I missed you original post sashm so not sure if the question is how ppl deal with hurt?
If I may ill give an input in how I deal, I have these brilliant pills, that sweep all cares and concerns away. However the downside is if I miss taking them all my previous hurt, and worries reappear, so I must pack them down again to live in a respectable way here. I also find it very easy to forgive, no idea why, noticed some ppl hold grudges, but me.. altho I don't exuse the behavour, I always work it out with them, and then none of it bothers me anymore.
I believe holding onto hurt, hat eand anger does a person no good, and at the end of the day only poisons that persons mind. Its way easier to let it flow and be easy going.
I kinda have a lot of experience in my real life with a person who holds onto every bit of hate they've received or dished out, and I don t ever wanna be as posioned and hateful as him.
If this wasn't the original question, my apologies.
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