Deal breakers in dating - Rape Board

ChiTownHoney · 11-19-2008, 03:49 PM

Is there anything physically in the opposite sex that is a deal breaker when deciding on whether you want to date them or not? Or is there something that you would overlook, but plan to change later?

For me, there is no excuse for poor choice in clothing. Its not something I can easily overlook. If I really liked the guy, I would date him but I would definitly change the way he dressed.

Also, a short stature wil not be tolerated, no matter how cool the guy is.

Conrad · 11-19-2008, 03:58 PM

Damn, interesting question, I'm gonna have to have a good think about this one. In the mean time I would say that I could probably say that if there was one thing, on an otherwise attractive woman, then I could probably get past it. I would say really big, saggy, boobs is not that attractive to me. Or if the legs are really really out of proportion to the body, like I know this girl with miget legs on an otherwise normal torso.

If you mean how they choose to appear, such as choice of clothes etc then I don't like those really out there goths. You know with the knee hign leather boots with the steel all over them, and the ripped stockings and white face makeup with black lipstick. The hair doesn't look nice either, like dreads with different bright colours etc. Yeah not a fan of that at all.

I like women to look nice, if she has her own style and can pull it off then that's cool.

gaggirl · 11-19-2008, 04:02 PM

dress sense is def important. i dumped a guy once because i didnt like his beach towel (god i was fickle in those days)

deal breakers: smokers... (im so pissed that overkill took up smoking AFTER we got married the only bone of contention I have with the man)

Also no massive girth type men. big guys yes, even the old middle aged slightly beery waisted man can be pretty hot to me, but not obese and lazy.

also am NOT a fan offacial hair! sharp whiskers that leave half my skin missing after a good pash yes, but not a beard. too much like my dad *shudder* unless its one of those little designer type cleft shapes or something that could be funky. come to think of it havent seen any of those guys around lately.. so it musnt be in style.

I also could not go out with a man who is shorter than me. My mum used to be tall and looked exactly like morticia, and she always had husbands/artner that were bald and short it looked so wrong! so he has to be my height or taller.

i would never never ver tie myself (parden the pun) to someone if there was somethig i had to change about them. id rather be a mad cat lady and have a stable of playmates (which is how i spent most of my 20s!) I really believe if you have to change something about them, then they are not right for you.

Sternenlied · 11-19-2008, 07:29 PM

Deal breakers?
Whew ... asking what would "not" be one might be a shorter list ...

Let's see:

- bad breath
- bad smell in general
- greasy hair/general unclean appearance
- bad teeth
- gnawed off fingernails
- horrid way to laugh
- any guy living with his parents
- little pig eyes
- fat guys
- too thin, skeletal guys
- baldness
- Trekkie
- stupid
- uneducated
- no humour
- wedding ring (happens more often than you might guess)
- nothing to talk about
- about a hundred things more

I'm also not a "changer" - either he pulls it off or he doesn't.

Crotch_Ripper · 11-19-2008, 07:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sternenlied

Deal breakers?
Whew ... asking what would "not" be one might be a shorter list ...

Let's see:

- bad breath
- bad smell in general
- greasy hair/general unclean appearance
- bad teeth
- gnawed off fingernails
- horrid way to laugh
- any guy living with his parents
- little pig eyes
- fat guys
- too thin, skeletal guys
- baldness
- Trekkie
- stupid
- uneducated
- no humour
- wedding ring (happens more often than you might guess)
- nothing to talk about
- about a hundred things more

I'm also not a "changer" - either he pulls it off or he doesn't.

