'rape hints' we make - Rape Board

GOATBOY · 03-14-2009, 04:48 PM

so, sadly, in this world we can not share our fantasies publicly in fear of being outcasted. We can only share it online, and with those that we are indulging our fantasies with. So when we meet someone new, we take it as default that we are both vanilla and both think rape fetishists are 'sick in the head'. But I am finding that 90% of the women I get with seem to like some sort of dominance, being held down at least.

The girl that I have just started seeing seems to like heavy petting in a secluded alleyway, with her against the wall. I have held onto her wrists and held both behind her back at once, and she really didn't seem to mind. So I have a good feeling that I will have a regular victim again soon :-). Maybe you might get some pics or videos, if you are lucky.

So here is my question.

As we can not just blurt out on a date 'I fantasise about raping/being raped. what about you?' what sort of ways do you drop hints?

sexfiend · 03-14-2009, 06:47 PM

Well for me,it starts with talking about what she is into.Then i can question her about fantasy she has had,and after i find out what i need to know,i can tell her as much as i want too.I have also found alot of women who like rough sex or even have a forced fantasy they want too play out.Roleplaying is also good,i was reading somewhere that alot of women like rolepaying as part of their sex lives.Thanks for a very good post and for giving me something to think about other then the real world.lol

jwham · 03-14-2009, 07:11 PM

Being married to a fine lady who enjoys rough sex with the use of a safe word I no longer have to give hints, but when I was on the prowl I went about it much the same as you have described, by pinning her arms during foreplay, or starting playful arguments resulting in giving her a playful spanking etc, if she seemed to enjoy this type of play I’d start a discussion of role play fantasies with her. Probably not on the first date or two though ..lol

crimsondesire · 03-14-2009, 10:41 PM

I am a pretty open person, I am apsolutly not ashamed or embaressed about my interest in rape fantasy so I always told any potential interests about it,befor we got involved because it was actually important to me that they were interested in it as nothing else really gets me that excited. That has been over a year and 8 months now however. Sometimes with my lover now I will try to drop hints, sometimes I make it too easy and rape is not neccersary so sometimes it requires me being a bit more difficult.

FinalKey · 03-14-2009, 11:14 PM

Nice thread dude, I agree with you. Right now I'm seeing a woman who told me she had a dream we fucked and I held her arms above her head while we had rough sex, later on she asked would I like to hold her arms behind her back while I fucked her from behind. She hasn't come out and said she wanted to do a rape roleplay(sadly she herself has went through something earlier in her life) but from some instances in our conversations I think she enjoys being restrained during sex or at least wants to try it since she's brought up handcuffs a few times.

Beardy · 03-16-2009, 05:51 PM

First hint is make dominant sex, like youÂ´ve described. I ask my partner to make me love roughly. If he likes it, next step I do is confessing that I like fantasy rape. Then we can roleplay rape any time we feel like.
My advice for you is keep on making rough sex and propose her to be tied or being more submissive. You can talke about sex fantasies both have, and maybe youÂ´d be lucky and she would be in rape fantasies.
If not, next step would be propose her a rape play with a safeword. If she dislikes it once it starts you should forget it.

Tim Woodman · 03-17-2009, 10:02 AM

This is where your local BDSM club is useful. Granted, not everybody there is into what you want, but they're a LOT less judgemental, and there is a much higher probability of finding somebody who is willing to admit to (the very common!) fantasy of rape roleplay.

Check www dot fetishscene dot com for a list of pretty much every BDSM club in the USA.

...and good hunting!

Babu · 03-19-2009, 09:00 AM

For me its a real turn off if a guy has to ask to fuck me roughly, so I like to make sure we're on the same page early on. It's a lot easier for a woman I think to breach the subject since we are usually in the victim role and in my experience very rarely, if ever, does a guy get offended or disgusted when I mention my fantasies.

I usually breach the subject by saying im not into "lovey-dovey" sex, but rather more rough sex. If I get a favorable response, I use the term "forced sex" and eventually use the word rape

If I really feel like this guy is a winner, I might point him to the rape scene in Irreversible as an example of what really turns me on (minus the horrible beating after of course

)

Tim Woodman · 03-19-2009, 12:13 PM

Oooh Babu, nice to meet you! San Diego's not such a far drive...

Seriously, I applaud you for being willing to say what's on your mind with a guy, knowing that this is a societal double standard, and dealing with it. Personally, I agree with you. I have no time for people who aren't into what I'm into, and will say so early on in a date. If she's shocked and leaves, then good, that's less time wasted. If on the other hand she's not so shocked... well then the night gets interesting...

GOATBOY · 03-19-2009, 04:05 PM

it is very strange when you are in bed with a woman and you just are not sure if you should pounceo n her and force her or not. I understand why babu said what she did, but sometimes a great rape is not worth risking the prison if she is not into it.

esp, those of you who tease to the point where the guy can not control himself anymore. we have a freedom to think of here.

