Online - You definitely can dream whatever you want your partner to be. Any details given must be considered as PROVISIONAL... But that's a big part of fantasy anyway - that certain look. Even if it is just an act to humor you in your desires.
However, I always try to be honest when answering any questions about myself. Why lie? If a chat partner wants to look at a picture of Brad Pitt (or whomever) to get themselves hotter for me. Go ahead...
Offline - I'm more likely to ignore good looks in terms of personality. But only up to a point. Honestly, a frightfully ugly girl with a bad body would not do - no matter how simpatico. On the other hand, the hottest girl who has no personality traits that I find attractive will not hold my interest for longer than a glance.
I do tend to value intelligence, good sense of humor, girlish charm, etc. more highly than an adherence to a set of body measurements or an insistence on a stunningly beautiful face.
Personality can transform plain into pretty quite easily for me.
I need something to work with on both sides of the issue: Looks/Personality... Somewhere in the middle on both is a good starting point.
Does that make any sense?
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