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Originally Posted by Fae
It's not any easier as the girlfriend/victim fetish. How do you say: I want you to come home when I'm not expecting you, with a ski mask on, and force me to have sex with you however you want it. Oh and maybe use a rope to choke me while you're doing it. You're welcome to bring a few friends and make it a party.
Worse is laying it out like that will either repulse the guy or turn him on . . . either way it makes me feel like I orchestrated it, so I was the one in control, and that Really defeats the purpose.
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I can't imagine any guys being straight out repulsed by it. (Well, by all I should really say most.)
Maybe it's just because I partake in rape fantasy that I think that though.
Or maybe it's just because I try to be super open minded. For example, I find scat/ws disgusting, but if a girl told me that's what she was into, I wouldn't like think any less of her or anything. (I wouldn't do it with her either though lol.)
It seems to me that breaching the subject as a guy would be much more difficult. "Hi honey, I want to pretend to rape you. Put a little fight into it please!"
But I probably just think that since I'm a guy.
And as for the having the power by asking for it thing, I had never thought of that before... Does kind of make it difficult for the victim lol.