Make her cum or cry?
 

Here is a question for all you guys and girls, during consensual role-play would you consider it a bigger acheivement to make her cum or make her cry? Would love to know from both attackers and victims side.

Personally although I would like to see both for me it's cry every time!

Cum

Agreed - make her cum. But not too fast. Make her wait for it.

making me cry is no great achievement, but making me cum takes (a little) more work ;)

Cum.

Crying is an expected reaction in a rape; but for body to betray her sense of morality and cum from being violated...THAT is the greatest moment of satisfaction ;)

Definitely cum - I wouldn't want to give them the satisfaction of knowing I'm enjoying it but my body says otherwise...

I would rather make her cry. A sick fuck I am lol

I bet I could make you cum so hard you'd cry :skull-evi

Yeah, why not both. ;)

I'm going to go with cum.. while she is crying :)

I'm not really into the idea of the victim cumming. I'd rather be made to cry and whimper. Not difficult, I gotta admit.

It's easy to make a girl cry... I am quite an emotional person and it doesn't take much to make me cry. So, a challenge would be preferable.

I think making her cry in shame while she is cumming is quite a feat.

I don't roleplay in reality. But I am pretty pleased whenever I can make a girl actually cum, yes we can tell when you fake it...you girls are a lot more tricky to please down under, and to be honest I get lazy....

I may be the odd ball here but I'm one of the ones who's body will react whether I want it to or not. Worst sex I ever had, and it was really bad, my body still reacted. The guy was sure I loved it even though he made my skin crawl. Frankly getting me to cum is the easy part.

A few guys I have been with have been able to get me to cry. I'm a fairly strong personality and a fighter, it takes getting me to break down and feel really vulnerable to get me to cry and oh my it takes me forever to come back to myself afterwards. It's more of a challenge to make a strong woman cry than to make a slut cum. :p

Cry.
She shouldn't enjoy it too much if it's supposed to be rape. When she's cumming it's more like casual sex - no fun at all ;).

promises, promises Hunter! lol!

Are you promising me to let me? :)

if i let you, it wouldn't be rape, now would it?

That is true.

I don't know if this has already been said, but in my fantasies, she cries because she is cumming.

I'm going to be the sad one to throw it out there that I've never cum, so it'd be something to have it happen for the first time while I'm being violated, hm? But since I don't know what I'm missing out on, I still vote cry :P

that all depends which hole your in & how your doing it to make her cum or cry.
you could do both

it all depends on the right moment & situation :skull-thu

Definitely a greater achievement to make her cum, but I'm going to have to agree with all those people who want to make 'em cry. For me, this is a key part of the fantasy.

i so agree to that!

Depends on the girl, - if I respect her, I want her to cum, cum cum. Otherwise, cry.

Can't we have both???

This actually happened to me. Teenage hormones all messing me up, I was horny every minute for like four days. I kept masturbating and masturbating and it got so sore that eventually it hurt to cum. I was lying there in my bedroom cumming and sobbing and the sensation was incredible.

I think that's when I found out that I liked sexual pain and crying. I wouldn't do it to myself on purpose but now I love the thought of someone else doing it to me.

Make her cry in shame as she cums.

Cum or cry
 

I agree completely with Fae...I too am very strong willed and fear an attacker (s) would grow bored before breaking my will to tears...but once in tears, the ultimate would be being forced to cum for them...

Cum first...........cry after..................sweet

I don't know, in my fantasies its all about me, so I don't want her to cum. I am going to cum in her, a lot and she's going to cry, a lot.

I do not care, her orgasms are meaningless to me. I'm raping the chick, not taking her out for dinner.
It's the psychological reactions which matter most.

I'd prefer to be crying. If I want to come I'll "make love" or something equally tame. Rape is about trauma. If I'm not hurt or upset enough to be crying then you arn't doing it right.

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As usual PF you have hit it right on the head. The only person cumming in my rapes is me. My preference is lots of crying from my victim. That's one of the things I'm looking for. Raping is all about controlling and forcing the victim. If she cums while I'm raping her that is just a coincidence. When I cum in her that's what I'm after and her crying is one of the things that gets me there. :skull-bee

Crying

Cry. I want pain and humiliation, not her on the verge of liking it.

Not that I have ever experienced this for myself...but some women claim to cum so easily that it is not a sign of enjoyment per se, just her body reacting to the friction.


In some of my fantasies, I would be held captive and forced to cum after many many many rapes as a final humiliation. If it's done as a cum or I kill you type of scene, I don't see it as enjoyment. Unfortunately for me, it takes forever :(

Cry, because to me if a girl starts cuming then its no longer rape

Cum OR cry? I want both... Lots of both.

I like to cry while I fight, but always love cumming, so BOTH!!