A whirl of emotions

[RapeU]

1. Fear

I am so fucking afraid. HBB's parents looked at the history of their computer and was able to go into her email somehow. And they called my cell phone!

"Hello?"
"Yes is this Paul?"
"What's up?"
"This is Kristy's dad."
"Hang on I can't hear you well."
"This is Kristy's dad."
"Hold on, I still can't hear you. Ok, what now?"
"We looked at the history of our computer and found some pictures."
"Oh."
"Did you ask her to send you a nude pic?"
"Umm..."
"You're what? 20 years old?"
"Yes."
"Well I think you would have some more sense."
"I guess I'll..."
"You'll what?"
"I...I don't know."
"You don't know."

That's when I hung up the phone...something bad is going to happen because of this!

2. Worry

I'm so worried about Kristy! She doesn't know what has happened and when she gets home, what's going to happen to her?

3. Sorrow and guilt

It's all my fault. I'm a worthless horny bastard. Kristy's going to get into so much trouble because of this...they might hurt hur and it would all be because of me.

4. Fear again

This won't go away...they'll find me...they'll sue me or something...and then my parents will find out...and everyone would know...and I can't be with her anymore...

[somedude]

DAMN!!!!! This aint good!

[menace]

Is this for real? What kind of insane control phreaks probe their kids computers?! Even my mother doesn't go that far...

[RapeU]

Now I'm angry.

I want to call her parents back and give them a piece of my mind. Tell them that they shouldn't judge me because of how they treat her.

And yeah menace, it's for real. And I'm screwed.

[menace]

Not necesairly. How big is her dad?

[somedude]

The more important question is how old is she....

[menace]

The more important question is how old is she....

Over 18... else you'd kick her off the board, wouldn't you SD?

[RapeU]

Don't know. His voice though...when I first heard it (it wasn't today, it was the first time I called her) I pictured this:

A 6 foot tall guy with a bad attitude that can probably be fit enough to be a boxer. He has a deep, gruff voice.

Well, it's not as worse as it seems. After I hung up, Kristy's mother called me (and heard my wonderful voicemail message) and left me a voicemail.

"Hello Paul, this is Kristy's mother, not the zombie. I just want you to know that we have your cell phone number and your email address. If you EVER send another email to this house or call this house again necessary steps will be taken."

(if anyone of you wants to know why she mentioned a zombie, my voicemail says near the end "you're going to have to leave me a message unless...(whisper voice) you are a zombie. If you're a zombie, then the meeting is on at 12. Good luck"

I only wish I got the voicemail before I sent the angry letter to Kristy about her parents. I pretty much called her stepdad out for being a pathetic asshole who molested Kristy and I called her mom a worthless pice of shit for treating Kristy badly.

It seems that I have to make yet another email account. Kristy, I need you to pm me whenever you get on. I will then reply with a safe account that we can email each other with.

edit:

Just because her parents are in her buisness doesn't mean she is underage. My parents do the same thing and I'm 20!

double edit:

Well things suck...

I called them back and apologized and told them I understood the terms.

*sigh*

Why do things have to be so hard?

more edit:

Kristy, I'm glad you're ok. If you still want to talk we can pm each other instead of risk emailing each other.

[dark_d3viant]

I think if HBB wasn't comfortable sending pictures, she wouldn't have done it! It was out of order for her dad to confront you and her about your personal lives. By going into the history and getting into her email, they crossed the line and intruded into her personal space.

I hope HBB is alright :(

xx

[RapeU]

She's fine...they let me speak to her one last time...

oh here it comes...despair. sadness. grief.

edit:

but now...my sense is starting to come in...everything happens for a reason. No one event is a cooincidence.

This is just a test in our relationship. I still love Kristy, nothing has changed about that.

Our love can conquer this...and we will rise from the ashes.

[menace]

Last time? Doubt it. No force in the universe can stop a horny teen, especially if the parents say 'no' :D

[RapeU]

Everything will be ok. I see that now.

Thanks to everyone who has helped me.

And Kristy, here's something from a British poet named Keats.

"Beauty is Truth. Truth Beauty. And that is all ye need to know"

Our love for each other is beautiful and it is the truth. That's all we need to keep our relationship strong.

We will be ok. Everything will work out in the end.

[RapeU]

Crises averted, yet things are not the best.

Kristy's friend Amanda came onto yahoo. We will now talk to each other through Amanda.

I'm glad Kristy has an awesome friend like Amanda. She has made things far better.

But I don't think HBB will be back on the board in a while. Amanda told me that she can't get on the computer now.

We are both ok. We will get through this. We love each other.

[Intangible]

Hm. Let's hope this doesn't become a habit, but let's play devil's advocate again.

I have a daughter. She's only 3, so I doubt very much she's sending anyone nude pictures. She can't spell anything at all, so it's safe to suggest she's not using the computer at all either. That said, I can't imagine any age where I'd feel comfortable, even if she was twenty, with her befriending someone she met on www.rapeboard.com. I don't mean to call down the site, I've got nothing against it, but it isn't something a father is going to understand.

I don't pretend to know any of the people involved, and from your own posting it would seem that HBB revealed some prior father-related abuse, and while that is sick and wrong, it doesn't invalidate the emotional response that you're currently getting from him. He doesn't know anything about you, and if his daughter is similar to you in age, then he probably doesn't know much about the internet either, aside from the fact that Inside Edition keeps warning him about the perverts on it.

I'm not trying to excuse anything the parents have done in the past, or even say they're right to be reacting the way they did to this, only that it's a pretty understandable way to react.

