While I think the right approach will vary from person to person, it's something that should be eased into as Phase said. Give your partner the time to process that you're into the kink - and if they aren't into it, make sure they know it isn't a dealkiller (unless of course it is). Respect is a key though - respect their decision and while it's ok to be disappointed, don't push too hard. Sometimes as they start to know you and feel safe with you they'll come around on their own.
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