"Breaking" - Rape Board

Own · 01-21-2007, 03:59 AM

I'm curoius...

I myself fantsize about a men "breaking" me, and I also see this is a lot of our posts. It seems to be subjective, different stories/RP's expressing it different ways.

So I'm wondering what it means to you, a memeber of this rockin' site?

Is it simply stopping psyhical sturggle wo restraints, surrendering and just letting abuse happen ,making her turn and beg for it....?

rampant · 02-16-2007, 09:55 AM

to me its about hearing her cry and beg, with a sense of helplessness in her voice.

sometimes it's about hearing her cum despite herself... but usually it's hearing her pain.

02-16-2007, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Own

I'm curoius...

I myself fantsize about a men "breaking" me, and I also see this is a lot of our posts. It seems to be subjective, different stories/RP's expressing it different ways.

So I'm wondering what it means to you, a memeber of this rockin' site?

Is it simply stopping psyhical sturggle wo restraints, surrendering and just letting abuse happen ,making her turn and beg for it....?

For me its about the power and control over the submissive, its not about the sex but the psychology in the play leading to sex

dominantuk · 02-16-2007, 11:28 AM

i think its the point where she totally gives in mentally and physically, once thats points reached nothing is impossible.

Louise · 02-16-2007, 11:52 AM

Breaking someone, good subject.

I believe it happens in degrees..whether its the moment someone stops stuggling, tho that doesnt necessairly mean they are broken, or whether its a deeper, darker more personal moment for the victim when their minds shrink back from the reality they are being exposed to.

I tend to agree with Clan and others who have said its more about the psychology leading upto and including the sex part of the play. Get it right and it can be the most fun part...

Lx

MarcEdeSade · 02-16-2007, 11:50 PM

Resistance replaced with acceptance.
Is that not the goal of all here?

There is a peace, a calm, a depth in acceptance....as in forgiveness...that leads the mind to bliss.

robert25260 · 02-17-2007, 05:10 AM

I agree: the "breaking" ist the best and the essential part of all my rape fantasies, the "rest" is just sex.

There are two parts of "breaking": First - breaking her body, the struggling, the slapping, the screaming, the spreading of her legs by force, the threats, the use of pur force until the resistance ends.

Second - breaking her mind: to make her "accept" it, the verbal abuse, to make her feel aroused, to make her come, to make her to want it to happen again and again .....

I agree that the second one may probably mostly be a male fantasy.

Andering REDDSON · 02-18-2007, 01:49 AM

For me, it’s about hate and pain and humiliation…
Doing something against her will.
“Submission” is not what I want. I want her to resist as much as possible, until physical exhaustion precludes further resistance, and even then, to refuse to happily comply.
(Keep in mind, however, that I am far too much a coward to ever commit an ACTUAL rape…)

Own · 02-18-2007, 02:14 PM

Looks like we're all on the same page

I dig the way Marc said it..."Resistance replaced with acceptance."

I like to think that me, being such a stubborn fool, would never "break" if fantasy ever became reality. But in reality I don' t know where my threshold would be. Although I dream of being "broke" and my attacker making me beg for it, I don't think that would ever happen in reality.

Also, in real life how many true rapes include the rapist taking the time to get their victims to psychologically submit? In my perception of real rape I see the rape as mainly a short control/physical act.

Anyway, thanks for the interaction. It's funny to think that really I was "broke" before ever coming to this site

PS: Andy your reply made me squirm

Louise · 02-18-2007, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Andering REDDSON

For me, itâ€™s about hate and pain and humiliationâ€¦
Doing something against her will.
â€œSubmissionâ€ is not what I want. I want her to resist as much as possible, until physical exhaustion precludes further resistance, and even then, to refuse to happily comply.
(Keep in mind, however, that I am far too much a coward to ever commit an ACTUAL rapeâ€¦)

AR, you are quite right. Submission is not the same as being broken, nor should the term really be considered correct within rape fantasy. I had a two year D/s relationship and I CHOSE to submit, being broken is force pitted against a will.