Trekkie LOL

Mr Spock has a huge phaser

lexie22 · 11-19-2008, 09:44 PM

Deal breakers for me, are:
- clingy
- guys that won't respect my wishes (not in the bedroom)

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 11-20-2008, 09:03 AM

Its no use saying what i dont like because if she had a nice pair of tits i would break all my rules lol

shysnale · 11-20-2008, 01:50 PM

lol this thread is great. Shit I have to rethink the way I look - lol

Conrad · 11-20-2008, 01:52 PM

Me to bro, I actually have no right to say anything about women at all. I must be a really unattractive prospect for the female sex.

mifje · 11-20-2008, 04:03 PM

I dont like woman with a lot of make up. I dont think I would date somebody.
Some make up is fine but she should know when to stop.

And secondly when somebody is trying to be cool and drinks way to much alcohol to show that.

gaggirl · 11-20-2008, 11:38 PM

I have another one.. its turned me off a man more times thani can remember, it those rio style 6 year old boy undies and budgie smugglers. Men look hot in trunks or boxer jockeys or comando ! Im very lucky I only ever dated one man who wore a thong, and thankfully not around me (and he didnt last long either!)

*shakes her boobies at maddog*

lol you wouldnt like me then doggy *sigh*

ChiTownHoney · 11-21-2008, 12:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sternenlied

- little pig eyes
.

Haha..I can only image what pig eyes look like!

ChiTownHoney · 11-21-2008, 12:20 AM

I am pretty easy to please, even though it seems like a little thing called chemistry is almost never present.

Its nice to see that the guys have not stated much....Maybe you are not too picky about looks afterall?

ooh I have to add another one. Guys who dont drive need to keep walking. Literally. Oh shit..wait, I said physically things...damn I am breaking my own threads rules.

ShyAngel · 11-21-2008, 03:18 AM

Smell, if a guy smells and won't bathe. Yeah ick.
I agree with the greasy hair.
I don't mind pretty much any style of clothing, it's when they wear the same shirt for days and won't do laundry. There's just no excuse.
I'm pretty easy to please. :P

shysnale · 11-21-2008, 05:15 AM

On second thoughts, you girls may realize one day time catches everybody, including the sexiest man on earth. Getting old doesn't help improving one's sex appeal. Digestive problems that leads to out of control burping around the age of 50, spinal column shrinking making shining heroes unable to chin up, the only way out for you girls seem to fall in love as fast as you can with a good looking young and focus only on the connection thing so your feelings may help you overlook physical faults he will get later on...........if you want to get engaged one day or another.....is it possible to build a strong relationship without the marriage commitment making it harder for you to breack up ?

Shit only a virgin can talk so foolish...

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 11-21-2008, 07:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gaggirl

*shakes her boobies at maddog*

lol you wouldnt like me then doggy *sigh* [/COLOR]

ohhh me definitely likeee !!

AWDracer · 11-22-2008, 04:19 AM

All these shortcomings that women see in us men can be reconciled entirely with money.

AWDracer · 11-22-2008, 04:24 AM

And come on, short people are NOT TOLERATED?

I understand people have your "picks" for guys or gals but let's say you really hook it up with this guy (or girl) and you cross them off because he's short or because she has small boobs - something they can't control. Next thing I expect from you is that you don't date a guy because he has a small penis.

Obesity can be fixed, but things like height, and penis sizes can't. Your standards maybe far too high for you. Don't take any offense from this ChiTown but based on the above, I think you're shallow, but I'm not asking you to change or anything. It's just a thought.

On the other hand, I don't date girls because of the rack that they have; yet this girl I talk to A LOT worries about her 36C which I assure her to be a great size - BUT she doesn't believe me!

Personality can mean a lot and as cheesy as it sounds, it's just as important as looks.

AWDracer · 11-22-2008, 04:29 AM

I actually could go on talking about this subject.

Poor choice of clothing shouldn't really be that much of a difference. They're clothes that you wear that you get from the store. Any person can change their clothing at any time - so I really don't think clothing choice should really be an issue. If they're "forced" to put on brand names, they'll "look good" but what good does that really do?

UNLESS this person buys stuff from the local thrift shop and THINKS they are wearing Armani, I honestly don't care what they wear, and I'm sure most people don't either.

