[gaggirl]

thats really sad it sounds like shes trying to work through something. I dont think the answer is to just "plough" on because thats exploiting the issue not healing the issue. Still have sex with her, but make sure SHE is ENJOYING it first! Dont ever be selfish about it and think your doing her a favour because often women will say they want something when they really dont, just to see how much you care about her to not do it.

Ultimately the whole "being used is how it is" relationship view is her issue and you can support her by encouraging her to seek therapy or get into spirituality so that she can find her own power again. We all do stuff for our man out of obligation that can be upsetting when you feel short changed or resentful (well I have anyway) but its not something you should be doing regularly let alone all the time!!