Well it's a long story (which I'll get into when we have a chance to chat) but in brief after a couple falls at her home, my mother-in-law moved in nearly 4 weeks ago - and since then we've had to rush her to the hospital twice; first with a diagnosis of lymphoma and the second time with her heart randomly flatlining, then starting up; she's now on dialysis / chemo and she just got a pacemaker installed this morning. Phew... I'm mentally exhausted... I'll need a break soon, and when it comes I'll like to give you a poke on YIM