If you're judging people because they aren't wearing Hollister, Abercrombie or other such brands, I think it's pretty ridiculous.

Conrad · 11-22-2008, 07:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AWDracer

All these shortcomings that women see in us men can be reconciled entirely with money.

Spoken like a true prodigy. Absolutely right, I've lost count of the times I've seen horrible fat, arrogant, ugly, badly dressed, and uncouth men with total stunners on their arm. I look at them and see they have gold rolex watches, they get into big mercedes cars etc. It makes me so sad.

11-19-2008, 03:49 PM	#1
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	Deal breakers in dating Is there anything physically in the opposite sex that is a deal breaker when deciding on whether you want to date them or not? Or is there something that you would overlook, but plan to change later? For me, there is no excuse for poor choice in clothing. Its not something I can easily overlook. If I really liked the guy, I would date him but I would definitly change the way he dressed. Also, a short stature wil not be tolerated, no matter how cool the guy is.

11-19-2008, 04:02 PM	#3
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	dress sense is def important. i dumped a guy once because i didnt like his beach towel (god i was fickle in those days) deal breakers: smokers... (im so pissed that overkill took up smoking AFTER we got married the only bone of contention I have with the man) Also no massive girth type men. big guys yes, even the old middle aged slightly beery waisted man can be pretty hot to me, but not obese and lazy. also am NOT a fan offacial hair! sharp whiskers that leave half my skin missing after a good pash yes, but not a beard. too much like my dad shudder unless its one of those little designer type cleft shapes or something that could be funky. come to think of it havent seen any of those guys around lately.. so it musnt be in style. I also could not go out with a man who is shorter than me. My mum used to be tall and looked exactly like morticia, and she always had husbands/artner that were bald and short it looked so wrong! so he has to be my height or taller. i would never never ver tie myself (parden the pun) to someone if there was somethig i had to change about them. id rather be a mad cat lady and have a stable of playmates (which is how i spent most of my 20s!) I really believe if you have to change something about them, then they are not right for you. Last edited by gaggirl; 11-19-2008 at 04:05 PM.

11-19-2008, 07:29 PM	#4
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	Deal breakers? Whew ... asking what would "not" be one might be a shorter list ... Let's see: - bad breath - bad smell in general - greasy hair/general unclean appearance - bad teeth - gnawed off fingernails - horrid way to laugh - any guy living with his parents - little pig eyes - fat guys - too thin, skeletal guys - baldness - Trekkie - stupid - uneducated - no humour - wedding ring (happens more often than you might guess) - nothing to talk about - about a hundred things more I'm also not a "changer" - either he pulls it off or he doesn't. __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

11-20-2008, 09:03 AM	#7
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	Its no use saying what i dont like because if she had a nice pair of tits i would break all my rules lol __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!

11-20-2008, 04:03 PM	#10
mifje Privileged Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 565 Reputation: 17719	I dont like woman with a lot of make up. I dont think I would date somebody. Some make up is fine but she should know when to stop. And secondly when somebody is trying to be cool and drinks way to much alcohol to show that. __________________ No one likes us, we don't care! BTW: I am MALE

11-19-2008, 03:58 PM	#2
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	Damn, interesting question, I'm gonna have to have a good think about this one. In the mean time I would say that I could probably say that if there was one thing, on an otherwise attractive woman, then I could probably get past it. I would say really big, saggy, boobs is not that attractive to me. Or if the legs are really really out of proportion to the body, like I know this girl with miget legs on an otherwise normal torso. If you mean how they choose to appear, such as choice of clothes etc then I don't like those really out there goths. You know with the knee hign leather boots with the steel all over them, and the ripped stockings and white face makeup with black lipstick. The hair doesn't look nice either, like dreads with different bright colours etc. Yeah not a fan of that at all. I like women to look nice, if she has her own style and can pull it off then that's cool.

