From fantasy to reality - Rape Board

shysnale · 04-15-2006, 05:48 AM

Hi people.

Did anyone here feel some disapointment when making a fantasm become real ? I mean I personaly know my imagination can be so strong sometimes that it kind of prevents me from enjoying my fantasm when I can make it come true. I mean it's like you dream so much of something that you make it larger than life in your mind. When it finally happens, reality seems not as good as your imagination. Has anyone experienced that ?

Lupo · 04-15-2006, 06:06 AM

Alot of times. Reality sucks sometimes..

In your imagination you can add just the right touch but with a partner, it becomes "too arranged" and it might even end up feeling stupid instead and you might as well order a barbecued chicken if you are going to have greesy fingers anyway....
It does require a partner who is really good at roleplay ( and who has the same enthusiasm ) to make it work.

gal4 · 04-15-2006, 06:42 AM

yeah, find it bad, when the other partner farts. I mean the smell does destroy the mood.

shysnale · 04-15-2006, 01:12 PM

Thanks guys.
I'l glad to see I'l not the only one having this problem. Sometimes I think the only way to solve that problem is to look for surprise sex. I mean asking your partner(s) to just take you at very unusual moments. ....

Brek · 04-16-2006, 08:21 AM

You need the right mood at the right time. In my experience, almost every woman and man have a rape or rough sex fantasy with particular accoutrements, but these can be very specific. Cooperation has to occur between partners, and space control is vital (which can make the feeling less authentic, but until we can create 100% virtual programs for the purpose...) The best is when there is a dialectical or back-and-forth relationship between the two (or more) partners: A theme is expressed, the theme is refined, the relationship between the "characters" (as this is really basically theatre, with a VERY small audience

) is developed and broadened, and the fantasy acquires a life of its own.

I assume people here know of Force Fantasies. The essays Lorelei has written on the topic, as well as her erotica work, is very illuminating not only here but in other fields, and the community that's emerged around the site is very civilized and intriguing. Though I'm not usually the biggest fan of excessive bondage play, Lorelei and her actors do fantastic fantasies, and there seems to be a trust and fun that's happening (just look at the outtakes!)

Isn't it terrible that shyness and repression impedes us from enjoying even our most intimate moments?

04-15-2006, 05:48 AM	#1
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	From fantasy to reality Hi people. Did anyone here feel some disapointment when making a fantasm become real ? I mean I personaly know my imagination can be so strong sometimes that it kind of prevents me from enjoying my fantasm when I can make it come true. I mean it's like you dream so much of something that you make it larger than life in your mind. When it finally happens, reality seems not as good as your imagination. Has anyone experienced that ?

04-16-2006, 08:21 AM	#5
Brek Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: California Posts: 106 Reputation: 0	You need the right mood at the right time. In my experience, almost every woman and man have a rape or rough sex fantasy with particular accoutrements, but these can be very specific. Cooperation has to occur between partners, and space control is vital (which can make the feeling less authentic, but until we can create 100% virtual programs for the purpose...) The best is when there is a dialectical or back-and-forth relationship between the two (or more) partners: A theme is expressed, the theme is refined, the relationship between the "characters" (as this is really basically theatre, with a VERY small audience ) is developed and broadened, and the fantasy acquires a life of its own. I assume people here know of Force Fantasies. The essays Lorelei has written on the topic, as well as her erotica work, is very illuminating not only here but in other fields, and the community that's emerged around the site is very civilized and intriguing. Though I'm not usually the biggest fan of excessive bondage play, Lorelei and her actors do fantastic fantasies, and there seems to be a trust and fun that's happening (just look at the outtakes!) Isn't it terrible that shyness and repression impedes us from enjoying even our most intimate moments? Last edited by Brek; 04-16-2006 at 08:23 AM.

04-15-2006, 06:06 AM	#2
Lupo Privileged Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Denmark Posts: 447 Reputation: 571	Alot of times. Reality sucks sometimes.. In your imagination you can add just the right touch but with a partner, it becomes "too arranged" and it might even end up feeling stupid instead and you might as well order a barbecued chicken if you are going to have greesy fingers anyway.... It does require a partner who is really good at roleplay ( and who has the same enthusiasm ) to make it work.

04-15-2006, 06:42 AM	#3
gal4 UnWanted Trick Baby Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 834 Reputation: 584	yeah, find it bad, when the other partner farts. I mean the smell does destroy the mood.

04-15-2006, 01:12 PM	#4
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	Thanks guys. I'l glad to see I'l not the only one having this problem. Sometimes I think the only way to solve that problem is to look for surprise sex. I mean asking your partner(s) to just take you at very unusual moments. ....