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HoldHerOpen 01-04-2015 09:30 PM

Who do you talk to about rape fantasies?
 
I have never once mentioned to anyone that I have rape fantasies. This is the only place I ever talk about it.

So my question is...do you ever talk to anybody about rape fantasies in real life?

How many men here talk about their fantasies with their friends?

How about women?

nursewhore 01-04-2015 09:32 PM

I did once talk to my boyfriend about it, we had a half hearted attempt at roleplay. I guess he thought I was weird

Wife2rape 01-05-2015 01:43 AM

Sadly no, but I would love to talk to some one in real life, but for now I will have to make do on here.

FuckingRotter 01-06-2015 04:13 AM

Rape date, of course. Although now I know her better, there's not much need for talking, just doing. :)

Bambi3 01-06-2015 11:44 AM

I once did talk to my ex bf about my fantasies - he did not really care about what kind of sex I wanted as long as he got it. He jumped right in and to a certain degree, I regret it to this very day that I shared with him my thoughts.
But I have to admit it was my fault as I went too far too quick and he simply complied to my thoughts. We probably should have talked more, lol.

FuckingRotter 01-06-2015 11:59 AM

Was he fat?

Bambi3 01-08-2015 01:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FuckingRotter (Post 1456589)
Was he fat?

No, he wasn't. Maybe a bad choice!

FuckingRotter 01-08-2015 03:14 PM

Could be.

Kypris 02-22-2015 09:52 AM

I don't know anyone in real life who wouldn't freak the hell out if I told them. :(

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bambi3 (Post 1456588)
I once did talk to my ex bf about my fantasies - he did not really care about what kind of sex I wanted as long as he got it. He jumped right in and to a certain degree, I regret it to this very day that I shared with him my thoughts.
But I have to admit it was my fault as I went too far too quick and he simply complied to my thoughts. We probably should have talked more, lol.

This is one of my fears, that I will reveal this kink of mine to a partner only to have him take advantage of it. Either by taking it as license to take whatever he wants over my protests or by threatening to tell people. Fantasizing about this exact scenario gets me super wet but having someone hold this over me in real life would be unbearable.

Though actually the only time I revealed the extent of my rape fetish it was disastrous in the opposite way - he was very freaked out. We broke up soon after and I'm pretty sure knowing I was into rapey sex was part of it. My last ex-bf did know I had a bit of a submissive side (that's hard to hide) but I never let slip how twisted my fantasies actually get.

Wife2rape 02-22-2015 10:23 AM

Like previous poster on here, this is the only place where I can really be myself and say my feeling about rape and discuss it in fantasy, no one in real life sadly

Crotch_Ripper 02-24-2015 05:01 AM

I moved the last part of this thread to the rowdy room. Lets stay on track here.

However feel free to visit the other part of the thread to continue the slugfest :)

http://www.rapeboard.com/showthread.php?t=169395

Blackfive 02-24-2015 08:05 AM

After reading the above I guess I was one of the lucky ones. I was married for 33 years and up until I was divorced back in 2008 we had an exceptionally good sexual relationship which included both BDSM and rape fantasies, we had great sex everywhere and anywhere we could. We used to drive out to deserted places and take ropes and toys with us so that we could act out our fantasies together, we were always happy to design and create each others fantasies and build on them to make them better for the next time. Sadly those days are gone now, I am very happy in a new relationship with no regrets but I do realise now that she was a very very special woman.

Robert V 02-25-2015 06:24 AM

Each other, and that's good, but sadly not involving "strangers" makes it a bit less fun.

Robert & Ann Mia

dokturok 03-02-2015 11:02 AM

I have only ever talked to one person about this...and I never even met them in real life. I shudder to think what would happen if people in my life found out about this aspect of my life. This part of me is literally a hundred eighty degrees from my actual personality. In real life, I am very respectful of women. When I was in college, women would show up at my dorm room drunk because they knew I would take them back to their rooms without trying anything. I once had a girl show up - completely sober - saying she was thinking, thinking about a scary movie she had watched and asking if she could stay with me. I slept on the floor, she slept in my bed. No, I am not making this up.

Marilyn 03-07-2015 04:46 PM

I sometimes talk about it with my bf, he respects it, but he is just not a dominant person... So we never actually do anything about it:)
RB is the perfect place for me to talk about it, I can read and wright about my fantasies, and settle with that ..