A victim may act submissively in order to not be too badly "hurt" during a rape, but in no way does one "submit" to the rapist. Thats pure nonsense.
Who here wants a victim to submit anyway? Surely thats part of the fun!!!
lol.

Andrea · 02-19-2007, 12:12 AM

If I give in thow iwn't it boring? just curous
love, peace
Andrea

Own · 02-19-2007, 02:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Andrea

If I give in thow iwn't it boring? just curous
love, peace
Andrea

Dunno, just depends on the RP I guess,

I try to stay surprising and witty and get my player to work at me a bit

shysnale · 02-19-2007, 12:12 PM

Sometimes I wonder if the broken fantasy relies on the desire to forget about yourself, to get free from these thick frames of mind that make you an automat in some extent. Get broken might allow someone to have a second birth.

IRejectUrReality · 02-19-2007, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by shysnale

Sometimes I wonder if the broken fantasy relies on the desire to forget about yourself, to get free from these thick frames of mind that make you an automat in some extent. Get broken might allow someone to have a second birth.

agreed shysnale.

TwistedDesires26Fem · 02-19-2007, 10:19 PM

I always thought of it as giving in, no restraints needed.

Own · 02-19-2007, 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Phantom

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In resistance lies the challenge......

In acceptance lies the victory......

and between her legs lies the trophy.......

Marc,

That would make a great bumper sticker

Beardy · 02-20-2007, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by robert25260

I agree: the "breaking" ist the best and the essential part of all my rape fantasies, the "rest" is just sex.

There are two parts of "breaking": First - breaking her body, the struggling, the slapping, the screaming, the spreading of her legs by force, the threats, the use of pur force until the resistance ends.

Second - breaking her mind: to make her "accept" it, the verbal abuse, to make her feel aroused, to make her come, to make her to want it to happen again and again .....

I agree that the second one may probably mostly be a male fantasy.

Well, I agree with you. I like to be broken in my fantasies in both parts of "breaking". The struggle is essential for me. IÂ´d add the clothes torn in the fight, so theÂ´re also broken.
And after the physical breaking, I also like to be mind broken: insulted humiliated, mentally posessed, forced to do things for the threaten of being hurt. So it can also be a female fantasy.

gaggirl · 02-20-2007, 06:20 PM

mmm yes good subject. I'm a bit late though (damn work!!)

I would think of myself as being broken only if my attacker won more than just my unwilling acceptance or submission, but if he won something emotional from me as well (which Ive read in fiction, an also of non fictional accounts.)

There is a very long story written by Tom someone many years ago still leaves a mark on me. The character Kidnapped this girl, and over a period of time exposing her to various methods and types training, manages to strip away her personality so that she went from fighting, to accepting and onto being emotionally attached to him. (but then I think she went and ended up enslaved by all these other people ... anyway)

Thats almost the "fallen in love with my rapist" idea I guess. but it goes much deeper than that.. to psychological dependence?
(and may it never EVER happen to me! lol)
gaggy x

01-21-2007, 03:59 AM	#1
Own Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Colorado Mountains Posts: 31 Reputation: 97	"Breaking" I'm curoius... I myself fantsize about a men "breaking" me, and I also see this is a lot of our posts. It seems to be subjective, different stories/RP's expressing it different ways. So I'm wondering what it means to you, a memeber of this rockin' site? Is it simply stopping psyhical sturggle wo restraints, surrendering and just letting abuse happen ,making her turn and beg for it....?

02-16-2007, 09:55 AM	#2
rampant Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Melbourne Australia Posts: 19 Reputation: 49	breaking the girl to me its about hearing her cry and beg, with a sense of helplessness in her voice. sometimes it's about hearing her cum despite herself... but usually it's hearing her pain.

02-16-2007, 11:28 AM	#4
dominantuk Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: England !! Posts: 66 Reputation: 143	i think its the point where she totally gives in mentally and physically, once thats points reached nothing is impossible. __________________ The needs of the few outweigh the needs of the many.

