Sex OR violence
 

No I'm asking you to choose, but I am wondering what you think. If I had to choose between the sex and the violence, I'd choose the violence. I'd sooner beat her up and make her cry than fuck her. She's just another girl right? Why should I pleasure her? I'd sooner punch her cunt than fuck it. This is what turns me on, sure she may be pretty, clever, dressed the way I like. Great. But it's the tears that get me hard, not her naked flesh, so what is the point in sex? Just as easy to have a wank after - gives me more time for violence. :)

Probably less time if you get caught as well.....just a thought.

I'd have to go with violence as well. Most of my fantasies revolve around dominating, humiliating and torturing a victim, rather than just being focused on fucking her. Often, the actual rape is more of an afterthought. For instance, I'll be fantasizing about hanging a girl from the ceiling by her wrists, whipping her repeatedly with a belt, shocking her with a stun gun, putting clover clamps on her nipples and hanging weights off them...and then I get to thinking "huh, I guess I should probably fuck this bitch at some point".

BOTH :P But I agree, the fucking should be in conjunction with, not the main focus...I would want my attacker(s) to take me to the farthest edge without pushing me off the cliff ;) I like the way Unblinking Eye thinks....

Same here- the violence is what does it, and the actual rape is just a fun release that makes it even more degrading to her. But I would enjoy beating on and emotionally abusing her and jerking off to the memory a ton. Fucking girls who aren't fully wet is chafing as hell, but beating girls who don't want it is the same as pummeling one who does.

sex is secondary.
im just not interested unless theres some intrinsic element of domination, control , infliction of pain and degradation. complete power over this person.
having the ability to take there life away from them even if your so inclined to do so.
i like when theres an actual element of fear and shame in there eyes and they dont know wether your going to calm down and stop or keep hurting them in the way in which they secretly deserve and crave within there fucked up minds, a real desire to hurt and inflict pain. a real hatred and contempt for another person expressed through brutish violence and degradation. not vanilla s and m. straight hurt. i like watching women bleed,

As with most of the other respondents, it is the violence for me. In that I would not just include the initial struggle and beating needed to subdue and dominate her, but the hours and perhaps days/weeks of slow physical and psychological torture I submit her to. Since the torture can last much longer, it can engender more of a feeling of hopelessness in the victim.

Also the buzz I feel when I torture her is less intense but longer lasting compared to what I feel when I am raping her. Even with an optimistic assessment of my sexual staying power, the sex is only a fraction of time spent engaged with her. So if I had to pick one or the other it would be the violence.

Nothingistrue and Makethemcry.....ya'll are making me hot :P

Which make me hot.

The sex for me. The violence (beating to a pulp, bleeding other than small cuts or split lip) is a turn off.