I prefer being held down. My fantasies often involve a man who is at least twice my size with huge hands so my struggling is virtually useless. One hand holding my wrists over my head while the other hand is effortlessly ripping my clothes. When I watch Live with Kelly and Mike and they come out on stage, his one hand would cover her entire chest...like that! (If I were Kelly, I'd be thinking that very thing
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Although, with my hands bound behind me making my boobs push up through my top, that can be nice too!