Definitly to be HELD DOWN because I feel a real man does not need to use rope or other restraints to hold a woman down. I love the raw power being held down brings and to feel the strength in his arms as he squeezes my wrists and and pins them to the bed (or wall or whatever).
I've never been tied up and dont want to cause' of what I said above and also cause' it probably takes too much damn time anyways. Thats my opinion