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Old 07-04-2011, 05:43 PM   #1
Miklo
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Default Rising Thresholds

What's going on all?

I've been creeping around the boards for near a year now and joined more or less to have this discussion.

I'm curious about people's experiences involving the interplay between the sexual preferences explored on these boards and real world dating and sexual relationships.

I'm a 28 yr. old single guy. I started exploring these aspects of sexuality when I was 20 within a committed relationship. We had awesome chemistry. Rough sex, rape fantasy etc. practically came naturally between the two of us, no discussion was needed.

Over the years, my dating experiences have been varied. I've had a handful of fleeting relationships and spontaneous encounters that satisfied this part of me (all consensual of course). But otherwise, I've had pretty average dating experiences.

About a year ago, I started having a hard time getting into sex without there being some rape esque element. It got to the point where I couldn't hardly get it up. That's when I discoverd this amazing new...just kidding.

My solution was to stop looking at porn and stop fantasizing about rape. I'm having mixed results (as evident by my joining a rape fantasy message board hehe).

Very interested in board members experiences.
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