Flirting Q's for the men
 

I have a sort of weekly meeting with this guy and recently we had to rearrange a time, so he told me to meet him at his house and call before I get there, which I have done many times before. So I call and say "Is it ok if I come by in about 20min?" to which he replies in a drawn out tone, "Yeah... you can come here" Now, I've been there many times before... I know I can "go" there.

Is this innuendo or am I reading into it? And when you're talking with a woman that you're really attracted to, how likely is it that you'll flirt with her? And how do you flirt?

It is difficult to tell if it is inuendo or flirting through text. a million different tiny inflections have to be heard to understand that.

I will flirt with someone I am talking too. Not shamelessly and its never more than just playful banter.

IRL i flirt some , sometimes i'm hoping it leads to something , sometimes it's just for fun . if it means something i'll say things a certain way , hint at what i'm doing and why i'm doing it . nothing overt of course , but it's different than just "flirting" . the way it's done is with a different voice , alot of eye contact or touching with it , things like that ...

i'd say as a rule ... if you think it means something it prolly does .

Maradona with women...
 

Thanks guys! I'm still not sure, but it's fun anyway ;)

It is a little complicated but generally it is all about vibes and they cannot be explained.

In general though i tend to be more blatant depending on the alcohol level of whatever girl im talking to ! :D

True and I also find that if the chemistry's real strong, it's almost impossible NOT to flirt

Not sure if your guy was being suggestive or not, but I always am. If I'm even mildly attracted, I'll turn on the charm and the wit... sometimes without even realizing it...

True story... (I always like to preface ones that might not be believed... )

My ex gf, her 16 year old daughter, and I were at a Casino on Nevada... just to have dinner, which is ok for underage kids to be at... and it was a really fancy buffet... so, as we went for desert, a really cute Latino girl was serving. I asked for a slice of a certain dessert... "May I have a slice of that cake?" I asked politely and smiled.

"Honey," she replied back, "you can have anything you want."



So... I smiled broadly, offered my plate, and noticed the blush on her cheeks and the twinkle in her eyes...

Back at the table, my girlfriend says "I think that girl was flirting with you."

"Yep," I agreed.

"Well," she asked, "does that make you uncomfortable."

"Hell," I answered matter-of-factly, "I'm used to it."

Well, with that I thought her daughter was going to swallow her fork. Her mom looked at me... deadly serious...

"I'm not sure how I feel," she said, "I think I'm jealous... I've never had a man I had to be jealous about before..."

SO... (SO)... sometimes there is a certain amount of "charisma" and "chemistry" between people that can not be masked or hidden... the "secret" is what we choose to do with it. I, of course, carried the game no further... and naturally went home with the woman I came with...

But it does strike an interesting question... and that is how do you respond when you know there is a chemistry there... because sometimes it can literally permeate the very air between you. Do you wish and wonder and linger on the moment or do you simply move on?

Interesting how I lie when nobody thinks they know me ! LOL I am such a fucking dick!