How many people here are masochists?

[ctomie]

As the title says, how many people here are masochists? If so, what do you want your partner to do to you?

[drmephisto]

I'll watch this with great interest.

[Jezebel]

I am most definitely a masochist, although once my thoughts start straying towards more extreme forms of torture and killing I sometimes no longer identify the victim of my fantasies as myself for some reason. This used to cause me to think that I wanted to torture someone,
but this isn’t the case at all. I couldn’t even hurt a fly. The idea of me being tortured really turns me on. My partner and I are still exploring my boundaries at this time and I don’t think he’s really into the torture thing, but I definitely know that I like to be beaten around and I have an affinity towards clothes pins :)

[rapefantasygirl]

I'm a hardcore masochist. I look for pain everywhere I can. I love tattoos and piercings because they hurt. I love exercising too much because it hurts. I like really rough sex, getting punched/slapped/shoved/choked/hair pulled/held down/ strangled/forced. any kind of physical force being exerted over me. i like struggling and feeling overpowered and weakened. if i cant get someone else to be violent with me willingly i will hurt myself, or take unnecessary risks, or provoke men to be angry with me so they will use violence. sometimes if im really desperate i will pick fights with women so that i will get hurt. i really really enjoy pain but most people are too scared to give it willingly, you have to find ways to trick them. i'm not big on humiliation or domination though.

[Jezebel]

Oh come on... no more masochists? I find that hard to believe! :)

[Louise]

Oh come on... no more masochists? I find that hard to believe! :)

Well, I guess you could call me a masochist...sure. Certainly i've had masochistic moments...

[Hellcat]

Looks like this thread has passed me by, cant say that ive ever thought of my self as a masochist ... not one to ever pigeon hole myself... but, i have most definitely experienced masochistic tendencies *sighs

[RapeU]

There's been moments. I dreamed I tortured my ex once. I think there's a story in my computer about that somewhere...

[carlybee]

Hmmm, I guess I'm slightly masochistic... I don't like marks left where I can't hide them, permanent marks, or needles. But a good whipping, spanking, choking (but not to the passing out point), slapping, pinching, biting, squeezing, clothespins, punching under the right circumstances, hair pulling, that sort of thing, really gets my blood going. And then seeing marks left on my body after is a nice reminder and makes me want to jump my boyfriend and get going again. :skull-lov And though I can still appreciate good ol' vanilla sex, sometimes my mind screams "Hurt meeeeee!!!!" during. But is that more considered rough sex or is that considered masochistic? Or both?

[Darkman]

id love to have a long cruel session with a real masochist, ive had lots of rough sex, rape play, a given more than my fair share of whippings etc but never actually been with someone who has a love for pain. Id love to experience rape and Sm like that.

[Stella Cadente]

I'm a hardcore masochist. I look for pain everywhere I can. I love tattoos and piercings because they hurt. I love exercising too much because it hurts. I like really rough sex, getting punched/slapped/shoved/choked/hair pulled/held down/ strangled/forced. any kind of physical force being exerted over me. i like struggling and feeling overpowered and weakened. if i cant get someone else to be violent with me willingly i will hurt myself, or take unnecessary risks, or provoke men to be angry with me so they will use violence. sometimes if im really desperate i will pick fights with women so that i will get hurt. i really really enjoy pain but most people are too scared to give it willingly, you have to find ways to trick them. i'm not big on humiliation or domination though.

is that all?? pfft I would do much more than that, I'm sure theres some stuff I could use:skull-big

[bizaruk]

i am rather envious of those identifying themselves as masochists and enjoying the pain. In my case i consider myself psychologically, emotionally, mentally and philosophically a true masochist. Sadly i am physically a wimp. The result is that i am ready to submit to restraint so that i cannot avoid the pain and abuse. i ask to survive encounters without serious permanent injury or disfigurement. Apart from that, i set no limits. Marks, scars are ok, and i have a lot of experience being cut, pierced, burned and sewn, apart from whipping, paddlng, caning etc. i have been hanged, garrotted and strangled to unconsciousness many times, often truly believing i was about to die. And for thos interested, i do not enjoy the abuse and pain as it appens, but the anticipation is exciting, and the recollection is my source of pleasure, which i can relive over and over again. A few pics at http://bizaruk.photosite.com/Indonesia/

[bizaruk]

sorry for the typos, i guess i should be punished ?

[Louise]

i am rather envious of those identifying themselves as masochists and enjoying the pain. In my case i consider myself psychologically, emotionally, mentally and philosophically a true masochist. Sadly i am physically a wimp. The result is that i am ready to submit to restraint so that i cannot avoid the pain and abuse. i ask to survive encounters without serious permanent injury or disfigurement. Apart from that, i set no limits. Marks, scars are ok, and i have a lot of experience being cut, pierced, burned and sewn, apart from whipping, paddlng, caning etc. i have been hanged, garrotted and strangled to unconsciousness many times, often truly believing i was about to die. And for thos interested, i do not enjoy the abuse and pain as it appens, but the anticipation is exciting, and the recollection is my source of pleasure, which i can relive over and over again. A few pics at http://bizaruk.photosite.com/Indonesia/

Wow...thats quite a post, and many thanks for the pics...thats some neat needle and thread work there. :skull-thu

[Ntense]

:D It's more fun to give than to receive, but I've enjoyed both immensely. It's darned hard to find women that relish sadomasochism, though. Most that I've met merely want to sub.