Lucy. · 03-19-2009, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Babu

I usually breach the subject by saying im not into "lovey-dovey" sex, but rather more rough sex. If I get a favorable response, I use the term "forced sex" and eventually use the word rape

I don't really understand. Rape is sex without consent and you are obviously consenting. What you are describing is rough sex no?

ChiTownHoney · 03-19-2009, 09:42 PM

Hmmm...I dont know about rape hints. But I usually let a guy subtely know if him being violent in anyways turns me on. For example, I was talking to this guy and I was all disinterested untill he said "I just got out of jail" then it was like a 180, my interest level shot up 140% and a slow uncontrollable grin came across my face. Another time this guy told me he has a tendency to get violent and I did this really cheesy "oh no.." kinda deal. It was really cheesy...too cheesy to be real. So of course he knew I liked what he said.

GOATBOY · 03-29-2009, 04:46 PM

Just thought I would bump this to tell you what happened last night.

I had, round my place, the girl I have mentioned before who could be into this. It has been made clear that she likes her hands restrained so I tied them up for the first time. Then while screwing her I hand gagged her for a bit, and when I took my hand away she said 'could you do that more?'. Then she started to refuse my kiss and I told her that she was naughty for doing it, she just said 'well then you have to teach me a lesson'.

So I just wanted to tell you all that I now have a steady victim. I know a few of you have got several and this would be no big deal to you, but it is to me.

I put up pics sometime if you are good to me.

prisonerslave · 03-30-2009, 02:29 AM

that is great to hear, what a lucky little lady!

mysterious-sexism · 04-02-2009, 12:17 AM

If it's cold out, you could go and meet her with one of those winter ski masks and see how she reacts to you putting it on once while she's there.

as a bi guy...if some guy wore that to my house on a date...Id be like, keep it on, if you want to get laid tonight. lol.

funny true story, most the girls that i get with are into these kind of fantasies. But guys? well...maybe they're just worried about how it might seem to reveal a fantasy of being a rapist...but they're usually like "errr...not my thing".

GOATBOY · 04-02-2009, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by mysterious-sexism

but they're usually like "errr...not my thing".

fine by me, I'll rape their share.

03-14-2009, 04:48 PM	#1
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	'rape hints' we make so, sadly, in this world we can not share our fantasies publicly in fear of being outcasted. We can only share it online, and with those that we are indulging our fantasies with. So when we meet someone new, we take it as default that we are both vanilla and both think rape fetishists are 'sick in the head'. But I am finding that 90% of the women I get with seem to like some sort of dominance, being held down at least. The girl that I have just started seeing seems to like heavy petting in a secluded alleyway, with her against the wall. I have held onto her wrists and held both behind her back at once, and she really didn't seem to mind. So I have a good feeling that I will have a regular victim again soon :-). Maybe you might get some pics or videos, if you are lucky. So here is my question. As we can not just blurt out on a date 'I fantasise about raping/being raped. what about you?' what sort of ways do you drop hints? __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

03-14-2009, 06:47 PM	#2
sexfiend Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: The Boiler Room Posts: 749 Reputation: 31277	Well for me,it starts with talking about what she is into.Then i can question her about fantasy she has had,and after i find out what i need to know,i can tell her as much as i want too.I have also found alot of women who like rough sex or even have a forced fantasy they want too play out.Roleplaying is also good,i was reading somewhere that alot of women like rolepaying as part of their sex lives.Thanks for a very good post and for giving me something to think about other then the real world.lol Last edited by sexfiend; 03-15-2009 at 12:19 AM.

03-14-2009, 10:41 PM	#4
crimsondesire Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 382 Reputation: 7970	I am a pretty open person, I am apsolutly not ashamed or embaressed about my interest in rape fantasy so I always told any potential interests about it,befor we got involved because it was actually important to me that they were interested in it as nothing else really gets me that excited. That has been over a year and 8 months now however. Sometimes with my lover now I will try to drop hints, sometimes I make it too easy and rape is not neccersary so sometimes it requires me being a bit more difficult. __________________ Nails tear at raw flesh,cutting deep, tossing and turning, quivering with delight as I weep. Eyes wide open and mouth taped shut breathing barely, hands tied up. A loving heart completly ravished, a home for two,taught to share. Blood runs thick on skin so pale and just like my soul,body bare. Tears are dry, mascara stale, My twisted fairy tale.

03-16-2009, 05:51 PM	#6
Beardy Dark alley walker Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Europe Posts: 1,210 Reputation: 22589	First hint is make dominant sex, like youÂ´ve described. I ask my partner to make me love roughly. If he likes it, next step I do is confessing that I like fantasy rape. Then we can roleplay rape any time we feel like. My advice for you is keep on making rough sex and propose her to be tied or being more submissive. You can talke about sex fantasies both have, and maybe youÂ´d be lucky and she would be in rape fantasies. If not, next step would be propose her a rape play with a safeword. If she dislikes it once it starts you should forget it. __________________ Meet me in your dark dreams.

