Who do you talk to about rape fantasies?
I have never once mentioned to anyone that I have rape fantasies. This is the only place I ever talk about it.
So my question is...do you ever talk to anybody about rape fantasies in real life? How many men here talk about their fantasies with their friends? How about women? |
I did once talk to my boyfriend about it, we had a half hearted attempt at roleplay. I guess he thought I was weird
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Sadly no, but I would love to talk to some one in real life, but for now I will have to make do on here.
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Rape date, of course. Although now I know her better, there's not much need for talking, just doing. :)
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I once did talk to my ex bf about my fantasies - he did not really care about what kind of sex I wanted as long as he got it. He jumped right in and to a certain degree, I regret it to this very day that I shared with him my thoughts.
But I have to admit it was my fault as I went too far too quick and he simply complied to my thoughts. We probably should have talked more, lol. |
Was he fat?
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Could be.
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I don't know anyone in real life who wouldn't freak the hell out if I told them. :(
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Though actually the only time I revealed the extent of my rape fetish it was disastrous in the opposite way - he was very freaked out. We broke up soon after and I'm pretty sure knowing I was into rapey sex was part of it. My last ex-bf did know I had a bit of a submissive side (that's hard to hide) but I never let slip how twisted my fantasies actually get. |
Like previous poster on here, this is the only place where I can really be myself and say my feeling about rape and discuss it in fantasy, no one in real life sadly
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I moved the last part of this thread to the rowdy room. Lets stay on track here.
However feel free to visit the other part of the thread to continue the slugfest :) http://www.rapeboard.com/showthread.php?t=169395 |
After reading the above I guess I was one of the lucky ones. I was married for 33 years and up until I was divorced back in 2008 we had an exceptionally good sexual relationship which included both BDSM and rape fantasies, we had great sex everywhere and anywhere we could. We used to drive out to deserted places and take ropes and toys with us so that we could act out our fantasies together, we were always happy to design and create each others fantasies and build on them to make them better for the next time. Sadly those days are gone now, I am very happy in a new relationship with no regrets but I do realise now that she was a very very special woman.
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Each other, and that's good, but sadly not involving "strangers" makes it a bit less fun.
Robert & Ann Mia |
I have only ever talked to one person about this...and I never even met them in real life. I shudder to think what would happen if people in my life found out about this aspect of my life. This part of me is literally a hundred eighty degrees from my actual personality. In real life, I am very respectful of women. When I was in college, women would show up at my dorm room drunk because they knew I would take them back to their rooms without trying anything. I once had a girl show up - completely sober - saying she was thinking, thinking about a scary movie she had watched and asking if she could stay with me. I slept on the floor, she slept in my bed. No, I am not making this up.
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I sometimes talk about it with my bf, he respects it, but he is just not a dominant person... So we never actually do anything about it:)
RB is the perfect place for me to talk about it, I can read and wright about my fantasies, and settle with that .. |
Talk about it isn`t easy :(
So i search on the net but there is most vanilla stuff. Where are all these extreme forums everybody is warned in the media :) |
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So yeah, there's risk for us. But isn't that at least part of the reason we are all here on RB? It's like our safe zone in a way. :-) |
Yes RB provides a firewall if you will between people. They are free to explore their thoughts, fantasies with each other.
There is stuff here I discuss in public & private that would be hard to explain with some of the women I've met in my life. The women absolutely have a harder time in real life discussing rape fantasies with their men. I could see where they would be afraid to open up to some men. And while men don't really have to worry about be ravaged by a women, although I have had this thought ;) We still have to be careful. Discussing this with the wrong woman could get you in hot water . Or at the very least labeled a sick pervert who only wants to rape women. Quote:
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I am a sick pervert that only wants to rape women! ;)
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My wife knows. We've roleplayed and she's into it, but then again, we used to be active in the local BDSM scene until the babies started arriving, so she's pretty much a "I'll try anything once" type. And she has had sex with other women before, experimentally, so she can understand the dynamics of power play from either side.
