Who do you talk to about rape fantasies?
I have never once mentioned to anyone that I have rape fantasies. This is the only place I ever talk about it.
So my question is...do you ever talk to anybody about rape fantasies in real life? How many men here talk about their fantasies with their friends? How about women? |
I did once talk to my boyfriend about it, we had a half hearted attempt at roleplay. I guess he thought I was weird
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Sadly no, but I would love to talk to some one in real life, but for now I will have to make do on here.
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Rape date, of course. Although now I know her better, there's not much need for talking, just doing. :)
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I once did talk to my ex bf about my fantasies - he did not really care about what kind of sex I wanted as long as he got it. He jumped right in and to a certain degree, I regret it to this very day that I shared with him my thoughts.
But I have to admit it was my fault as I went too far too quick and he simply complied to my thoughts. We probably should have talked more, lol. |
Was he fat?
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Could be.
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I don't know anyone in real life who wouldn't freak the hell out if I told them. :(
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Though actually the only time I revealed the extent of my rape fetish it was disastrous in the opposite way - he was very freaked out. We broke up soon after and I'm pretty sure knowing I was into rapey sex was part of it. My last ex-bf did know I had a bit of a submissive side (that's hard to hide) but I never let slip how twisted my fantasies actually get. |
Like previous poster on here, this is the only place where I can really be myself and say my feeling about rape and discuss it in fantasy, no one in real life sadly
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I moved the last part of this thread to the rowdy room. Lets stay on track here.
However feel free to visit the other part of the thread to continue the slugfest :) http://www.rapeboard.com/showthread.php?t=169395 |
After reading the above I guess I was one of the lucky ones. I was married for 33 years and up until I was divorced back in 2008 we had an exceptionally good sexual relationship which included both BDSM and rape fantasies, we had great sex everywhere and anywhere we could. We used to drive out to deserted places and take ropes and toys with us so that we could act out our fantasies together, we were always happy to design and create each others fantasies and build on them to make them better for the next time. Sadly those days are gone now, I am very happy in a new relationship with no regrets but I do realise now that she was a very very special woman.
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Each other, and that's good, but sadly not involving "strangers" makes it a bit less fun.
Robert & Ann Mia |
I have only ever talked to one person about this...and I never even met them in real life. I shudder to think what would happen if people in my life found out about this aspect of my life. This part of me is literally a hundred eighty degrees from my actual personality. In real life, I am very respectful of women. When I was in college, women would show up at my dorm room drunk because they knew I would take them back to their rooms without trying anything. I once had a girl show up - completely sober - saying she was thinking, thinking about a scary movie she had watched and asking if she could stay with me. I slept on the floor, she slept in my bed. No, I am not making this up.
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I sometimes talk about it with my bf, he respects it, but he is just not a dominant person... So we never actually do anything about it:)
RB is the perfect place for me to talk about it, I can read and wright about my fantasies, and settle with that .. |
Talk about it isn`t easy :(
So i search on the net but there is most vanilla stuff. Where are all these extreme forums everybody is warned in the media :) |
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So yeah, there's risk for us. But isn't that at least part of the reason we are all here on RB? It's like our safe zone in a way. :-) |
Yes RB provides a firewall if you will between people. They are free to explore their thoughts, fantasies with each other.
There is stuff here I discuss in public & private that would be hard to explain with some of the women I've met in my life. The women absolutely have a harder time in real life discussing rape fantasies with their men. I could see where they would be afraid to open up to some men. And while men don't really have to worry about be ravaged by a women, although I have had this thought ;) We still have to be careful. Discussing this with the wrong woman could get you in hot water . Or at the very least labeled a sick pervert who only wants to rape women. Quote:
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I am a sick pervert that only wants to rape women! ;)
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