03-17-2009, 10:02 AM	#7
Tim Woodman Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 105 Reputation: 940	This is where your local BDSM club is useful. Granted, not everybody there is into what you want, but they're a LOT less judgemental, and there is a much higher probability of finding somebody who is willing to admit to (the very common!) fantasy of rape roleplay. Check www dot fetishscene dot com for a list of pretty much every BDSM club in the USA. ...and good hunting! __________________ Tim Woodman, Professional Villain

03-14-2009, 07:11 PM	#3
jwham Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: USA Posts: 1,007 Reputation: 23285	Being married to a fine lady who enjoys rough sex with the use of a safe word I no longer have to give hints, but when I was on the prowl I went about it much the same as you have described, by pinning her arms during foreplay, or starting playful arguments resulting in giving her a playful spanking etc, if she seemed to enjoy this type of play I’d start a discussion of role play fantasies with her. Probably not on the first date or two though ..lol

03-14-2009, 11:14 PM	#5
FinalKey Key Master Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 677 Reputation: 4792	Nice thread dude, I agree with you. Right now I'm seeing a woman who told me she had a dream we fucked and I held her arms above her head while we had rough sex, later on she asked would I like to hold her arms behind her back while I fucked her from behind. She hasn't come out and said she wanted to do a rape roleplay(sadly she herself has went through something earlier in her life) but from some instances in our conversations I think she enjoys being restrained during sex or at least wants to try it since she's brought up handcuffs a few times.

03-19-2009, 09:00 AM	#8
Babu Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Southern California Posts: 136 Reputation: 829	For me its a real turn off if a guy has to ask to fuck me roughly, so I like to make sure we're on the same page early on. It's a lot easier for a woman I think to breach the subject since we are usually in the victim role and in my experience very rarely, if ever, does a guy get offended or disgusted when I mention my fantasies. I usually breach the subject by saying im not into "lovey-dovey" sex, but rather more rough sex. If I get a favorable response, I use the term "forced sex" and eventually use the word rape If I really feel like this guy is a winner, I might point him to the rape scene in Irreversible as an example of what really turns me on (minus the horrible beating after of course ) __________________ Why do people with closed minds always have open mouths?

03-19-2009, 12:13 PM	#9
Tim Woodman Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 105 Reputation: 940	Oooh Babu, nice to meet you! San Diego's not such a far drive... Seriously, I applaud you for being willing to say what's on your mind with a guy, knowing that this is a societal double standard, and dealing with it. Personally, I agree with you. I have no time for people who aren't into what I'm into, and will say so early on in a date. If she's shocked and leaves, then good, that's less time wasted. If on the other hand she's not so shocked... well then the night gets interesting... __________________ Tim Woodman, Professional Villain

03-19-2009, 04:05 PM	#10
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	it is very strange when you are in bed with a woman and you just are not sure if you should pounceo n her and force her or not. I understand why babu said what she did, but sometimes a great rape is not worth risking the prison if she is not into it. esp, those of you who tease to the point where the guy can not control himself anymore. we have a freedom to think of here. __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

03-19-2009, 09:42 PM	#12
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	Hmmm...I dont know about rape hints. But I usually let a guy subtely know if him being violent in anyways turns me on. For example, I was talking to this guy and I was all disinterested untill he said "I just got out of jail" then it was like a 180, my interest level shot up 140% and a slow uncontrollable grin came across my face. Another time this guy told me he has a tendency to get violent and I did this really cheesy "oh no.." kinda deal. It was really cheesy...too cheesy to be real. So of course he knew I liked what he said.

03-29-2009, 04:46 PM	#13
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	Just thought I would bump this to tell you what happened last night. I had, round my place, the girl I have mentioned before who could be into this. It has been made clear that she likes her hands restrained so I tied them up for the first time. Then while screwing her I hand gagged her for a bit, and when I took my hand away she said 'could you do that more?'. Then she started to refuse my kiss and I told her that she was naughty for doing it, she just said 'well then you have to teach me a lesson'. So I just wanted to tell you all that I now have a steady victim. I know a few of you have got several and this would be no big deal to you, but it is to me. I put up pics sometime if you are good to me. __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

03-30-2009, 02:29 AM	#14
prisonerslave Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: In your cage Posts: 185 Reputation: 1374	that is great to hear, what a lucky little lady! __________________ Russian Roulette is not the same with out a gun And Baby when it's love If it's not rough, it isn't fun!

04-02-2009, 12:17 AM	#15
mysterious-sexism Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 59 Reputation: 482	If it's cold out, you could go and meet her with one of those winter ski masks and see how she reacts to you putting it on once while she's there. as a bi guy...if some guy wore that to my house on a date...Id be like, keep it on, if you want to get laid tonight. lol. funny true story, most the girls that i get with are into these kind of fantasies. But guys? well...maybe they're just worried about how it might seem to reveal a fantasy of being a rapist...but they're usually like "errr...not my thing".