Snale, you got to be more smooth and laid back than that! Remember, in this day and age most girls think every guy out there is a rapist mass murderer, so you have to ease your way in. You were in a bar, good way to make further contact would be to watch to see what she's drinking and then buy her another one and send it over with the bartender with your compliments. See what her reaction is and if she responds positively go from there! You come across smooth and suave that way and not overeager/obnoxious
