Actually I love being hit and scratched and so on. I like spontaneity so I usually prefer "holding down". But I do like her hands tied behind her back, for whatever reason.
I wonder why bondage is usually connected with sadomasochism. I love hurting and being hurt, but I'm not into the whole bondage aspect really. Why can't we have whips without the chains?
I do find Japanese rope bondage fascinating but not sexually, more as a kind of art.
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