

I mean, honestly... I don't know why we hold back our true selves. It is not as though we are actually going to go rape people, so I don't see why it is such a big deal to express to our partners what we want out of the physical relationship? I know I've had trouble with that in the past, but I guess it is different coming from a woman than it is a man.

Express that you no longer want to portray this facade of what others percieve as 'normality', just say what your body really urges for!

... ... .. Darnit, if only it were that easy! Lol. Good luck though.

Hope it goes well.

FuckingRotter · 01-27-2009, 08:23 AM

A drunken conversation with a girl I just met from back in the day:

Rotter: I want to hit you!
Girl: Go on then if you dare!
Rotter: *slap*
Girl: *bite scratch*
Rotter: *backhand*
Girl: *bite scratch* "Ouch! Bastard!"
Rotter: *slap backhand slap backhand*
Girl: Fucker!
Rotter: *rape rape*
Girl: Mmmm....

Sometimes actions speak louder than words, just a case of picking the right girl. We went out for months after that.

Conrad · 01-27-2009, 10:37 AM

I'd say, 'Bitch I'm going to rape you and don't the fucking dare call the cops'!

No seriously I wouldn't have a clue, I'd probably do it the way Chi suggested and ease into it.

woody2 · 01-28-2009, 05:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Conrad

I'd say, 'Bitch I'm going to rape you and don't the fucking dare call the cops'!

Your cellmate would be saying the same shit to you shortly afterwards.

Haha I agree, easing into it would be the best idea.

Conrad · 01-28-2009, 06:31 AM

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Originally Posted by woody2

Your cellmate would be saying the same shit to you shortly afterwards.

Haha I agree, easing into it would be the best idea.

The first thing I'd do if I got sent to prison is attack a guard, instant solitary confinment and anal sanctity. Plus when I got out people would think I was a bad motherfucker.

MyWorld · 01-28-2009, 01:06 PM

I'd suggest watching a movie with a rape scene in it with her and see what her reaction is, the 1st time i watched the accused with my wife i noticed that the rape scene in it turned her on, its been fun ever since.

TwistedMaster · 01-28-2009, 01:11 PM

Great idea! I'm gonna have to remember that one...

rapeontheroad78 · 01-29-2009, 09:34 PM

thanks for the input somes been interesting but I got some ideas

italianguy · 02-07-2009, 07:51 PM

is there a rape database like the ballbusting database http://www.bbdatabase.com/ ?

I would appreciate it, I will go to the cinema just to see random girls reactions to rape. That could be really funny.

I did it but only with horror movies to see scared girls, that's not really the same thing without humiliation, but funny nontheless.

And if a girl has the misfortune to sit near me I will surely start to pester her poking her with my elbow and saying something like "lol they are raping her roflmao lol lol lol.... OMG see her face ahahahahahahha", pronuncing "lol" as "lol", not really laughing, of course.

I always wondered why they don't put fake laughs when a rape happens in films.

01-25-2009, 07:50 PM	#1
rapeontheroad78 Banned Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: In your wildest roleplays :D Posts: 236 Reputation: 1648	how would you tell your real partner? anyone know how to tell somoene your with about ropeplaying rape with out it sounding bad how would i go about it to my gf?

01-25-2009, 08:03 PM	#2
crimsondesire Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 382 Reputation: 7970	.. __________________ Nails tear at raw flesh,cutting deep, tossing and turning, quivering with delight as I weep. Eyes wide open and mouth taped shut breathing barely, hands tied up. A loving heart completly ravished, a home for two,taught to share. Blood runs thick on skin so pale and just like my soul,body bare. Tears are dry, mascara stale, My twisted fairy tale. Last edited by crimsondesire; 01-26-2009 at 07:12 AM.

01-25-2009, 08:27 PM	#3
menace Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Who knows? Posts: 2,436 Reputation: 26964	I think that if you have to explain the meaning of role play to them, it's probably best to keep it there with that person. __________________ Try and stop me

01-25-2009, 11:48 PM	#5
crimsondesire Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 382 Reputation: 7970	... __________________ Nails tear at raw flesh,cutting deep, tossing and turning, quivering with delight as I weep. Eyes wide open and mouth taped shut breathing barely, hands tied up. A loving heart completly ravished, a home for two,taught to share. Blood runs thick on skin so pale and just like my soul,body bare. Tears are dry, mascara stale, My twisted fairy tale. Last edited by crimsondesire; 01-26-2009 at 07:11 AM.

01-25-2009, 11:51 PM	#6
AtomicGarbage Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: San Francisco, California Posts: 59 Reputation: 475	alternatively, ask them if they're into kink first. Gradually try new, kinkier things until you traverse the sexual spectrum and wind up in Rape Role Play Alley. __________________ I haven't been fucked like that since gradeschool.

01-25-2009, 08:54 PM	#4
joey Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 129 Reputation: 1677	Lots of luck! Let us know if your successful. Unfortunately can't offer any tips as I"m in the closet so to speak.

