Rape does not destroy a life any more than namecalling breaks bones. Losing control of your body for the rest of your life may "destroy a life" or you could go on to become the next steven hawking.
How we respond to events, aside from dying, is far more important than the event itelf.
I reccommend "How to Stubbornly Refuse to Make Yourself Miserable About Anything - Yes Anything" by Ellis.
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Pain is inevitable....suffering is optional
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