Cyberrape
 

Does anyone think cyberrape (sending unwanted sexual messages electronically in real time such text, IM, etc) is as bad as actual rape?

pravjey

No, I don't think sex spamming can ever be in the same league as real rape!

I am hoping one day for a virtual reality rape.
Heck, why not, they already have virtual reality games, you put on a helmet, gloves and you feel like you are there.

It would push the envelope one step closer to the real thing.

I think it's pretty much lumped in the same category as general sexual harassment.
Still, it's not nearly as threatening as the real thing.


Think about it...
Like the other day some guy in my city just starts sending me pics of his penis through Yahoo! :rolleyes:
Okay...kinda creepy.
But not nearly as creepy as going outside and finding penis pics taped to my car or something.
Or having those pics handed to me by my boss!!! :eek:

Anyway, you just don't feel as vulnerable in front of your computer as you would in person.
So I can't really see any girl feeling "too terrified" to close whatever program she's in... or, if truly desperate, unplug something.

Actually, I fear the day our country becomes so lawsuit-happy that someone tries to take a "Cyber Rape" case to court.

I told you not to tell!!!!!!

Part of me agrees with the sentiments posted here. And yet...

I must confess that I have "committed" cyberrape of a female friend. I basically sent her a two or three unsolicited texts by phone calling her a "fucking whore" and describing what I would do to her. She told me that I was scaring her and told me to stop, which I did.

However, now I feel really bad about it.

It's unnerving and creepy to receive unsolicited sexual harassment via the internet or phone... but it doesn't quite compare to a cock forced into my ass.
So.. no. Not the same. :)

Is she hot?

:rolleyes: You're not the only cyber-perv out there...
Sorry to deflate your ego.

You're in for it now, honey.

And how!

That would be the understatement of the year. I do have pics but somehow I don't think she'd appreciate me posting them on a rape forum.

On the other hand...

whyd u do that?

Do it!

Just don't be a dumb fuck and tell her you did it.

lmao are you asking "why did he stop?" or "why did he send her those crazy messages?!" ?

Why did I stop? she was someone that I cared about and I hate myself for doing it. Reading her response, "u r scaring me..." (although admittedly a bit of turn on) was genuinely heartbreaking.

Why did I do it? That's probably too complex to give a simple answer and will probably require several sessions with my therapist. One thing I have realised is that it isn't the first time that I have been aggresive towards to a woman, although the first time that I have realised it. It's possible that I have an underlying anger towards women, which I am still trying to get my head round!

I'm sorry if this sounds like a bit of a confessional. Has anyone else had similar experiences or feelings towards their rape fantasies?

Ok, so I am a dumb fuck!

so u did it cuz u were mad at her? :confused:

Not at all...

He's referring to a deep internal hatred of women...misogyny, if you will. Aggressively texting his friend was a simple outlet

The "specialists" say that rape isn't about the sex at all...that it's about hurting the rapee. Seeing the fear, hearing the crying, knowing that you're causing life-altering pain. This gives you control/ownership over the rest of this person's life,,,holding it in your hands in this way, and crushing it. It's orgasmic.

I'm not saying that every woman-loather out there is a rapist.
These are feelings buried inside, that we tell ourselves are wrong.
Many find small outlets for these feelings.
It's why most of us are here.
We trade stories...
Role play...
And follow around certain PersianGurls who are a never-ending source of teasing...


Too many women have a sexual superiority complex.
The thought of knocking them down a peg or two is rather thrilling.

Despite the fact that I AM a woman, I harbor this hatred as well.
It's the reason I'm here.
I myself had fantasies from a very young age where I was the victim...
but as time went on...this hatred grew...and I see myself more as the predator now.

The moral of the story is, the more of a bitch you are, the more people there are that envision you used up and discarded by the side of the road one day.

Preyjay, she is VERY hot.

and LovelyPerversion....well put. :)

Prevjay, the fact that you feel bad about what you did says something for your character. Don't ever let that go. It's one thing to fantasize, there has been many women I've encountered that I've fantasized about "teaching a lesson" to. Had I ever followed through, the guilt would have driven me to painted my apartment in brainmatter grey. Point is to find a non-destructive place to channel your energy. Hang with us.

As for "cyber-rape", not in the same category, but still inflicts psychological harm, which is a main component to the physical act. So yeah, IMO, it does rank up there.