But aside from Mrs. Kink, I've not told anyone my fantasies using my real name, just online and anonymous. It's one of those things that can boomerang. "Officer, he was talking about hogtying his lady boss and sodomizing her with a Roto-Rooter just before (SCENE MISSING) ... I'm concerned, officer." |
I've told strippers and rub and tug girls. When role playing with them I was reluctant at first, I started with terms like slavegirl, had them tell me how much they like being my slave, to much they like being my property, to getting them calling themselves my slut/whore, light spankings, to rape fantasies, to adult incest fantasies, drinking my pee, her fucking horses (all role playing). I've had any freak outs, and I've shared this fantasy with alot of strippers and MPAs (Message Parlour Attendants for those of you who aren't hobbyists, which btw is the term many johns perfer to call themselves). I shared rape fantasies with at least at least 7 strippers, and I shared it with at least 7 MPAs. Slavegirl fantasies I've shared with even more women. Its nice to have place to go where you can be yourself. And wow where all of them hot too, many with big tits. Fun times.
Advise dip your toes in first, see how comfortable with dirty talk they are and warn them.that taboo topics may come up so it won't be a shock to the system. |
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I had to move to another State to work for about six months and that girl got pissed off waiting. Never seen her again and still I worry if my secret is safe with her. |
Sadly, no one.
I'm desperate to meet someone online who shares my tastes so that I can chat about such fantasies, but I can't find anyone. I'm not interested in chatting to women about this, but other men who have this fantasy, so we can chat and wank about what we would do with celebs and other women. It's sad that most men on masturbation sights are all "holier than thou", and criticise me for my fantasies. |
I have never talk to any one about my feelings of it. NOt of course to my family or to my friends. I do not think that they can understand me. They will just believe that my mind is too crazy or I am so bad.
I dream of having some person who can hear me. I do think if i can talk to someone about it I can stop it from being in my mind so much. |
I have shared my desires with very few people. Guys tell me how I’ll end up in jail just talking about because some bitch will hear and claim I raped them. When I get around to trusting a girl enough to most break up right then. It is something I want to discuss but I can’t afford a therapist so I’m stuck reading stories and talking on the net.
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Usually on here. Oh and I'm back everyone! Sorry for being gone so long.
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I don't wish to minimize the consquences for women that fantasy about being raped if that goes public, its just that I think its important for you to concider the huge danger being exposed is for a guy. That being said I've shared the fantasies with strippers and MPAs and had a blast roleplaying with them. I'm shocked at how many sex workers are completely okay with this fantasy and even seem to get into it. It might help that I'm not scary looking, I look more like a cross between a hobbit and an Shrek. |
Re Who do you talk to about rape fantasies?
I guess I got lucky in a way. It was nothing more then a chance meeting. i was on vacation half way across the country. Walking along the beach I met a couple of girls camping and having a good time. They invited me to join them. We talked about this and that for awhile, but somehow the conversation shifted to sexual fantasies. Surprise, surprise, it was the girls who started that topic. Anyway, I joined in and told them of some of my fantasies. The three of us eventually over time became friends, but sadly, I haven't done anything with either of them, other then share fantasies.
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I've only talked to people on rape websites. I'd rather not tell someone that I know or someone who is not into rape fantasies.
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I've discussed it with a couple of partners. You have to feel them out about it. In early days it was all straight sex. As I got more experience, I've had women bring it up to me, they just leave a book in the bedroom, for example. I have a dark look, most women can tell pretty quick I'm a pervert... I don't usually attract clean cut types unless they have a dark secret. I left a relationship with someone who wasn't into it at all. That wasn't the only reason for leaving but it's one indicator of a mis match. I'm back on here looking for a nice girl who wants to play dirty. I've met two on here before. Chat and phone are a good place to start. There's nothing like the satisfaction of living out one of your sexual fantasies, and if it's a mutual interest, happy days. You have to have that if the relationship is gonna work long term, unless you can get it on the side...
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Hello All, i love to chat here about most anything, not into beast,scat. My email is lockcall01@yahoo.com
i have had a little success here. |
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I have been very lucky to have found 2 significant others that share the interest. |
I told my wife cuz she said she was open to everything and she seemed at first but big mistake... uses it against me all the time
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