I'm saying that you're putting it out there in a far too obvious way and that isn't attractive. Teasing is alot more gentle than that. belive me I've been teased more than once in my life
As for being in control? Well if you're showering with your house door essentially open then I think you wouldn't find yourself in control if some guy or guys took you up on your invitation. You say you want to provoke these things in other threads so ok....go ahead get yourself raped darlin'. But our little fantasy world we have here is alot nicer than the real thing.