All things considered, especially if you're in the same country and she's under 18, you're lucky things went the way they did, because it's very likely you've broken the law just by asking.

[RapeU]

She's not underage, but still...you are right. Things could have been much worse.

[Intangible]

If she's not underage, then you haven't done anything the least bit wrong, and there's nothing anyone can do to you for talking to her. Legally, you're absolutely safe.

[Wicked]

I'm glad things are at least partly worked out. You're both good people and a great couple, I hope things get better for you.

If there's anything I can do to help, feel free to PM me.
Rob

[ego]

I can't imagine any age where I'd feel comfortable, even if she was twenty, with her befriending someone she met on www.rapeboard.com.
Point is, if she is twenty that should be your problem, not your daughter's.
I mean parents never feel comfortable. Should children live in an aquarium???

[Intangible]

Absolutely, if she's twenty and I'm uncomfortable, it is my problem. I agree. I never said it was fair or reasonable to punish her, or for that matter threaten him (neither is), just that his feelings on the subject, rational or otherwise, are understandable.

You can't make a parent, at least a good one, or even a lot of bad ones, stop wanting to protect their kids. Most of us, I hope, have grown up and experienced parents having a hard time letting something go, and while it is irratating, it is also comforting in a way too.

And maybe I have no business commenting, I don't know any of the people involved, or the particulars of the situation. I'm not trying to work anyone up or make trouble, I just don't think that a father should be looked at as worse or bad for acting poorly despite good intentions..

I do want to add, though, that he SHOULD be looked upon badly for any kind of abuse he's responsible for.

[RapeU]

Intangible, you have a good point.

I understand why Kristy's stepfather is worried. I'm sure deep down they really both love her.

but

I still hate them for the way they have treated her. Yet I did the right thing by showing them respect they didn't deserve, thus avoiding further conflict with them.

[MADDOGMCMANAMAN]

wow

[sindyloo]

Awww Crap!! Come here Paul..(Big Long Gentle Hug) It will be okay it seems like shit now but stay true to each other!

Love each other thru all this and Love will win!!:skull-thu :skull-lov

Be gentle with her nosey folks they are protective of their little girl and always will be. But be honest with them and nice as you can and they will come around!

My heart and thoughts are with you And Kristy during this time and love you both! You guys stay in there and support each other!:skull-lov :skull-lov

[theman]

Hmmm.....

I don't know the entire story or the situation (and it's none of my business), but here's my thoughts:

You're both over 18, and she was completely willing to send the pictures, so I'm not quite sure what legal actions they could have meant unless they got her to lie to a jury and say you were harassing her.

As for them reading her email and what not, if it's their computer, or even their internet connection, I understand to some extent why that freaked them out (or if she's living in their home), but if that's not the case, I don't think they ever should have said anything about it.

She's an adult; she can handle her self.

[RapeU]

Awww Crap!! Come here Paul..(Big Long Gentle Hug) It will be okay it seems like shit now but stay true to each other!

Love each other thru all this and Love will win!!:skull-thu :skull-lov

Be gentle with her nosey folks they are protective of their little girl and always will be. But be honest with them and nice as you can and they will come around!

My heart and thoughts are with you And Kristy during this time and love you both! You guys stay in there and support each other!:skull-lov :skull-lov

Thank you so much Sindy :skull-lov

I know that everything will work out eventually. She is trying to move out in December, and when that happens her parents will no longer have as much control over her.

We are talking to each other through her friend Amanda. I am emailing Amanda telling her everything I want to say to Kristy and she is emailing me back telling me everything Kristy wants to say to me.

The beauty of all of this is they never stated to stay away from their daughter. They only told me to never call their house or email Kristy again at the house.:skull-big

I love loopholes.

[sindyloo]

awww Yes...you will make a great lawyer Paul!!:skull-big :skull-big


yes there is a way around anything huh?? You guys keep on loving each other and it will all be good!:skull-lov

[Vivienne]

Oooh shit Paul - cant believe 2 hear that!!!:skull-eek Looks the next Patients soon arrive on Vivis RB-Psychologist couch...:D
Sincerely, i hope things work out better 4U in the near future, and sure enough im there for both of You...:skull-lov:skull-lov

[Number7]

You fucking idiot, you took away the one thing that has been helping me get through my recent struggles, and now that they're over I can't even thank her.

I despise you.

[tom8517]

You fucking idiot, you took away the one thing that has been helping me get through my recent struggles, and now that they're over I can't even thank her.

I despise you.


anyone have a servicable set of dueling pistols? I would be happy to serve as a second for either party :D

[Number7]

anyone have a servicable set of dueling pistols? I would be happy to serve as a second for either party :D
No, he is not to blame entirely, I posted that while in shock.

[RapeU]

Number 7, PM me with all of your questions and I will answer them to the best of my ability.

[hornybisexualbitch]

SHH i am on at the library, i can not get back ever, i just wanted to tell everyone that i love u all, and that thank you for everything.. Thank you so much.. and Number7--email me back.. and rapeU--- thank you for everything..

goodbye..

[Vivienne]

Goodbye, Hornybee... I will miss You!:(:(

[RapeU]

Oh and I wasn't online, how sad :(

HBB I'll miss you on here, I can't wait to talk to you again my love.

[Number7]

SHH i am on at the library, i can not get back ever, i just wanted to tell everyone that i love u all, and that thank you for everything.. Thank you so much.. and Number7--email me back.. and rapeU--- thank you for everything..

goodbye..
Done and done :)

I wish you were here :(

[dashrendar44]

ive posted this before and ill post it again:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KvH127PFmcY
au revoir mon amie, bonne chance dans le monde ^_^