Spanking with hands paddles hairbrushes etc, wrestling & tickling, scratching, biting, slapping (except for the face), deep massage to the point of pain (gotta be careful as it hurts for hours), hair pulling, overly tight bondage (again with great care), clothes pins & assorted clamps, choking, hot wax & ice, and of course some mental torture like orgasm denial/delay.

'Nother wimp... no permanent marks, no cutting or needles. :skull-ton

[Darkman]

id love to meet a real evil bitch who wants to torture women, but so far ive only ever met sub women too

[Jezebel]

Awe poor guys looking for a dom lady. :(

I think I could be like that with women, but I doubt I could with men. Either the men are so inferior that I'm just not attracted to them and wouldn't bother, or they are (like my fiance) or have the potential to be, superior. I couldn't even PRETEND to hurt my fiance, and I could only hurt a woman if she really liked it.

[MADDOGMCMANAMAN]

i dont know which is the right word but i love to be the one causing the pain and i would love to find a girl who was into recieving pain and not just because i wanted her to. i would also love to meet a girl (like darkman says) that would actively seek out other girls and abuse them for my likings !!!

and i would also LOVE to dominate and abuse domiatrix's !!!!!!!!!

[Darkman]

i dont know which is the right word but i love to be the one causing the pain and i would love to find a girl who was into recieving pain and not just because i wanted her to. i would also love to meet a girl (like darkman says) that would actively seek out other girls and abuse them for my likings !!!

and i would also LOVE to dominate and abuse domiatrix's !!!!!!!!!

yep, that about sums it up for me too

[Ntense]

Aw, poor guys looking for a dom lady. :(
Naw, I'm on the prowl for a switch... which is a tiny minority on the dating sites I'm on. Best match so far was a 7 hour drive away, and she was as frustrated as I am... Damn. Looks like the few ladies that flag DOM are all pros, or nearly all of 'em. I'm *not* into being someone's house slave, thanks!

My moods, tastes and interests change regularly, so it's a lot more fun if my partner does, too. It's a guy's perogative to change his mind! And always follow The Golden Rule: DO unto others as you'd have them DO unto you. ;) Or "Turnabout is fair play..."

[Jezebel]

Naw, I'm on the prowl for a switch..."


So you're looking for a sub? I would imagine there would be a fair share of both subs and doms in women. I of course would have no idea, as I've never really searched for either, but judging from a woman's phsyche, I would think that as far as women INTO that kind of thing it would be about equal.

I'm pretty much willing to at least consider doing anything once...and possibly more than once.

[MADDOGMCMANAMAN]

Naw, I'm on the prowl for a switch... which is a tiny minority on the dating sites I'm on. Best match so far was a 7 hour drive away, and she was as frustrated as I am... Damn. Looks like the few ladies that flag DOM are all pros, or nearly all of 'em. I'm *not* into being someone's house slave, thanks!

My moods, tastes and interests change regularly, so it's a lot more fun if my partner does, too. It's a guy's perogative to change his mind! And always follow The Golden Rule: DO unto others as you'd have them DO unto you. ;) Or "Turnabout is fair play..."

lol hey i didnt read ur post right and i thought u was on the prowl for a witch lol...which would be a tiny minority lol

[MarcEdeSade]

Oh hell, I'm with Ntense...I pray that some bitch I'm abusing grabs my sack, drops me to my knees and "gets creative"

[MarcEdeSade]

So you're looking for a sub? I would imagine there would be a fair share of both subs and doms in women. I of course would have no idea, as I've never really searched for either, but judging from a woman's phsyche, I would think that as far as women INTO that kind of thing it would be about equal.

I'm pretty much willing to at least consider doing anything once...and possibly more than once.

no, dear...someone who you abuse but have to watch your back because she's always looking for that oppurtunity...that weakness, and when she finds it, when your guard's down, she's going to make you pay in kind for her pain and humiliation. oh hell. that's so fucking hot.

[Bound and Gagging]

I'm a masochist. I love being slapped, choked, and beaten/flogged. I actually bought my b/f a flogger for Christmas last year! lol And since I noticed piercings mentioned earlier I have a few myself though not entirely for the pain (tongue, nipples, and navel).

[nekonoire]

I am!
I actively seek both mental and physical pain (including humiliation.)
I've been lucky with my 'circle' - half can dom, half can sub, and of them half will happily switch between the two. Around half are at least somewhat masochistic, and we've got a couple of extreme dommes. It's great - it's like one great big open relationship.

[jennysub]

I am a masochist I love my man to call me horrible names, force me to do things against my wiil, I love being slapped, hair pulled, love being thrown around and slammed against the wall. I love to be roughed up sexually.

[vtxxxr]

Mmmm, would help you with that Jenny!!