7vorsale 03-10-2015 05:35 PM

Talk about it isn`t easy :(
So i search on the net but there is most vanilla stuff.
Where are all these extreme forums everybody is warned in the media :)

MissyB 03-24-2015 09:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kypris (Post 1466868)
I don't know anyone in real life who wouldn't freak the hell out if I told them. :(


This is one of my fears, that I will reveal this kink of mine to a partner only to have him take advantage of it. Either by taking it as license to take whatever he wants over my protests or by threatening to tell people. Fantasizing about this exact scenario gets me super wet but having someone hold this over me in real life would be unbearable.

Though actually the only time I revealed the extent of my rape fetish it was disastrous in the opposite way - he was very freaked out. We broke up soon after and I'm pretty sure knowing I was into rapey sex was part of it. My last ex-bf did know I had a bit of a submissive side (that's hard to hide) but I never let slip how twisted my fantasies actually get.

This is why I feel it's so risky for us ladies. You don't want the guy to take advantage of the admission but the other side of that would be that they wouldn't understand and might think you're some kind of freak. I had read an article about this subject in a magazine. The woman mentioned to her BF that she wanted him to rape her (fantasy, not for real) and they would have a safe word. Well, one night after they were at a party and returned to their hotel room, he pushed her down on the bed and took it from her. She said no but he thought that was part of it. Afterwards, she told him that's not what she wanted but she took some responsibility over the miscommunication. He became very upset despite her not blaming him. They broke up after that weekend.

So yeah, there's risk for us. But isn't that at least part of the reason we are all here on RB? It's like our safe zone in a way. :-)

Crotch_Ripper 03-24-2015 09:55 AM

Yes RB provides a firewall if you will between people. They are free to explore their thoughts, fantasies with each other.

There is stuff here I discuss in public & private that would be hard to explain with some of the women I've met in my life.

The women absolutely have a harder time in real life discussing rape fantasies with their men. I could see where they would be afraid to open up to some men.

And while men don't really have to worry about be ravaged by a women, although I have had this thought ;)

We still have to be careful. Discussing this with the wrong woman could get you in hot water . Or at the very least labeled a sick pervert who only wants to rape women.


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Originally Posted by MissyB (Post 1475104)
This is why I feel it's so risky for us ladies. You don't want the guy to take advantage of the admission but the other side of that would be that they wouldn't understand and might think you're some kind of freak. I had read an article about this subject in a magazine. The woman mentioned to her BF that she wanted him to rape her (fantasy, not for real) and they would have a safe word. Well, one night after they were at a party and returned to their hotel room, he pushed her down on the bed and took it from her. She said no but he thought that was part of it. Afterwards, she told him that's not what she wanted but she took some responsibility over the miscommunication. He became very upset despite her not blaming him. They broke up after that weekend.

So yeah, there's risk for us. But isn't that at least part of the reason we are all here on RB? It's like our safe zone in a way. :-)


justmetoo 03-24-2015 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Crotch_Ripper (Post 1475109)
We still have to be careful. Discussing this with the wrong woman could get you in hot water . Or at the very least labeled a sick pervert who only wants to rape women.

I've actually had this conversation with a lady I thought I knew quite well as we had an extended sexual relationship. She freaked out and won't ever see me again. That I understand. But in addition she has taken steps so that if anything would happen to her I'd be the number one suspect. So yeah, be careful. Think it through again because you do not know how someone might react.

FuckingRotter 03-24-2015 11:17 AM

I am a sick pervert that only wants to rape women! ;)

Crotch_Ripper 03-24-2015 12:01 PM

:)

MissyB 03-24-2015 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by justmetoo (Post 1475111)
I've actually had this conversation with a lady I thought I knew quite well as we had an extended sexual relationship. She freaked out and won't ever see me again. That I understand. But in addition she has taken steps so that if anything would happen to her I'd be the number one suspect. So yeah, be careful. Think it through again because you do not know how someone might react.

I can see, too, how this is risky for men. I know women can be fickle and we make it hard on guys, sometimes. It's like we expect you to know without accurately and thoroughly explaining what it is we want, or you get mixed signals. I feel sorry for guys who honestly get caught up in some mess they truly did not ask for. And I'm not talking strictly about fantasies, it can be anything. Guys have to protect themselves as well from the mental cases out there.

