How do you rape roleplay? - Rape Board

ChiTownHoney · 03-23-2008, 11:40 PM

When you roleplay rape with your significant other, how does the scenario go? Do you plan it out and make up safe words, or do you just say, ok, lets play rape, and anything goes??

If I were to every roleplay rape with anyone, I wouldnt make up any safe words, I think its lame and no fun...but thats just my opinion. I would just say, "rape me" and hopefully he does no matter how much I kick and scream. Or hopefully dont even have to say it so bluntly. Does anyone just do that?

FinalKey · 03-23-2008, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

If I were to every roleplay rape with anyone, I wouldnt make up any safe words, I think its lame and no fun...but thats just my opinion. I would just say, "rape me" and hopefully he does no matter how much I kick and scream. Or hopefully dont even have to say it so bluntly. Does anyone just do that?

For a girl who hates anal you'd better make it clear that your backdoor is off limits to tongues, thumbs, pinkies and thick curved cocks.

so yea you better get a safeword.

As for me if I ever get into a rape rp(a serious one), i'll want a safeword, at least three to let me know what's going on.

Tanya · 03-24-2008, 06:45 AM

well if you arnt going to use a safeword i think it should be someone you really trust

Sternenlied · 03-24-2008, 07:11 AM

Well, the safeword is also a security device for him, we shouldn't forget that.
It's not only for us (victims) to protect ourselves from anything we don't want to happen (especially if you don't play anything planned, but just go along), it's also a reassurance for him so he knows he can go along no matter how much you fight, cry, beg,, whatever as long as you don't use your safeword.
In my experience it also makes the guy feel more comfortable because he knows he can do whatever he wants, no matter what she does or says - always aware you can stop him by using the safeword.
Put yourself in his position eventually: No safeword ... how is he supposed to know (instantly) you actually want him to stop this time if there's no safeword, sign, etc ... you agreed on? You could frighten your partner and thus limit him and by that your entire RP seriously if he isn't totally sure about it.

Tanya · 03-24-2008, 07:29 PM

That is a good point. I think also because some males don't realise their own strength, like the guy i roleplayed with once and almost knocked me out and was making me bleed and he didn't realise he was hitting, and fucking so hard...

ChiTownHoney · 03-24-2008, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Sternenlied

Well, the safeword is also a security device for him, we shouldn't forget that.
It's not only for us (victims) to protect ourselves from anything we don't want to happen (especially if you don't play anything planned, but just go along), it's also a reassurance for him so he knows he can go along no matter how much you fight, cry, beg,, whatever as long as you don't use your safeword.
In my experience it also makes the guy feel more comfortable because he knows he can do whatever he wants, no matter what she does or says - always aware you can stop him by using the safeword.
Put yourself in his position eventually: No safeword ... how is he supposed to know (instantly) you actually want him to stop this time if there's no safeword, sign, etc ... you agreed on? You could frighten your partner and thus limit him and by that your entire RP seriously if he isn't totally sure about it.

Thats the point. WHY would I want him to stop?? If he hurts me he hurts me thats the point!!!

ChiTownHoney · 03-24-2008, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by FinalKey

For a girl who hates anal you'd better make it clear that your backdoor is off limits to tongues, thumbs, pinkies and thick curved cocks.

so yea you better get a safeword.

As for me if I ever get into a rape rp(a serious one), i'll want a safeword, at least three to let me know what's going on.

actually those are all ok except for anything bigger than a finger.

I dont need a safeword.

Sternenlied · 03-25-2008, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

Thats the point. WHY would I want him to stop?? If he hurts me he hurts me thats the point!!!

By all means - if that is what you want I don't mind.
If you don't need one because you feel that's the way it should go down I'm not inclined to argue with that. Those guys are out there as well for sure, I'm just saying just because you don't want a safeword doesn't mean he doesn't want one as well.

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Originally Posted by Tanja

That is a good point. I think also because some males don't realise their own strength, like the guy i roleplayed with once and almost knocked me out and was making me bleed and he didn't realise he was hitting, and fucking so hard...

Yes, in a way they're always like little children are they not?

ego · 03-25-2008, 04:19 PM

Personally, i am. And it is sooo good!

Ragman · 03-26-2008, 12:32 AM

I am sure my RPs are pretty tame compared to some of the others on this board. We don't use safe words persay but neither of us takes the play too seriousley either. I am well aware of the things that are on her " don't do" list and during the play I just... don't do them.

cryptic · 03-26-2008, 12:45 AM

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I am well aware of the things that are on her " don't do" list and during the play I just... don't do them.

Ah...a rare gentleman

i guess sometimes - with a little common sense and a partner you trust - safe words aren't always necessary. Hadn't thought of it that way.

FinalKey · 03-26-2008, 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

actually those are all ok except for anything bigger than a finger.

I dont need a safeword.

Even if I'm really careful?

That's good though, just tell him that beforehand lol. Otherwise he's just gonna think you're still playing when you scream for him to 'take it out of there!'

03-23-2008, 11:40 PM	#1
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	How do you rape roleplay? When you roleplay rape with your significant other, how does the scenario go? Do you plan it out and make up safe words, or do you just say, ok, lets play rape, and anything goes?? If I were to every roleplay rape with anyone, I wouldnt make up any safe words, I think its lame and no fun...but thats just my opinion. I would just say, "rape me" and hopefully he does no matter how much I kick and scream. Or hopefully dont even have to say it so bluntly. Does anyone just do that?

03-24-2008, 06:45 AM	#3
Tanya Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 505 Reputation: 2134	well if you arnt going to use a safeword i think it should be someone you really trust __________________ When im good im very very good, but when im bad im better!

03-24-2008, 07:11 AM	#4
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	Well, the safeword is also a security device for him, we shouldn't forget that. It's not only for us (victims) to protect ourselves from anything we don't want to happen (especially if you don't play anything planned, but just go along), it's also a reassurance for him so he knows he can go along no matter how much you fight, cry, beg,, whatever as long as you don't use your safeword. In my experience it also makes the guy feel more comfortable because he knows he can do whatever he wants, no matter what she does or says - always aware you can stop him by using the safeword. Put yourself in his position eventually: No safeword ... how is he supposed to know (instantly) you actually want him to stop this time if there's no safeword, sign, etc ... you agreed on? You could frighten your partner and thus limit him and by that your entire RP seriously if he isn't totally sure about it. __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

03-24-2008, 07:29 PM	#5
Tanya Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 505 Reputation: 2134	That is a good point. I think also because some males don't realise their own strength, like the guy i roleplayed with once and almost knocked me out and was making me bleed and he didn't realise he was hitting, and fucking so hard... __________________ When im good im very very good, but when im bad im better!

03-25-2008, 04:19 PM	#9
ego the obscure Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 3,457 Reputation: 14892	Personally, i am. And it is sooo good! __________________ ..lure them all into the abyss!

03-26-2008, 12:32 AM	#10
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	I am sure my RPs are pretty tame compared to some of the others on this board. We don't use safe words persay but neither of us takes the play too seriousley either. I am well aware of the things that are on her " don't do" list and during the play I just... don't do them. __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2