[shysnale]

If I'm a masochist then I'm not aware of it.
Maybe I bring back dark memories from the past just because It gives me a head spin. It would be that kind of masochism with me...if there's more I just don't know about it.

[Ntense]

I love to be roughed up sexually.
:skull-lov

A gal after my own heart! Does your grandma live near Texas? :skull-win

I'm a genuine slut, though. Sadist, masochist, top, bottom, part-time Dom and sub both... I want it *all*.
If I were bi & poly I'd be able to plug into just about any situation. :D

DAMN! I forgot to mention rope!

[jennysub]

I love men you are in complete control

[blupheat]

I guess i'm a true masochist because i love being kicked in the balls, having them slowly squeezed, tighter and tighter then punched. I had this done to me by a girl that my friend fixed me up with when i went out west to visit him. i never thought of myself that way but they got me pretty fucked up and then she slowly did some reallly painful acts to me. inside i must have been holding it inbecause after that night, i've been into it ever since and some even more sick stuff.

[Master's Pet]

I am certainly a masochist, I've known it since I was 14. Though it's not the pain that directly gives me pleasure, but the fact that someone is giving it to me. I mean, pain still hurts. But I like being under control, whether sumbissive or fighting back. My boyfriend has permission to push me beyond my limits, and I enjoy being choked, smacked, bitten, etc. Some knife play and bondage, but no blood or electricity or "hard core" stuff.

I could only ever imagine being dominant with my ex, I think it's because he was somewhat immature and effeminate. A real sweetheart though. I wouldn't have minded making him shout, seeing a look of fear on his face.

[nekonoire]

Me!
Definitely. And *please* make sure you humiliate me while you're at it.

I've been interested in being a 'permanent' sub for a few years now too, but I'm not so sure about a 'contract' - I mean, I don't want to be getting sick, but I don't want to be creating too many limitations I may later regret.

[cryptic]

Does it count as masochism if you don't actually like pain?

i mean, i really like the idea that somebody is enjoying inflicting the pain...i'm intrigued by the thought that somebody would be deriving pleasure not only in spite of my pain, but because of it.

Is that masochism, in a different kinda way?

[Master's Pet]

Yes cryptic, that is a form of masochism. Wanting to be hurt, humiliated, controlled, etc in any mental or physical way, regardless of the reason.

[dreamgirl]

any doms who i've spoken with refer to me as a switch, because while i fantasize about being a slave/sub, i have a tendency to challenge authority with intellect and i'm physically defiant in dreams. often, i experience fantasies where i am dominating another girl (or being dominated by one), too, but having to pin down a man or dominate him is a turn off. any situation in videos like that automatically reduce my sexually interest.

masochism is a fine line for me. i'm not a "true" sm fan because the more extreme forms, i don't really find appealing. however, the thought of being kept as a slave for rough sex, whipping, spanking, smacking, forced anal, etc, well...i think i have to go take care of something now. ;]

[Ntense]

Ignore the hard-liners, you're a true fan (as are bunch of us!)

I like to bottom once in a while, but that does NOT mean I'll let some shithead burn their initials into me. Hard limit on the strap-ons as well, and any form of scarification. WAY more than half of people don't understand the first fucking thing about sanitary conditions*, so needle & knife play is right out.

You don't have to be a glutton to enjoy food...


* how many people do YOU see wash their hands in public restrooms? I want to wear a hazmat suit into most restrooms!

[Sierra]

I can't imagine switching roles with the same person. I can be creatively nasty with another submissive, but even the thought of switching roles with my current Mistress makes my hands shake and OMG I hope she can't read this.

[bizaruk]

for what its worth - i tried Topping when first discovering S/m, was no good at it, nor was i any good on the occasions i have tried since. my attitude and skillset do not suit the Dominant role. Having said that, i am not a servant typoe, more an object for physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse, all for the pleasure of the Dom/me/s. i have no taboos, and set no unreasonable limits (i ask to survive without SERIOUS permanent disfigurement or injuries), which while apparently idiotic, has not caused me to regret this approach over the past 25+ years (well, not on reflection - i often regret it once the action starts, and it is too late to back out!). As i have posted previously in this thread, i am psychologically, emotionally and philosophically a true masochist, but sadly i am a wimp physically. Hence i cannot be permitted any limits, safe words or "escape clauses" - that is the only way it can work for me. i have been branded, cut, pierced, sewn, burned, even stabbed, as well as whipped, caned, flogged and paddled, with hardly a permanent memento of the occasion, and i am always ready to submit to Sadists, not knowing, nor even needing to know, what is going to happen to me.

[Sephy]

I'm definitely a masochist, but I could never understand the pain aspect of this until I experienced it for real. Yet even now, I still find it hard to explain this to someone else who doesn't share the same feelings.

For me, I believe it took being with real Sadists for me to discover how strong this is. We learn to channel that pain into arousal and a heightened state of mind. To bear even extreme pain for another person's satisfaction fills me with both excitement and pride. And as I learned to transcend the painful sensation of the moment, I started to feel elation and joy.

Those are the most liberating experiences I've ever known.