Col. Kink 05-10-2015 08:30 AM

My wife knows. We've roleplayed and she's into it, but then again, we used to be active in the local BDSM scene until the babies started arriving, so she's pretty much a "I'll try anything once" type. And she has had sex with other women before, experimentally, so she can understand the dynamics of power play from either side.

But aside from Mrs. Kink, I've not told anyone my fantasies using my real name, just online and anonymous. It's one of those things that can boomerang. "Officer, he was talking about hogtying his lady boss and sodomizing her with a Roto-Rooter just before (SCENE MISSING) ... I'm concerned, officer."

Omegaphallic 05-30-2015 06:49 PM

I've told strippers and rub and tug girls. When role playing with them I was reluctant at first, I started with terms like slavegirl, had them tell me how much they like being my slave, to much they like being my property, to getting them calling themselves my slut/whore, light spankings, to rape fantasies, to adult incest fantasies, drinking my pee, her fucking horses (all role playing). I've had any freak outs, and I've shared this fantasy with alot of strippers and MPAs (Message Parlour Attendants for those of you who aren't hobbyists, which btw is the term many johns perfer to call themselves). I shared rape fantasies with at least at least 7 strippers, and I shared it with at least 7 MPAs. Slavegirl fantasies I've shared with even more women. Its nice to have place to go where you can be yourself. And wow where all of them hot too, many with big tits. Fun times.

Advise dip your toes in first, see how comfortable with dirty talk they are and warn them.that taboo topics may come up so it won't be a shock to the system.

bigal 06-08-2015 08:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kypris (Post 1466868)
...This is one of my fears, that I will reveal this kink of mine to a partner only to have him take advantage of it. Either by taking it as license to take whatever he wants over my protests or by threatening to tell people....

All that. I had one girlfriend years ago who I partly confided in, and even at that I just said I liked to dominate/have a compliant sex partner. I never mentioned the "R" word, but she just knew what it was I wanted. She was great and played along and we had great sex for the few months we were together.
I had to move to another State to work for about six months and that girl got pissed off waiting. Never seen her again and still I worry if my secret is safe with her.

UK_ThighLover 06-22-2015 12:30 PM

Sadly, no one.

I'm desperate to meet someone online who shares my tastes so that I can chat about such fantasies, but I can't find anyone.

I'm not interested in chatting to women about this, but other men who have this fantasy, so we can chat and wank about what we would do with celebs and other women.

It's sad that most men on masturbation sights are all "holier than thou", and criticise me for my fantasies.

Linh 08-23-2015 03:20 PM

I have never talk to any one about my feelings of it. NOt of course to my family or to my friends. I do not think that they can understand me. They will just believe that my mind is too crazy or I am so bad.
I dream of having some person who can hear me. I do think if i can talk to someone about it I can stop it from being in my mind so much.

Quentin Graves 08-28-2015 05:16 PM

I have shared my desires with very few people. Guys tell me how I’ll end up in jail just talking about because some bitch will hear and claim I raped them. When I get around to trusting a girl enough to most break up right then. It is something I want to discuss but I can’t afford a therapist so I’m stuck reading stories and talking on the net.

Lilitalianprincess 02-15-2016 02:16 PM

Usually on here. Oh and I'm back everyone! Sorry for being gone so long.

BigAssVal 03-05-2016 01:29 AM

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mercmonkey 03-07-2016 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigAssVal (Post 1534945)
It's nearly impossible to talk about such things as a woman. You are either wicked, or have problems. Maybe it is partly true but talking about it in real life just scream trouble so you have to act like a proper person.

True but if you'rea GUY and talk about it you're not just a freak you are a danger.

Omegaphallic 03-08-2016 11:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MissyB (Post 1475104)
This is why I feel it's so risky for us ladies. You don't want the guy to take advantage of the admission but the other side of that would be that they wouldn't understand and might think you're some kind of freak. I had read an article about this subject in a magazine. The woman mentioned to her BF that she wanted him to rape her (fantasy, not for real) and they would have a safe word. Well, one night after they were at a party and returned to their hotel room, he pushed her down on the bed and took it from her. She said no but he thought that was part of it. Afterwards, she told him that's not what she wanted but she took some responsibility over the miscommunication. He became very upset despite her not blaming him. They broke up after that weekend.