01-25-2009, 11:52 PM	#7
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	I would say to just experiement during sex to see if she is at all into it. Like pull her hair, pin her down, pull her into various positions. Go a little bit rough and see her reaction. You can see if she likes it or not, or just ask her if she likes it. Then if she does, each time, get rougher. The problem with this is that she may not like it, then what? Do you still want to tell her about it? Maybe you can even talk about fantasies..and ask her to discuss hers. maybe its on her list? Or if not, you can ask her what she thinks about a "taken" fantasy. See whats up. If she says "hmmm...maybe"...say you can roleplay it for her sometimes..see if she likes it...then I guess you have to tell her that you are into it. My way to tell people I'm into it is while we are having sex, I would say "yes, I like it rough, daddy! give it to me rough!". I did that to my ex, and he got really into it. I didnt really need to say anything though, because he confessed that he always new what was up with me and it was cool. I guess I have a way about me where I unknowingly prodded him to be rough. Last edited by ChiTownHoney; 01-25-2009 at 11:59 PM.

01-26-2009, 06:12 AM	#8
TwistedMaster Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 955 Reputation: 4707	I honestly can't remember how I've told my past partners exactly... You just know whether or not they would be receptive to it. Some I've told, others I haven't __________________ You're a gift to me, and I always play with my presents...

01-26-2009, 11:41 AM	#9
Tim Woodman Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 105 Reputation: 940	Man, everybody already said the right thing here. It's a little bit of guesswork, a lot of gradual, small steps, and good luck! I'm a professional villain, and simply don't associate with vanilla people anymore, so I haven't had to introduce a lover to this stuff in a long time, and maaan, I don't miss that! __________________ Tim Woodman, Professional Villain

01-26-2009, 04:45 PM	#10
justmetoo Privileged Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In your mind Posts: 1,086 Reputation: 23015	Yeah, it is a gradual process for sure. With the wife it's been a slow process. First was getting her to screw another guy. She was always into getting tied up. I posted a while ago about a trick I played on her where she was tied to the bed and I pretended that some guys were going to come in there and take her. That is about as far as I've gone so far. But I'm still working on it.

01-26-2009, 11:45 PM	#12
lildefect Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 160 Reputation: 1044	It is so weird, I just learned about how people put on a face, even the people they are most intimate with, and cannot truly be themselves. I would have to agree with chitown- definitely ease into it. I know people who would be completely turned off by the idea, even offended, so definitely test the waters first. Then maybe ask about their personal fantasies- tell them not to hold back anything! Start with just some rough sex, pinning, light bondage, work up to naughty talk and physical force, and then proceed to ask about your partners fantasies. I mean, honestly... I don't know why we hold back our true selves. It is not as though we are actually going to go rape people, so I don't see why it is such a big deal to express to our partners what we want out of the physical relationship? I know I've had trouble with that in the past, but I guess it is different coming from a woman than it is a man. Express that you no longer want to portray this facade of what others percieve as 'normality', just say what your body really urges for! ... ... .. Darnit, if only it were that easy! Lol. Good luck though. Hope it goes well. __________________ "Its no fun if you don't cry."

01-27-2009, 08:23 AM	#13
FuckingRotter The Fist of Fury. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Entering the.... Posts: 9,649 Reputation: 118903	A drunken conversation with a girl I just met from back in the day: Rotter: I want to hit you! Girl: Go on then if you dare! Rotter: slap Girl: bite scratch Rotter: backhand Girl: bite scratch "Ouch! Bastard!" Rotter: slap backhand slap backhand Girl: Fucker! Rotter: rape rape Girl: Mmmm.... Sometimes actions speak louder than words, just a case of picking the right girl. We went out for months after that.

01-27-2009, 10:37 AM	#14
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	I'd say, 'Bitch I'm going to rape you and don't the fucking dare call the cops'! No seriously I wouldn't have a clue, I'd probably do it the way Chi suggested and ease into it.

01-28-2009, 01:06 PM	#17
MyWorld Privileged Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: O'er Yonder Posts: 210 Reputation: 12975	I'd suggest watching a movie with a rape scene in it with her and see what her reaction is, the 1st time i watched the accused with my wife i noticed that the rape scene in it turned her on, its been fun ever since.

01-28-2009, 01:11 PM	#18
TwistedMaster Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 955 Reputation: 4707	Great idea! I'm gonna have to remember that one... __________________ You're a gift to me, and I always play with my presents...

01-29-2009, 09:34 PM	#19
rapeontheroad78 Banned Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: In your wildest roleplays :D Posts: 236 Reputation: 1648	thanks for the input somes been interesting but I got some ideas

02-07-2009, 07:51 PM	#20
italianguy Banned Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 126 Reputation: -972	is there a rape database like the ballbusting database http://www.bbdatabase.com/ ? I would appreciate it, I will go to the cinema just to see random girls reactions to rape. That could be really funny. I did it but only with horror movies to see scared girls, that's not really the same thing without humiliation, but funny nontheless. And if a girl has the misfortune to sit near me I will surely start to pester her poking her with my elbow and saying something like "lol they are raping her roflmao lol lol lol.... OMG see her face ahahahahahahha", pronuncing "lol" as "lol", not really laughing, of course. I always wondered why they don't put fake laughs when a rape happens in films. Last edited by italianguy; 02-07-2009 at 08:06 PM.