Blood or no blood?
 

I am only posting this question because my fantasies often involve some form of blood letting....
why is it that most men when talking about raping a woman stop short of making them bleed? Is it a turn off for you guys or what?

The thought of blood in my mind equates to a cut, which means a scar. I like my nice skin & therefore am not the biggest fan of him marring it more than I already have!

I can understand that thought :) Throwing an idea out though that I incorporated into my story...my attackers making small hashmarks on my inner thigh for each rape I received so I would always have a visual reminder...sounded hot in my head :) Besides with all the tattoos, I'm certainly not going to be attractive in my 50's and beyond anyway LOL

A bleeding anus isn't out of the question.

Too much blood does not do it for me, but just a bit, say from the lash or my anal assault, means I am inflicting maximum hurt at a sustainable level.

Marking the bitch with a knife is also fun. Just small cuts on her tits, ass or face.

Blood stains are too hard to get out of clothing. :D

I am not into gore, but a cut lip from smacking the woman into submission is fine. Maybe a trickle of blood from my knife across her smooth skin so she knows I mean business.

I'm pretty sure clothing would be the least of concerns :P

Perhaps you didn't putbthe fear of God into her well enough?

I don't have anything against drawing blood on a victim, but I generally prefer it to be a side effect of something else I'm doing, rather than a specific aim. For instance, I'm more than happy to leave a victim bleeding from the asshole or whipping/paddling her so hard that it breaks the skin and draws blood. But I can't see pulling a knife on a woman to cut her skin or mark her up. If I was looking to inflict some permanent marks on a victim, I think I'd much prefer burning her with a hot metal object.

Drawing blood should be like using profanity: it's there to punctuate how serious you are about the situation. Too much, and it loses its impact. Too little, and you don't get your 'point' across.

I don't know, what about tears? I like the idea of sodomizing a bitch both with her blood, and with the most profound side-effect of her sorrow. :)

The only blood that should be present in a rape is that of a virgin's broken hymen. Other than that, wounds that leave blood leave the chance for evidence.

Slightly confused at Dok's disclaimer

He's saying that real rapists are pieces of shit and that he is only interested in role playing. And then it's a quote of some sort, something the man would say to his victim.

Doks disclaimer
 

I comprehended it...it just doesn't make much sense to me...if you are into the RP, then something about the act itself turns you on..which means you have somewhere in your brain the mentality and perhaps the switch to be an actual rapist. I guess to me the two aren't really all that different...at least not if you are good enough at the RP.

It is extremely different and worries me that you don't think so. The line between reality and fantasy. That line is clear as day, and if it isn't to you, you should get help. I don't want to be rude, but as someone personally impacted by rape (very recently with a family member is an example), I find it highly offensive that you would say something like that. Just because I enjoy this fantasy does not mean that my personal encounters have turned me on. I expect the same to be true for the men.

Q: How can you "enjoy the fantasy" and yet be disgusted by the act itself...you can't have it both ways. If you didn't get some enjoyment just thinking your fantasies could become realities...then why are you on RB?
A: If you think it is so different, and I think for most people you have to believe you would enjoy the actual act in order to enjoy the fantasy. You may not want to believe that in yourself. However I do not fantasize about sex with animals as I m sure I would not enjoy that. However there are people who it seems do. I do not fantasize about being relieved on, but again some do. For most fantasies are things they would love to do, but either are still smart enough to know they cannot or are afraid for various reasons to try. That doesn't mean if the opportunity presented itself to them they would not take the opportunity. While I too would have a hard time if a family member to use your example dealt with rape, We are not talking about family members. We are talkin about ourselves. If you seek out a discussion group regarding fantasies about rape, then you have that desire in you. Period. How you act about it is an amount of psychology I would say neither of us are qualified to offer opinions about that mean anything.

Extreme violence isn't my cup of tea; she bleeds because of the struggle and raped parts of her body. But I still enjoy seeing the blood of my victim, especially if it's her stolen virginity. I don't care anything that could be used as evidence against my character, because I really don't care whether he will be caught or not.

There's a huge difference between reality and fantasy. Maybe if I was a poor, ugly, uneducated boy who has been humiliated for whole life and never had a chance to see a psychiatrist, then maybe I could lose my mind and get depraved of virtues which makes me myself today. I can't certainly be sure if I would remain as a good man.

But whenever I obtain a non-porn movie just because I read that it has a delicious rape scene, I skip watching all the other parts of the movie. Because seeing the victim's life before and after the incident is painful for me. Of course she's just a fictional character, but it reminds me of the fact that there are raped women in real life.

And some part of the women must wish they were that raped woman, or some part of the men must wish they could fulfill their fantasy of raping said woman, or nobody would be here

The thought of blood turns me off immediately. I've seen a couple of Russian rape movies where the woman bled a small bit (presumably because the sex was rough), and the sight of blood killed any erection I had. Big turnoff for me.