11-19-2008, 09:44 PM	#6
lexie22 Banned Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Georgia, USA Posts: 835 Reputation: 11198	Deal breakers for me, are: - clingy - guys that won't respect my wishes (not in the bedroom)

11-20-2008, 01:50 PM	#8
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	lol this thread is great. Shit I have to rethink the way I look - lol

11-20-2008, 01:52 PM	#9
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	Me to bro, I actually have no right to say anything about women at all. I must be a really unattractive prospect for the female sex.

11-20-2008, 11:38 PM	#11
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	I have another one.. its turned me off a man more times thani can remember, it those rio style 6 year old boy undies and budgie smugglers. Men look hot in trunks or boxer jockeys or comando ! Im very lucky I only ever dated one man who wore a thong, and thankfully not around me (and he didnt last long either!) shakes her boobies at maddog lol you wouldnt like me then doggy sigh Last edited by gaggirl; 11-20-2008 at 11:40 PM.

11-21-2008, 12:20 AM	#13
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	I am pretty easy to please, even though it seems like a little thing called chemistry is almost never present. Its nice to see that the guys have not stated much....Maybe you are not too picky about looks afterall? ooh I have to add another one. Guys who dont drive need to keep walking. Literally. Oh shit..wait, I said physically things...damn I am breaking my own threads rules. Last edited by ChiTownHoney; 11-21-2008 at 12:23 AM.

11-21-2008, 03:18 AM	#14
ShyAngel Privileged Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 959 Reputation: 21985	Smell, if a guy smells and won't bathe. Yeah ick. I agree with the greasy hair. I don't mind pretty much any style of clothing, it's when they wear the same shirt for days and won't do laundry. There's just no excuse. I'm pretty easy to please. :P

11-21-2008, 05:15 AM	#15
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	On second thoughts, you girls may realize one day time catches everybody, including the sexiest man on earth. Getting old doesn't help improving one's sex appeal. Digestive problems that leads to out of control burping around the age of 50, spinal column shrinking making shining heroes unable to chin up, the only way out for you girls seem to fall in love as fast as you can with a good looking young and focus only on the connection thing so your feelings may help you overlook physical faults he will get later on...........if you want to get engaged one day or another.....is it possible to build a strong relationship without the marriage commitment making it harder for you to breack up ? Shit only a virgin can talk so foolish... Last edited by shysnale; 11-21-2008 at 08:20 AM.

11-22-2008, 04:19 AM	#17
AWDracer Self-exiled Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,017 Reputation: 13270	All these shortcomings that women see in us men can be reconciled entirely with money.

11-22-2008, 04:24 AM	#18
AWDracer Self-exiled Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,017 Reputation: 13270	And come on, short people are NOT TOLERATED? I understand people have your "picks" for guys or gals but let's say you really hook it up with this guy (or girl) and you cross them off because he's short or because she has small boobs - something they can't control. Next thing I expect from you is that you don't date a guy because he has a small penis. Obesity can be fixed, but things like height, and penis sizes can't. Your standards maybe far too high for you. Don't take any offense from this ChiTown but based on the above, I think you're shallow, but I'm not asking you to change or anything. It's just a thought. On the other hand, I don't date girls because of the rack that they have; yet this girl I talk to A LOT worries about her 36C which I assure her to be a great size - BUT she doesn't believe me! Personality can mean a lot and as cheesy as it sounds, it's just as important as looks.

11-22-2008, 04:29 AM	#19
AWDracer Self-exiled Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,017 Reputation: 13270	I actually could go on talking about this subject. Poor choice of clothing shouldn't really be that much of a difference. They're clothes that you wear that you get from the store. Any person can change their clothing at any time - so I really don't think clothing choice should really be an issue. If they're "forced" to put on brand names, they'll "look good" but what good does that really do? UNLESS this person buys stuff from the local thrift shop and THINKS they are wearing Armani, I honestly don't care what they wear, and I'm sure most people don't either. If you're judging people because they aren't wearing Hollister, Abercrombie or other such brands, I think it's pretty ridiculous.