02-16-2007, 11:52 AM	#5
Louise Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,865 Reputation: 4905	Breaking someone, good subject. I believe it happens in degrees..whether its the moment someone stops stuggling, tho that doesnt necessairly mean they are broken, or whether its a deeper, darker more personal moment for the victim when their minds shrink back from the reality they are being exposed to. I tend to agree with Clan and others who have said its more about the psychology leading upto and including the sex part of the play. Get it right and it can be the most fun part... Lx __________________ ...no mercy in thy icy heart, for the lost prey you stalk and hunt, only the lust...

02-16-2007, 11:50 PM	#6
MarcEdeSade Amoralist Libertine Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 391 Reputation: 1262	Resistance replaced with acceptance. Is that not the goal of all here? There is a peace, a calm, a depth in acceptance....as in forgiveness...that leads the mind to bliss. __________________ Pain is inevitable....suffering is optional

02-17-2007, 05:10 AM	#7
robert25260 Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 65 Reputation: 2317	Best part I agree: the "breaking" ist the best and the essential part of all my rape fantasies, the "rest" is just sex. There are two parts of "breaking": First - breaking her body, the struggling, the slapping, the screaming, the spreading of her legs by force, the threats, the use of pur force until the resistance ends. Second - breaking her mind: to make her "accept" it, the verbal abuse, to make her feel aroused, to make her come, to make her to want it to happen again and again ..... I agree that the second one may probably mostly be a male fantasy.

02-18-2007, 01:49 AM	#8
Andering REDDSON Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: R/Bâ€™s cyber-Auschwitz Posts: 609 Reputation: 1028	For me, it’s about hate and pain and humiliation… Doing something against her will. “Submission” is not what I want. I want her to resist as much as possible, until physical exhaustion precludes further resistance, and even then, to refuse to happily comply. (Keep in mind, however, that I am far too much a coward to ever commit an ACTUAL rape…)

02-18-2007, 02:14 PM	#9
Own Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Colorado Mountains Posts: 31 Reputation: 97	Beyond sticks and stones... Looks like we're all on the same page I dig the way Marc said it..."Resistance replaced with acceptance." I like to think that me, being such a stubborn fool, would never "break" if fantasy ever became reality. But in reality I don' t know where my threshold would be. Although I dream of being "broke" and my attacker making me beg for it, I don't think that would ever happen in reality. Also, in real life how many true rapes include the rapist taking the time to get their victims to psychologically submit? In my perception of real rape I see the rape as mainly a short control/physical act. Anyway, thanks for the interaction. It's funny to think that really I was "broke" before ever coming to this site PS: Andy your reply made me squirm

02-19-2007, 12:12 AM	#11
Andrea Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: canada Posts: 22 Reputation: 177	If I give in thow iwn't it boring? just curous love, peace Andrea __________________ Your body's dying. Pay no attention, It happens to us all.

02-19-2007, 12:12 PM	#13
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	Sometimes I wonder if the broken fantasy relies on the desire to forget about yourself, to get free from these thick frames of mind that make you an automat in some extent. Get broken might allow someone to have a second birth.

02-19-2007, 10:19 PM	#15
TwistedDesires26Fem Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: US Posts: 15 Reputation: 12	I always thought of it as giving in, no restraints needed. __________________ Twisted Desires

02-20-2007, 06:20 PM	#18
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	mmm yes good subject. I'm a bit late though (damn work!!) I would think of myself as being broken only if my attacker won more than just my unwilling acceptance or submission, but if he won something emotional from me as well (which Ive read in fiction, an also of non fictional accounts.) There is a very long story written by Tom someone many years ago still leaves a mark on me. The character Kidnapped this girl, and over a period of time exposing her to various methods and types training, manages to strip away her personality so that she went from fighting, to accepting and onto being emotionally attached to him. (but then I think she went and ended up enslaved by all these other people ... anyway) Thats almost the "fallen in love with my rapist" idea I guess. but it goes much deeper than that.. to psychological dependence? (and may it never EVER happen to me! lol) gaggy x