The most arousing part of rape
 

There are many different acts going on in rape, which one is the most arousing for you?

i.e.
For the rapist, what do you like doing to the victim the most?
For the victim, what do you like to have the rapist do to you the most?

:skull-bee

So much you have missed out and you have focused on what the attacker does. Although the pleasure is all mine, what I find most arousing are her tears.

I'm going to agree here. I'm thinking this is far too complex of a subject for a simple poll. I really can't explain it but some of the subjects you suggest are violent in a physical way and somehow they don't make it into my fantasies. Does that make me a gentile rapist? Not sure. I just found the poll to somehow be lacking in something that really gets my to pick one of the choices.

I think it's ok now.

Thanks for the input anyway. :)

I'm not saying it should be deleted. I just think there are far more variables in the fantasy than a poll could cover. I've read through most of the posts in here and this is one hell of a complex fantasy.

Xavior, there is no need for the thread to be deleted as it's a valid and relevant theme. Just the options are limited and some people may wish to expand further.

"Other": Being physically overpowered; intimidated sexually, physically and psychologically.
The crushing weight of being held down, absolute power over the victim expressed in the form of violent lust.

For me the most arousing part is, when the woman finally gives in. when her resistance is broken and she realizes theres nothing she can (or wants to) do against it and you can do anything you want with her.

Its the dirty words and verbalisation of the aggression for me. Intimidation and so on. I'm not a girl (I promise) but I'm very sure a guy calling you a "dirty fucking whore" as he nails you isn't great for self esteem.....unless you happen to be into that kind of thing eh girls? ;)

I voted for tying and gagging. Think I know I'm completely helpless and no-one will hear my cries

It's a tough one. I went for tying and gagging (*leers at Linzi and salivates a bit*), but I think chasing a woman is pretty much equal to that. The idea of her running in horror, taking one wrong turn, finding herself in a dead end and cowering in fear as I approach her with cuffs and gag in hand...

THAT'S hot.

Being made to do something I don't want to do by someone I don't want to do it to me.

Thats more arousing than any individual part. Even though I don't want to do it or have it done, its a turn on because thats the way my brain works and makes me feel. Its hard to explain.

But out of the list the dirty words will be my answer. They don't have to be "dirty" though, just degrading. Degrading words and actions can make an average scene extremely arousing.

The crying and begging gets me everytime. Oh please don't hurt me,i'll do anything you want. Music too my ears.:skull-evi:skull-evi

Tied and gagged it is then. No need for some hero to come in and save you after all.

i voted grabbing cause my fav thing is holding her down or sontrolling what she does with my physical actions

Being physically overpowered. Tying is for sissies.

For the benefit of the poll I voted for grabbing, but as many others have previously stated, I find that rape is far to complicated to say one specific thing that turns me on. For one thing, it is most certainly the taboo of it that helps. When we know something to be wrong (such as actual rape) the thought of it as pleasurable gives that 'naughty' sensation. For me, it only helps to further my own arousal knowing just how wrong it is.

Of course I love the physical force, that feeling of helplessness. I am completely at his will and for his pleasure. There is something so freeing about being a captive. No longer would I need to worry about all of my responsibilities and worries because now I am the pet of my Master. Of course there would be constant ploys for freedom, but now I only have one stress and that is escape.

The sexual aspect that arouses me is the raw physicality of it. It is a fight to not be dominated, it is putting all your energy into that one moment and receiving all of there's. Crying, biting, begging, scratching, screaming, punching, ravishing....I am aroused by it all and that's only some of what I can think of, and that is only scratching the surface. I know that many of the elements of rape that are so alluring is something I just cant even begin to fathom or explain.

I'm thinking tying and ring gagging ..*slow evil grin*

Indeed it is. *daydreams*

Very well-worded.
These sorts of desires are so hard to understand, and even harder to put into words, are they not?
And when you say,
"There is something so freeing about being a captive", well, that one sentence comes pretty damn close to summing it all up just by itself.

Are you a writer, by any chance?
If not, you should give it a try...that kind of eloquence would work well in the context of fiction.

For me it is the raw force and struggle, the passion of holding her down with my weight, my hand pressed cruelly over her soft lips, my knee bruising her soft thighs as I force her open for me.

For me it is the way she writhes and bucks under me, the desperate, aroused, terrified look in her eyes, the cries and wild pleas muffled under my hand. Taking from her the power of speech, reducing her to a hot, trembling, squirming animal beneath me. The feeling of her soft lips under my hand as I hold her captive and take her.

For me it is the muffled little shriek she makes when I penetrate her, the way her body squeezes me.

For me it is the squirming of her, her soft, soft breasts rubbing across my chest.

For me it is the sensation of pressing her down into the mattress or the sofa, covering her and crushing her, sweating and fucking her. She may be writhing under me like a wild thing, but she can't get me out of her.

For me it is the buildup, that date that starts to go wrong, the way her pleas of "no, stop it" get more and more excited and alarmed as it becomes clear what I want and that I'm not going to stop. The way my hand squeezing her soft breasts or sliding between her thighs puts some fight into her.

For me it is the electric joy of kissing her against her will. Forcing my hot, moist mouth on hers. Muffling any protests. My hand in her hair to hold her still. Ravaging her, taking what I want.

For me it is the thrusting, the wild urgency, the pounding into her, the feeling of being raw and alive and feeling her raw and alive and bucking under me.

For me it is my whisper at her ear, the soft touch of my lips by her neck as I call her things, exercising my power over her. "Little girl." Or "little cunt." Or simply the fierce, drawn-out groan, "Mine."

Squirming yet, ladies? :D

//Ravish