So yeah, there's risk for us. But isn't that at least part of the reason we are all here on RB? It's like our safe zone in a way. :-)

That 100% riskier for a guy, at worse people view the female submissive as a victim, you face some public humiliation and being dumped at worst, even if its your fantasy, but as a dominate male, admitting to the wrong person means if they tell other people, peope will look at me like I'm a sex predator, I could face assault or death from White Knights, police harrassment false accusations from soon attention seeking lunatic, job loss extra, so while its bad for you its actually dangerous to my health and survival if anyone found out about my fantasies.

I don't wish to minimize the consquences for women that fantasy about being raped if that goes public, its just that I think its important for you to concider the huge danger being exposed is for a guy.

That being said I've shared the fantasies with strippers and MPAs and had a blast roleplaying with them. I'm shocked at how many sex workers are completely okay with this fantasy and even seem to get into it. It might help that I'm not scary looking, I look more like a cross between a hobbit and an Shrek.

Rape Fantasist 03-19-2016 05:57 AM

Re Who do you talk to about rape fantasies?
 
I guess I got lucky in a way. It was nothing more then a chance meeting. i was on vacation half way across the country. Walking along the beach I met a couple of girls camping and having a good time. They invited me to join them. We talked about this and that for awhile, but somehow the conversation shifted to sexual fantasies. Surprise, surprise, it was the girls who started that topic. Anyway, I joined in and told them of some of my fantasies. The three of us eventually over time became friends, but sadly, I haven't done anything with either of them, other then share fantasies.

Omegaphallic 03-20-2016 07:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dokturok (Post 1468762)
I have only ever talked to one person about this...and I never even met them in real life. I shudder to think what would happen if people in my life found out about this aspect of my life. This part of me is literally a hundred eighty degrees from my actual personality. In real life, I am very respectful of women. When I was in college, women would show up at my dorm room drunk because they knew I would take them back to their rooms without trying anything. I once had a girl show up - completely sober - saying she was thinking, thinking about a scary movie she had watched and asking if she could stay with me. I slept on the floor, she slept in my bed. No, I am not making this up.

Your a bit too nice, I mean having you sleep on the floor while she takes that bed because she had a bad dream sends the message to some women that they can treat you like a door mat. You sound like a nice person and deserve better then that.

WildRider 05-02-2016 01:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Omegaphallic (Post 1535473)
That 100% riskier for a guy, at worse people view the female submissive as a victim, you face some public humiliation and being dumped at worst, even if its your fantasy, but as a dominate male, admitting to the wrong person means if they tell other people, peope will look at me like I'm a sex predator, I could face assault or death from White Knights, police harrassment false accusations from soon attention seeking lunatic, job loss extra, so while its bad for you its actually dangerous to my health and survival if anyone found out about my fantasies..

That sums me up too. I never told anyone about my fantasies, way too much to lose.

the sickness 07-13-2017 02:54 AM

I've only talked to people on rape websites. I'd rather not tell someone that I know or someone who is not into rape fantasies.

Mr_Goodload 01-27-2018 11:08 PM

I've discussed it with a couple of partners. You have to feel them out about it. In early days it was all straight sex. As I got more experience, I've had women bring it up to me, they just leave a book in the bedroom, for example. I have a dark look, most women can tell pretty quick I'm a pervert... I don't usually attract clean cut types unless they have a dark secret. I left a relationship with someone who wasn't into it at all. That wasn't the only reason for leaving but it's one indicator of a mis match. I'm back on here looking for a nice girl who wants to play dirty. I've met two on here before. Chat and phone are a good place to start. There's nothing like the satisfaction of living out one of your sexual fantasies, and if it's a mutual interest, happy days. You have to have that if the relationship is gonna work long term, unless you can get it on the side...

Ltfc01 01-29-2018 04:07 PM

Hello All, i love to chat here about most anything, not into beast,scat. My email is lockcall01@yahoo.com
i have had a little success here.

sakurainvestor 02-19-2018 09:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Omegaphallic (Post 1535473)
That being said I've shared the fantasies with strippers and MPAs and had a blast roleplaying with them. I'm shocked at how many sex workers are completely okay with this fantasy and even seem to get into it. It might help that I'm not scary looking, I look more like a cross between a hobbit and an Shrek.

Wow, I thought sex workers would be extra paranoid about a guy speaking about rape fantasies.

I have been very lucky to have found 2 significant others that share the interest.

hornyjohn 06-15-2018 09:05 AM

I told my wife cuz she said she was open to everything and she seemed at first but big mistake... uses it against me all the time


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